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40 M London, United Kingdom

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Last Online
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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Courageous, confident, creative, charismatic, cultured courteous and compassionate... compulsive liar ;)

I like people that smile, I smile!

I like to be keep active but am not a sports freak... I do it because I enjoy it, it makes me feel good.

I enjoy meeting people from all walks of life, guess that is part of living in the city. ?Everyone has a story to tell.

I like music, enjoy a good party although fussier these days.

I prefer hot weather to cold, camping or private houses to big hotels.

I work in a number of fields. It is a cliché but variety is definitely the spice of life, enjoying it most when I can fit all sorts of activities into the day.

I am not a big fan of Americans but am a big fan of Africans. It's not the Americans fault it just that they have been brought up in America. That is not to say I would not visit one day, I do have a few good American friends. mmm contradiction...I guess if we are a match you will get what I mean.

I would like to find the girl who I will share the rest of my life with....and have loads of fun along the way.
What I’m doing with my life
Getting on with it in all of it's varied forms.
Currently I am working freelance as chef in and around the city, corporate hospitality, restaurants, bistros and events. When the weathers good I teach Kite Surfing and Stand Up Paddle Board.

I started a sustainable urban design consultancy from a Master in Urban design and have worked/ studied in the field for the past 6 years but am not convinced office life is for me. I like the idea of working for myself and in the process of developing some ideas. More to follow.

Kite surfing is my current passion, the people, the adrenaline, the places...I have just finished 4 months working in Diani Beach Kenya, I took some time out whilst there to travel Kenya and climb its mountain, it was immense!. Getting out of London over the winter was also a definite perk.

When my feet are on the ground I enjoy contemporary art exhibits, festivals and events in London" I cycle everywhere, play a bit of tennis and travel when I can.

I own a house in East London brought as an investment but waned in recent years. I have a delightful lodger who believe it or not voluntarily does my washing :)I do cook for her on occasions in return. In the long term I would like to live by the sea, which may well be a warm one.
I’m really good at
Skipping through traffic in London on my bike.
Creating a sumptuous meal from random ingredients in a kitchen cupboard.
The first things people usually notice about me
My accent, a compilation of many.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I mainly read current affairs, news and factual. I do prefer to be doing rather than reading.

I do not watch much television but I like to settle down to a movie. A fan of Quentin Tarantino movies.
Others; Wolf of Wall Street, In Bruges, Sixth Sense, Matrix, American Beauty, Stardust, Lord of the Rings 1&3, Little Miss Sunshine, Blades of Glory, Into the Wild, Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind.

For music it depends on my mood, Electronic, Indie, House, Folk, Acoustic sets, unsigned bands. Some mainstream but NOT an R&B fan, I call it cockdoor music as it the wining hi pitches sound like the singer has trapped themselves awkwardly in a door.

As a chef I enjoy all food styles and the creativity of cooking. My prefered food is healthy and fresh combining strong flavours, using influences from Asia. I'm good at what I do and love to get compliments for my food bit for clients or friends and family.
The six things I could never do without
My cycle..

Kite surfing...

My bed ....

Being outdoors.....


I spend a lot of time thinking about
Next steps, previous steps..
On a typical Friday night I am
For sure I will do a last check on the wind forecast for the weekend, if a kite session planned. Warming up ready for saturday morning, on a train, relaxing at home..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Anything just ask, no cobwebs in my closet.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you have a lust for life, the seas, have a good sense of humour and are partial to an adventure or two.. and by adventure I do not mean trips to a Westfields unless your talking about some open plains in Texas.