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53 Dover, NH Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 39–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 28
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Has kids
English, Sign Language

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My self-summary
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In a nutshell, I'm looking for someone that I can crack up with. You know, the kind of uncontrollable laughter where your eyes are clamped shut and your mouth is wide open but you're not making any sound at all, and you double over and fall from your chair in slow motion to the floor and drop your book and you can only mouth the word "Cramp! Cramp!!" while you point to your side. Then when you think you're over it and try to say something you instantly start up again before you can get a word out. Then when you're out at dinner hours later you still can't stop the giggles that come in waves while you're trying to eat. And then when you ask what it was that was so funny you can't remember and that realization makes you crack up all over again. I love that.

What I am hoping to feel about someone (wish I had said it first but it's a quote from James Bond in Casino Royale):

"I have no armor left. All that I am, all that is left of me....I am yours."

Of course, if I tried to say something like that it would probably come out as "Hey I trimmed my nose hairs for you!" So you kinda have to know what I mean when I say stuff.

Although I am not a prince I found out recently one of my childhood friends who I had a crush on (who I haven't seen for 35 years -- we were at the 'Wonder Years' age when we lived in the same place overseas) told me she always remembered me as her Prince Charming for defending her when another friend was saying bad things about her. So there's that.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have worked in environmental labs, been a long-term full time stay-at-home dad, worked in telecommunications, now re-evaluating. Was married for 11 years, divorced for 7 years now, two teenage kids. Being a stay-at-home dad was very rewarding but has cost a lot in terms of career development. I have a very real understanding of what happens to moms when they leave work for long periods of time and trust me, it's not only women that have a hard time catching up after that experience. But I am glad I spent that time with my kids when they were little.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
... making chocolate chip cookies from scratch. 30 minutes from ingredients to a soft warm cookie in your hand. On a cold winter Sunday afternoon there's nothing better..... well, there's a couple things that are better, but the cookies make those other things better too! ;-)
The first things people usually notice about me
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Not sure. I don't usually ask people that question.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Serious books, non-fiction history/politics, pre-history, books and topics that the big mainstream media publishing houses won't publish because it would be dangerous for those in true positions of power if the people knew the truth. “It is well enough that the people of the nation do not understand our banking and money system, for if they did, I believe there would be a revolution before tomorrow morning.” ~~ Henry Ford, founder of the Ford Motor Company.

Movies better make me laugh or think or I feel like I'm wasting my time -- intelligent comedies, not silliness, (but I guess that's a judgement call), documentaries.
I like jazz and blues (live is always better).

Here are a few things I like, not really mainstream stuff:
"Daulton Lee";
"Third Wind";
"And I Love Her";
"Close To Home"
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Music
2. chocolate
3. beach/coast
4. friends
5. French toast with real maple syrup and chocolate chips
6. The 6th thing is yet to be revealed. Maybe it's you! But how will I ever know?? ...... could be bacon though too. And if it's between you and bacon ... well, let's proceed with caution.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
World issues, my future, my kids' future, and mermaids.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
This is an odd question -- isn't everyone either out for drinks or dinner or a movie, with friends, or else at home?? I guess it's relevant if someone says they're home cleaning their rifle and reading Mein Kampf or survivalist manifestos in a room with one exposed light bulb hanging from a frayed electrical cord from the ceiling -- that would be information you could use in your screening process.

But seriously, the 'what' doesn't really matter, it's the 'who with' that counts.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Have never seen Breakfast at Tiffany's.
You should message me if
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You should message me if my being a work-in-progress is okay with you. I am a little shy at first but getting to know me will bring out a perspective you will hopefully have fun with. I do get a kick out of myself sometimes. :-)

OR, you should message me if your profile includes the desire for me to make you laugh and something in my profile did that for you.

You should NOT message me if your screen name has '4U' in it (seriously, about every third profile name has '4U'! WTF???); or if your profile has the same stuff that all the other profiles have, or if your profile is lifted from someone else. Looking for some originality, not a formula. Also, sarcasm is not an endearing personality trait. A lot of women's profiles seem to think that is something a guy would be looking for -- don't know why that is.