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41 M London, UK

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:50pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Courageous, confident, creative, charismatic, cultured courteous and compassionate... cheerful and cheeky.

Here is a little about me,
I like people that smile, I smile!

I like to be keep active but am not a sports freak... I do it because I enjoy it mainly being outdoors walking, hiking, surfing, skiing, climbing, cycling, tennis, badminton it all makes me feel good. I am happiest when I can mix up a few activities into the day.

I enjoy meeting people and have done from all walks of life, Everyone has a story to tell and knowledge to share.

I like my music and enjoy a dance, the occasional festival and a good party with friends.

I prefer hot weather to cold and camping or private houses to big hotels. Have taken a number of trips hiring a camper van and even a Ford transit to tour round the UK, europe and Australia. I have travelled to many places but would love to travel to more.

I have worked in a number of careers and continue to do so hence my Cupid name being Kite_designchef, I regret that now but can not appear to be able to change it. It is a cliché but for me variety is definitely the spice of life not the case with women I would just like to find my true soulmate ..
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Getting on with it in all of it's varied forms.
Currently I am working freelance as chef in and around the city, corporate hospitality, restaurants, bistros and events. When the weathers good I teach Kite Surfing and Stand Up Paddle Board.

I started a sustainable urban design consultancy from a Master in Urban design and have worked/ studied in the field for the past 6 years but am not convinced office life is for me. I like the idea of working for myself and in the process of developing some ideas. More to follow.

Kite surfing is my current passion, the people, the adrenaline, the places...I have just finished 4 months working in Diani Beach Kenya, I took some time out whilst there to travel Kenya and climb its mountain, it was immense!. Getting out of London over the winter was also a definite perk.

When my feet are on the ground I enjoy contemporary art exhibits, festivals and events in London" I cycle everywhere, play a bit of tennis and travel when I can.

I own a house in East London brought as an investment. I have a delightful lodger who has become a good friend, she is off to work in the Cayman Islands with PWC shortly. In the long term I would like to live by the sea, which may well be a warm one.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Skipping through London traffic on my bike.
Creating a sumptuous meal using random ingredients from a kitchen cupboard.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My accent, a compilation of many.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I mainly read current affairs, news and factual. I do prefer to be doing rather than reading.

I do not watch much television but like to settle down on a comfy sofa to a movie. A fan of Quentin Tarantino movies.
Others; Wolf of Wall Street, In Bruges, Sixth Sense, Matrix, American Beauty, Stardust, Lord of the Rings 1&3, Little Miss Sunshine, Blades of Glory, Into the Wild, Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind.

For music it depends on my mood, Electronic, Indie, House, Folk, Acoustic sets, unsigned bands. Some mainstream but NOT an R&B fan, I call it 'cockdoor music' as the wining hi vocal pitches sound like the singer has trapped themselves awkwardly in a door.

As a chef I enjoy all food styles and the creativity of cooking. My prefered food is healthy and fresh combining strong flavours, using influences from Asia. I'm good at what I do and love to get compliments for my food be it from clients,friends or family.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My cycle..

Kite surfing...

My bed ....

Being outdoors.....


I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Next steps, previous steps..
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
For sure I will do a last check on the wind forecast for the weekend, if a kite session planned. Warming up ready for saturday morning, on a train, relaxing at home..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Anything just ask, no cobwebs in my closet.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You think we will get on. If you have a lust for life, the oceans, the outdoors, have a good sense of humour a caring heart and are partial to an adventure or two.. And by adventure I do not mean trips to a Westfields unless your talking about some open plains in Texas.