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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:54pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Strictly other
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The rules I live by:
1. Draw boundaries carefully and purposefully. Fuck up anyone who crosses them. Defend the tribe.
2. Be better today spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and physically than yesterday.
3. Devote/Commit energy, with laser-like focus, to every chosen action.
4. Add value to the world

I kind of see my life building towards something amazing that is going to require more of me tomorrow than I am capable of today: physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. And so I spend my time preparing for that: an organic, soy-free, sugar-free, dairy-free diet; a solid 8.5 hours of sleep; weight training; yoga; mediation; karate; ju jitsu; running; cycling; writing code; emoting; and sitting still.

I have Ph.D. in computer science, a six-figure salary, and the faint outline of eight pack abs, all gifts I do my best to honor on a daily basis. Something's still missing.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I moved to the city a few months ago to start a job building apps and infrastructure for Savory. You'll hear about us soon. If you live or work in midtown Manhattan, you might have already ordered from us.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
foiling the plot of supervillians
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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300, The Matrix, Fight Club, American Beauty, Groundhog's Day, Star Wars, Troy, Braveheart, Ocean's Eleven, Pleasantville, Love Actually, Big Fish, Tommy Boy, October Sky, Love Potion No. 9, Wedding Crashers, The Breakfast Club

Fight Club, Lullaby, Survivor, Rant, Diary, Pretty much anything else by Chuck Palahniuk, Hardcore Zen, Sit Down and Shut Up, Zen Wrapped in Karma Dipped in Chocolate, The Power of Now

TV Shows
Real Time with Bill Maher, The Simpsons, Family Guy, Game of Thrones, The Daily Show

Food I eat just about everyday
Organic Apples, Organic Free Range Chicken Breast, Whey protein and almond milk, organic cage-free Omega-3 eggs, Wallaby organic plain Greek yogurt
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
oxygen, water, food, warmth, iPhone, and something I choose to die for
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how we imagine these seemingly arbitrary string of accidents come to define something resembling the life and times of mankind
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't have my NYC routine set up yet.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
1) I have five scars. One from a childhood accident, one from a broken chicken pox, one from surgery, one from a sparring match, and one from a stabbing.

2) Despite some effort, I still carry a belief that I'm unattractive to the girl for whom I'm looking. In that light, you can argue that I endeavor to make up for that in everything else I do. I get that it's ultimately futile. It's my fatal flaw.... and I'm sure I'll figure it out once it's too late.
You should message me if
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you're exhausted of all this; if there's a part of you that's vulnerable, loving, and open to absolutely everything but that the world has forced you to guard and hide; and if you want a break for an hour, a day... maybe a lifetime. I can't promise I'm worthy of accepting that responsibility all the time, but I'll take that job if you want me to.

You have to understand your weapons---hair, makeup, skirt, heels, smile---know how to use them, yet not be consumed by them, i.e. be willing to part with them when the time comes.

You have passion. You understand the artful balance of work and play. You’re supportive, nurturing, and self-aware. You live with fire, passion, drive, intelligence, and peace.