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31 F Auckland, New Zealand

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:02pm
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Are you slightly left of center? too.
I am an adventurous, smart, creative, passionate, caring and a self-confessed nerd.

Thinking about what celebrities are up to, what designer labels are in fashion right now and all that crap tends to bore me senseless. I would much rather listen to a tech/science/movie/cultural podcast or audiobook and then share these new discoveries with like minded people. Otherwise I'm equally happy sharing some witty banter over good food and wine, or perhaps talking smack while playing a board game, or watching a great movie and talking about all the nerdy details.

The psychology degree I have was probably inspired by my fascination by all the weirdness in the world, but funnily enough what I do now is totally different. I'm running a creative wedding related biz, and though the psych degree would come in handy dealing with crazy bridezillas, I really love my job and feel lucky to be doing it.

You will rarely catch me complaining, though life hasn't been easy, I don't take the blessings in my life for granted and I like to surround myself with people who share that perspective.

Travel is high on my bucket list and I would like to meet someone who shares the desire to travel and see the world. I'd also like to own a home one day. I would like someone to snuggle up and watch films with or talk shit over good food and wine.

The ideal relationship to me is a mutually respectful, loving, honest, supportive, fun, passionate, forever-love affair and friendship.

TL/DR: I'm ace, your Mum will love me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Running a thriving little business.
Getting up to mischief with friends.
Working on DIY projects.
Plotting to buy a house.
Expanding my mind with books and podcasts.
Dreaming of my next overseas holiday....going to LA, Vegas, San Fran, NY in August.... Can't wait!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dancing my butt off like a white girl while doing housework.
Design and creative projects.
Building you an SEO friendly website.
Computers and techy stuff.
Business stuff!
Analysing human behaviour
Cooking, I love getting experimental in the kitchen...want to be my guinea pig?
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My GREAT big bushy beard!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music, film art and literature is a HUGE passion of mine...lets talk about it all! Scifi/fantasy and brit comedies are top of my list and some of my favs would be Game of Thrones, Peep show, black books and the IT crowd, I also have a penchant for post apocalyptic movies, 28 days later, the road, I am legend.

Podcasts are my addiction, radiolab, BBC discovery, the moth, weird things, savage love, and I usually have a couple pf audiobooks on the go, often human behaviour related,

My music tastes are wide and varied, some current favs are New Young Pony Club, the Heavy, Lykke Li, Jack White. Jeff Buckley will always have a special place in my heart.

As for food, I'll typically enjoy anything with fresh punchy flavours. I like to try new things and cook. I enjoy cooking classes and playing with new recipes. My day to day is generally fresh food, veges and fruits as I like to stay healthy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My PC (as I said, nerd)
Podcasts (best invention ever)
Good Friends (the family you choose)
Laughter (that belly aching good)
Passion (what is life without passion?)
Hot showers and fresh sheets (blissss)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Human behaviour, relationships, and why we do what we do and what our place is in the grand scheme of things.
My business and what I want out of life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With friends, enjoying food and wine, or relaxing with a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I know how to perform a wicked burlesque dance.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are smart, educated (self taught or otherwise), have good judgement about people and life in general, have your own biz or a career you are passionate about.
The rest is chemistry baby!