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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 39–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 26
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Has kids
English, Sign Language
My self-summary
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First, just an OKCupid observation: I love it when it says 47% match and there is no write-up whatsoever from the other person. Ha! What are these numbers based on?? Anyway ...

In a nutshell, I'm looking for someone that I can crack up with. You know, the kind of uncontrollable laughter where your eyes are clamped shut and your mouth is wide open but you're not making any sound at all, and you double over and fall from your chair in slow motion to the floor and drop your book and you can only mouth the word "Cramp! Cramp!!" while you point to your side. Then when you think you're over it and try to say something you instantly start up again before you can get a word out. Then when you're out at dinner hours later you still can't stop the giggles that come in waves while you're trying to eat. And then when you ask what it was that was so funny you can't remember and that realization makes you crack up all over again. I love that.

What I am hoping to feel about someone (wish I had said it first but it's a quote from James Bond in Casino Royale):

"I have no armor left. All that I am, all that is left of me....I am yours."

Although I am not a prince I found out recently one of my childhood friends who I had a crush on (who I haven't seen for 35 years -- we were at the 'Wonder Years' age when we lived in the same place overseas) told me she always remembered me as her Prince Charming for defending her when another friend was saying bad things about her. So there's that.
What I’m doing with my life
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Just trying to figure things out.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
... making chocolate chip cookies from scratch. 30 minutes from ingredients to a soft warm cookie in your hand. On a cold winter Sunday afternoon there's nothing better..... well, there's a couple things that are better, but the cookies make those other things better too! ;-)
The first things people usually notice about me
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Not sure. I don't usually ask people that question.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Here are a few things I like, not really mainstream stuff:
"Daulton Lee"
"First Circle" -- favorite song (best if played loud through headphones);
"And I Love Her"
"Are You Going With Me" -- other favorite song (it's a tie);
"Close To Home"
Pat Metheny "Medley"

My reading is varied and interesting, almost all non-fiction, hidden histories, new archeaology, things that bring a fuller understanding to today's world and how we got here. I need to be fascinated by what I'm reading. This kind of reading has helped me come to terms with things like movies, TV, shows, food, politics, music, education, medicine, news media. My world view has evolved in ways I never would have expected, and it continues to change, and I love that.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Books
2. chocolate
3. beach/coast
4. friends
5. French toast with real maple syrup and chocolate chips
6. The 6th thing is yet to be revealed. Maybe it's you! But how will I ever know?? ...... could be bacon though too. And if it's between you and bacon ... well, let's proceed with caution.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
World issues, ancient history, my future, my kids' future, and mermaids.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
This is an odd question -- isn't everyone either out for drinks or dinner or a movie, with friends, or else at home?? I guess it's relevant if someone says they're home cleaning their rifle and reading Mein Kampf or survivalist manifestos in a room with one exposed light bulb hanging from a frayed electrical cord from the ceiling -- that would be information you could use in your screening process.

But seriously, the 'what' doesn't really matter, it's the 'who with' that counts.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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1.Have never seen Breakfast at Tiffany's.

2.When I return my grocery cart to the cart corale I always straighten out the carts. Not because I'm anal because I'm definitely not. But have you seen those kids out there in the blazing hot sun in the summer or the frigid frosty wind in winter retreiving the carts and they're all just in there all pointing different directions like at the bumper cars when you are trying to find the one you want? It's a simple courtesy that takes no time at all. If you get nothing else from my profile at least make the commitment to straighten the carts at the grocery store. Then if I see you doing it maybe I'll approach you there! It will go something like this -- Me: "I see you straighten the carts. I do that too." You: "Yeah, some guy made a point about it on OKCupid so I started doing it too." Me: ".......THAT WAS ME!!"
You should message me if
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You should message me if my being a work-in-progress is okay with you. I am a little reserved at first but getting to know me will bring out a perspective you will hopefully have fun with. I do get a kick out of myself sometimes. :-)