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32 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:57pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from Ph.D program

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The rules I live by:
1. Draw boundaries carefully and purposefully. Fuck up anyone who crosses them. Defend the tribe.
2. Be better today spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and physically than yesterday.
3. Devote/Commit energy, with laser-like focus, to every chosen action.
4. Add value to the world

Fair warning. I get deep.

I kind of see my life building towards something amazing and something that is going to require more of me tomorrow than I am capable of today: physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. And so I spend my time preparing for that: an organic, soy-free, sugar-free, dairy-free diet; counting calories; a solid 8.5 hours of sleep; weight training; yoga; mediation; karate; ju jitsu; running; cycling; writing code; emoting; and sitting still.

The tangible results of all that, so far, include a Ph.D. in computer science, a six-figure salary, the absence of about 60lbs of body fat, and the faint outline of eight pack abs, all gifts I do my best to honor on a daily basis. If you want to know the intangibles, you'll have to bump into me some time.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I moved to the city a few months ago to start a job building apps and infrastructure for Savory restaurant group. You'll hear about us soon. If you live or work in midtown Manhattan, you might have already ordered from us on seamless.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
300, The Matrix, Fight Club, American Beauty, Groundhog's Day, Star Wars, Troy, Braveheart, Ocean's Eleven, Pleasantville, Love Actually, Big Fish, Tommy Boy, October Sky, Love Potion No. 9, Wedding Crashers, The Breakfast Club

Fight Club, Lullaby, Survivor, Rant, Diary, Pretty much anything else by Chuck Palahniuk, Hardcore Zen, Sit Down and Shut Up, Zen Wrapped in Karma Dipped in Chocolate, The Power of Now

TV Shows
Real Time with Bill Maher, The Simpsons, Family Guy, Game of Thrones, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report

Food I eat just about everyday
Organic Apples, Zevia Zero-Calorie Pop/Soda, Organic Free Range Chicken Breast, Whey protein organic fruit smoothies, organic cage-free Omega-3 eggs, Wallaby organic plain Greek yogurt
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
oxygen, water, food, warmth, iPhone, and something I choose to die for
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Actually, most of the time, I direct my mental attention to something other than thinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't have my NYC routine set up yet.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have five scars. One from a childhood accident, one from a broken chicken pox, one from surgery, one from a sparring match, and one from a stabbing.
You should message me if
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you're exhausted of all this; if there's a part of you that's vulnerable, loving, and open to absolutely everything but that the world has forced you to guard and hide; and if you want a break for an hour, a day... maybe a lifetime. I can't promise I'm worthy of accepting that responsibility all the time, but I'll take that job if you want me to.

You have to understand your weapons---the hair, the makeup, the skirt, the heels, the smile---how to use them, yet not be consumed by them, i.e. Be willing to part with them when the time comes.

You have passion. You understand the artful balance of work and play. You’re supportive, nurturing, and self-aware. You live with fire, passion, drive, intelligence, and peace.