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Kite_Rider

35 M Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 19
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Portuguese (Fluently), Czech (Okay), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
I was born in the Bay Area from a French mother and a Czech father. I grew up speaking all three languages and am a French-American dual citizen. I also lived in Saudi Arabia as a toddler. This upbringing really set the stage for who I was to become. I lived in France (Paris & Toulouse) for 5 years (2 years in 6th and 7th grade, came back to the US and then went to college there), 2 years in London (Finished my degree at the London School of Economics) and 2 years in Brazil (recently returned. I worked in asset management and volunteered teaching English every other week in a favela.) I have traveled and lived around the world and have never found anywhere that compares to the Bay Area (although Hawaii really knocks it out of the park for me.) I still am and will probably remain an avid traveler. I am very adventurous, energetic and kind-hearted. I am open-minded and trust my intuition.

I am very passionate about kiteboarding and have a spiritual relationship with the ocean. I can be in the water for hours at a time, even without a wetsuit, just swimming. I also love the mountains and snowboarding. This season I want to try snow kiting. These two sports have given me even more tools, among other things, to have a positive outlook on life. When that cold summer wind kicks up in SF, I know I can ride it; when it is raining and miserable in the winter—even though I like rain—I know it will snow in Tahoe. If you haven’t gathered it already, I love sports and being outdoors.

Oh yeah… and I am SUPERSONIC excited the NFL season started!
What I’m doing with my life
Living the dream baby!! (that's kind of an inside joke.)

Besides that (or part of that), professionally I started my career moving up the ranks to become Executive Director of a non-profit (while teaching French to make extra cash), then worked for a start-up, and now I work for a M&A (Mergers & Acquisitions) advisory for small and medium-sized tech companies.
I’m really good at
Still working on this...
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't really know, I Haven't polled anyone on that. However, a fair amount of people say that I have an accent when I first meet them, whether in French or English, but they can't tell from where. People that know me say I don't have an accent. This has always kind of puzzled me...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love to read. I take public transportation to work most of the time so that I can. For current events, I swear by The Economist. Some of my favorite books/authors are:
L'écume des jours
As I Lay Dying
Crime and Punishment
Paul Auster
Balzac
Flaubert
Hunter S. Thompson
Favorite poets: Paul Eluard and Rumi
Girl with the Dragon Tattoo
Hamlet (I've read this and seen it a trillion times it seems)
Milan Kundera
Racine
Rabelais
Albert Camus
James Joyce
Philip Roth
Steinbeck
Jiddu Krishnamurti
A New Earth
Bohumil Hrabal
Jan Neruda
Baudelaire

Movies:

The Big Lebowski: Yes, I'm one of those guys. I can carry on a conversation with a friend in Lebowski quotes.
Le Dîner de cons
Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas
Pirates of the Caribbean
Hall Pass
Star Wars
Transformers
Harold and Kumar and other silly movies of that ilk
Inglorious Bastards
Hot Tub Time Machine: that movie was hella funny!
Forgetting Sarah Marshall
Avatar
Casablanca
Kubrick
Slumdog Millionaire
Madagascar 1 & 2
Friday
Boyz n the Hood
Lars Von Trier
Caché: loved that movie!
Krzysztof Kieslowski
La haine
Les visiteurs
Les rivières Pourpres
Le péril jeune
Le père noël est une ordure
Les bronzés
La vie est un long fleuve tranquille
Une époque formidable
Les trois frères
Mon oncle
Léon
Le grand bleu
La boum
Inspecteur la bavure
La soupe aux choux
Aliens
Centro do Brasil
Black Orpheus

Music:

I have a very eclectic taste in music...

Slayer (yes, and with a passion, but I do not impose this on my surroundings) with that Metallica, Pantera, Deftones, Sepultura and all that stuff. I went to the Big 4 in April and it was awesome!

I play the bass (although I currently don't have one.) My idols are Les Claypool, Flea, Cliff Burton and Robert Trujillo.

Hip Hop (from before it died): The Roots, The Coup, NWA, Outkast, Wu Tang Clan, Souls of Mischief, A Tribe Called Quest, Beastie Boys, Goodie Mob, Nas, Dre, Snoop, De La Soul etc...

I love house, deep house, drum n bass and all that electronic feel good music. Definitely a vestige from my London and Paris days...

I love classical music: Beethoven and Mozart are at the top. My favorite movement is Vltava from Bedrich Smetana. I'm also a big fan of Dvorak. I even like Opera, but I can't listen to a whole opera, but the aria of 'Vesti la Giubba' (especially by Pavoratti) is one of the most powerful things I've heard.

And I can't leave out the French tunes: Serge Gainsbourg, NTM, iam, Charles Trenet, Charles Aznavour, Yves Montand, Bobby Lapointe, Georges Brassens...

I'm leaving out a lot...

I LOVE to cook. I grew up learning to cook à la française, but really enjoy making thai food and making stuff up or 'fusion' (the essence of French cooking.) Rain or shine I BBQ at least 3 times a week!
The six things I could never do without
Earth, WIND!!!, the ocean, a heart, a dream and some bad assness.
On a typical Friday night I am
That depends... I'd like to believe there never is a typical Friday.

I enjoy going away for the weekend, so I'm often en route to that destination. This summer I camped a lot in the delta to kite at Sherman island, epic spot! I'm also up for going out and can be convinced to go big!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love orchids and like to garden. I know, I’m a dude… However, I think that is offset by recently completing Tough Mudder in Squaw Valley with my team and coming in the top 5% thereby qualifying for the World’s Toughest Mudder! Some might say that gives me an irrevocable man card.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
-you want to. (What's the worst thing that can happen?)
-you have ANY suggestions on what I should be for Halloween.