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35 Hayward, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:35pm
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Not at all
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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I am an ambitious creative spirit seeking to find that special someone to share the journey of life with. I am currently a student and an author of several soon to be published novels- for me writing is the most engrossing activity in which one can partake. I love creating characters and am always inspired by the people around me wherever I go. I am at heart a bit of a nerd which often contradicts my imposing exterior,,, but eh, what can you do? I harbor the hope that nonjudgmental people still roam the earth. Adventure and awaits around every corner for those daring enough to tread beyond the border of the pavement.
What I’m doing with my life
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Writing, growing stronger each day mentally and physically, training to be a cage fighter or the next monster in a future horror film franchise. Jk. I am seeking to learn more about everything,,,looking to expand my knowledge and become the wisest of the wise. Lol, anything is possible in this life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Hoisting weights above my head, exercising, writing, listening to people, coming up with ideas, being the quiet secret in the room, being polite and tactful, expecting the unexpected.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My intimidating build- my ominous black man presence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Resort by Bentley Little, The Odd Thomas novels by Dean Koontz. Movies- Ghostbusters, The Blair Witch Project, Shawshank Redemption. Shows- The Walking Dead, Restaurant Stakeout, anything with Gordon Ramsay.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1- Weights and exercise. 2- Sanity. 3- Literature, both creating it and reading it. 4- Hygiene 5- Periodic stretches of quietude. 6- The positive memories from my childhood.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future, things I saw or heard, the planet getting attacked by zombies or a hostile alien invasion force. Immortality, reincarnation, what is occurring in the next person's mind.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sitting at the desk writing. Not a big date person. Schmoozing through texting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like my privacy.
You should message me if
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You are thoughtful, genuine, open minded, enjoy the calmer side of earthly existence, have a nice smile, know how to laugh.