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30 M Rochester, NY

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
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Working on masters program
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English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
I recently moved out to Rochester and I'm looking to meet some new people in a new city...

Things to know:

I love traveling and visiting foreign places seems to be becoming more addicting and intoxicating with each new trip.
So far I’ve learned to tango in Buenos Aires, surfed with Australians in Buzios (Brazil), rode elephants in Laos, and swam with dolphins in the British Virgin Islands. I’ve tried paella in Barcelona, escargot in Paris, Mezcal in Mexico, Caipirinhas in Rio de Janeiro, "brownies" in Amsterdam, schnitzel in Munich, warm pints in London, scorpions in Thailand, and chianti in Florence. I was robbed in Argentina and have gotten lost in more of these place than I would like to count and have stayed in hotels and hostels that probably wouldn't be permitted to stay open in the US. I've put it all on black at the royal casino in Monaco, rode on a Venice gandola, saw the sunrise at Angkor Wat, and stood in the Colosseum and the Sistine Chapel. Hopefully, this is just the tip of the iceberg!

I do appreciate the kind of autonomy that comes with the bachelor lifestyle, but I think I’m ready for a more important type of freedom, the kind of independence David Foster Wallace refers to when he says: “The really important kind of freedom involves attention, and awareness, and discipline, and effort, and being able truly to care about other people and to sacrifice for them, over and over, in myriad petty little unsexy ways, every day.”

I believe that “what we fear doing most is usually what we most need to do.”

I am an introvert that really enjoys being around people. That statement is not as contradictory as it appears...
Because of these traits (or maybe in spite of?) I have a lot of friends on the opposite end of the introvert-extrovert spectrum.

Although I do not get to see my family as often as I would like due to being 200 miles away, I'm very close with my family and value that aspect of my life highly. As George Burns said “Happiness is having a large, loving, caring, close-knit family in another city.”
I’m really good at
Being there for and loyal to friends and family.

Being open minded and learning new things quickly.

Sports. I played every sport I could while growing up and still love playing/watching them. I've really gotten into crossfit since I moved to Rochester...

Writing. My dream job would be travel writing!
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm one handsome ass motha f*cker...then they learn how incredibly modest I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love to read and am always looking for something new and interesting to raise my consciousness or to take me somewhere imaginatively original.
Right now my favorite writers are David Foster Wallace, Dostoevsky, Rushdie, Marquez, Roberto Balano, Marukami, Alice Munro, Pynchon, Delillo, Joan Didion, & Kafka. When I'm not in the mood to put in the effort (or not feeling pretentious enough) to read these writers, I'll probably be reading someone like Chuck Palahniuk or Kurt Vonnegut. I also really enjoy Malcolm Gladwell & Michael Lewis for my information acquiring reading.

Bands/artists that I'm into right now: Japandroids, The Hold Steady, Smashing Pumpkins, Weezer, Nirvana, Frank Turner, The Pixies, The Velvet Underground, The Replacements, The Walkmen, Deftones....

TV: Game of Thrones, True Detective, The Wire, Breaking Bad, Mad Men, Californication, Black Mirror, Sherlock (the UK version).
The six things I could never do without
My Kindle Fire tablet, that little Men in Black zapper that makes people forget stuff (great if I go on a date I don't like), the key people in my life that are always loyal and there for me, music, a sense of humor, and of course....don't forget to bring a towel!
On a typical Friday night I am
While the era of Friday nights quickly turning into Sunday afternoons may be over, the occasional seeing in the dawn from the roof of a bar (or better yet, from the beach) can still be enjoyable with the right mix of people & beverages.
That, or doing the same thing I do every other night...Trying to take over the world.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
you have something interesting to say/discuss, you are a genuinely good person, or you are gorgeous. Ideally, it'd be great if you exhibited a combination of the three!