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32 M Pittsburgh, PA

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5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Working on Ph.D program
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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
The rules I live by:
1. Draw boundaries carefully and purposefully. Fuck up anyone who crosses them. Defend the tribe.
2. Be better today spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and physically than yesterday.
3. Devote/Commit energy, with laser-like focus, to every chosen action.
4. Add value to the world

Fair warning. I get deep.

I kind of see my life building towards something amazing and something that is going to require more of me tomorrow than I am capable of today: physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. And so I spend my time preparing for that. An organic, soy-free, sugar-free, gluten-free, dairy-free diet; counting calories; a solid 8.5 hours of sleep; weight training; yoga; mediation; karate; ju jitsu; running; cycling; writing code; emoting; and sitting still.

Then I work my ass off. I'm good at what I do, I love doing it, and I commit to it. Weekdays are split between my work and my thesis. Weekends for my thesis. I hustle; they play Halo.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now, I'm getting my Ph. D. in Computer Science, which involves developing a prototype system for monitoring and effecting healthcare in our everyday lives. Imagine FitBit or Nike+iPod with something like iCloud that talks to your doctors, surgeons, nurses, insurance providers, etc. That's what I'm trying build.

My passion for it stems from having gone and going through this sort of process of self-improvement or, as Tyler Durden would say, self-destruction---I weighed 200lbs leaving high school, was shy, and socially awkward---and looking back to the boy I grew out of, I have a sense of duty to come back and help everyone else pull themselves out of their bad habits. If I can do it right, maybe it’ll help others get here too.

On the side, I'm working for a tech startup company in NYC. Check us out:
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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300, The Matrix, Fight Club, American Beauty, Groundhog's Day, Star Wars, Troy, Braveheart, Ocean's Eleven, Pleasantville, Love Actually, Big Fish, Tommy Boy, October Sky, Love Potion No. 9, Wedding Crashers, The Breakfast Club

Fight Club, Lullaby, Survivor, Rant, Diary, Pretty much anything else by Chuck Palahniuk, Hardcore Zen, Sit Down and Shut Up, Zen Wrapped in Karma Dipped in Chocolate, The Power of Now

TV Shows
Real Time with Bill Maher, The Simpsons, Family Guy, Game of Thrones, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report

Food I eat just about everyday
Organic Apples, Zevia Zero-Calorie Pop/Soda, Organic Free Range Chicken Breast, Raw Organic Annie's Chocolate Chip Granola Bars, Whey protein organic fruit smoothies, Large Organic cage-free Omega-3 eggs, Bare Naked Fit Granola, Wallaby organic plain Greek yogurt
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
oxygen, water, food, warmth, iPhone, and something I choose to die for
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Actually, most of the time, I direct my mental attention to something other than thinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Someone always has something going on.

Side note: Someone on here is going to have to explain to me why meeting up for a drink, even if it's right away, is a big a deal. It doesn't seem any different than going out with your girlfriends and bumping into a guy at a bar. I the only one comfortable talking to strangers in that situation?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have four scars. One from a childhood accident, one from a broken chicken pox, one from surgery, and one from a stabbing

update: have a fifth one now
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you're a 9 or a 10. If you don't have guys bowing at your feet, you're not going to offer me any emotional growth.

You have to understand the hair, the makeup, the skirt, the heels, the smile, and how to use them.

Then, know your passion. Know your vision for a fun, vibrant, joyful life, either structured and detailed or open and flowing, and communicate it.

And I have to know that you see that big picture too and understand the artful balance of work and play, that you’re supportive, nurturing, and self-aware, and that you live with fire, passion, drive, intelligence, and peace as much as I do.

Update: if you have a problem with Blurred Lines by Robin Thicke but see nothing wrong with Bruno Mars' entire catalog, don't bother.