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32 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

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5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Working on Ph.D program
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My self-summary
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The rules I live by:
1. Draw boundaries carefully and purposefully. Fuck up anyone who crosses them. Defend the tribe.
2. Be better today spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and physically than yesterday.
3. Devote/Commit energy, with laser-like focus, to every chosen action.
4. Add value to the world

Fair warning. I get deep.

I kind of see my life building towards something amazing and something that is going to require more of me tomorrow than I am capable of today: physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. And so I spend my time preparing for that. An organic, soy-free, sugar-free, gluten-free, dairy-free diet; counting calories; a solid 8.5 hours of sleep; weight training; yoga; mediation; karate; ju jitsu; running; cycling; writing code; emoting; and sitting still.

Then I work my ass off. I'm good at what I do, I love doing it, and I commit to it. Until just recently, that meant pouring everything into my work and my thesis, weekdays and weekends. But, having just successfully defended my thesis, I find myself with time and energy to devote to something new. Not yet sure what that'll be...
What I’m doing with my life
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I just moved to the city to start a new job building apps and infrastructure, but I can't say for whom on here. Ask me should we ever meet.

I just defended my Ph. D. in Computer Science, which involved developing a prototype system for monitoring and effecting healthcare in our everyday lives. Imagine FitBit with something like iCloud that talks to your doctors, surgeons, nurses, insurance providers, etc. That's what I built.

My passion for it stems from having gone and going through this sort of process of self-improvement or, as Tyler Durden would say, self-destruction---I weighed 200lbs leaving high school, was shy, and socially awkward---and looking back to the boy I grew out of, I have a sense of duty to come back and help everyone else pull themselves out of their bad habits. If I can do it right, maybe it’ll help others get here too.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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300, The Matrix, Fight Club, American Beauty, Groundhog's Day, Star Wars, Troy, Braveheart, Ocean's Eleven, Pleasantville, Love Actually, Big Fish, Tommy Boy, October Sky, Love Potion No. 9, Wedding Crashers, The Breakfast Club

Fight Club, Lullaby, Survivor, Rant, Diary, Pretty much anything else by Chuck Palahniuk, Hardcore Zen, Sit Down and Shut Up, Zen Wrapped in Karma Dipped in Chocolate, The Power of Now

TV Shows
Real Time with Bill Maher, The Simpsons, Family Guy, Game of Thrones, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report

Food I eat just about everyday
Organic Apples, Zevia Zero-Calorie Pop/Soda, Organic Free Range Chicken Breast, Whey protein organic fruit smoothies, organic cage-free Omega-3 eggs, Wallaby organic plain Greek yogurt
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
oxygen, water, food, warmth, iPhone, and something I choose to die for
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Actually, most of the time, I direct my mental attention to something other than thinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't have my NYC routine set up yet.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have five scars. One from a childhood accident, one from a broken chicken pox, one from surgery, one from a sparring match, and one from a stabbing.
You should message me if
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you're exhausted of all this; if there's a part of you that's vulnerable, loving, and open to absolutely everything but that the world has forced you to guard and hide; and if you want a break for an hour, a day... maybe a lifetime. I can't promise I'm worthy of accepting that responsibility all the time, but I'll take that job if you want me to.

You have to understand your weapons---the hair, the makeup, the skirt, the heels, the smile---how to use them, yet not be consumed by them.

You have passion. You understand the artful balance of work and play. You’re supportive, nurturing, and self-aware. You live with fire, passion, drive, intelligence, and peace.