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Kopfkompott

23 Karlsruhe, Germany Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–99
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My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:40am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Native American, Indian, White
Height
5′ 2″ (1.58m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Pisces
Education
Job
Unemployed
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Dutch (Poorly), French (Poorly), Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
TL;DR NEW!

Hai I'm looking for people to chat and/or hang out and chill with.

If you're interested in having a platonic long-term contact give it a try! (Not looking for a relationship or sex)


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Around most people, particularly at the beginning, I'm really calm and quiet, because I first need some time and information to assess how "open" I really can be. I'm not the kind of person to just randomly throw crude jokes and macabre stories around if I'm not sure, whether everyone involved is alright with that.
Being respectful and tolerant of others' feelings is very important to me.

Once I warmed up to people I can be pretty weird, quirky, funny, cuddly, enthusiastic, stuff like that.
There are times where I'm really hyper, having bursts of laughter, talking random bullshit and just being totally nonsensical.
I have a morbid sense of humour and don't care too much about political correctness, as long as no one gets hurt.

I love being around people, even if I myself don't actively participate in their doings. I enjoy just being an observer. Being alone together is great too. It's nice to know that someone is there if I'd suddenly come up with a great idea I need to share or generally if something comes up that I just really need to discuss or do.
A lot of things are just so much more enjoyable if shared with others. If I'm watching a movie alone there's not so much of a point in laughing about the funny parts, because in a way the fun I had feels "unreal" since there was no one to reflect it off, as reassurance of my own reality.

Most of my time is spent chatting with others and listening to music, rather low-key. I also enjoy watching movies, TV-shows, videos on youtube, reading and learning about new things. I'm curious about a lot of things, but it can be hard to get into something new if it's a huge topic and I don't know where to start. I really love when others are really passionate about something, be it a movie, a band, an activity, or a whole field of interest.

I don't necessarily plan to keep my life that low-key.. it might or might not just be a phase. I'm generally not much of a planner, I rather just live for the day.

I'm in my own head and thoughts a lot and personal development is a big key point in my life. I spend a lot of time thinking about what I want in life, what's important to me, what my ideals are, who I am and why I am.

I highly appreciate if people are just straight-forward and honest. I don't enjoy weird social games, they're rather irritating. If you expect something, then you just gotta state it and ask. Unless of course you're fine with nothing happening.

You probably shouldn't take anything I say too serious.
Chances are
a) I meant something (potentially completely)different, but didn't find the right words
b) I changed my mind
c) I wasn't serious (irony, sarcasm,..,...)

I'm an idealist. I have unrealistic ideas of what the world should be like, and sometimes defensively cling to them and refuse to adapt.
I can both see the positive and negative sides about most things, and thus easily relate to different viewpoints. However, within an discussion I often seem to only see one side, as I like to play the devil's advocate and just take up the opposition. I do this in order to better understand your viewpoint, to find out why you think the way you do and also to get possible new data for myself to consider.

If you like labels, I mostly prefer mental illnesses. You could say I'm depressive, probably with ADD (attention deficit disorder). I might also just be a hypochondriac.
And if you're familiar with MBTI/socionics: I am an ENFP. It's true!
(Here's one description of an ENFP)
Enneagram: 6w7 sx/sp.

What else... well, I am a scatterbrain... I might drop in seemingly unrelated stuff, draw weird conclusions and connections, I somewhat identify as agender, panromantic and gray-asexual, am pretty forgetful about most things. My desk is a mess most of the time, my whole flat is a mess, depending on my overall mood. Though I actually like order and nicely sorted things. And sorting things! Every now and then I spend hours just to get my music library perfectly tagged or to get the perfect structure in my pictures folder.

The end. °‿°
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Overanalyzing it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
● drawing
● being creative
● empathising (doesn't mean I sympathise though :P)
● listening
● making people feel at ease
● making a fool out of myself
● learning / understanding new concepts
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
They don't usually go up to me starting with "Hey, I just noticed....!" but I suppose they might notice, that
● I don't care too much for my appearance
● look angry or bored
● am quiet

or

● I'm very hyper
● talkative
● smiling like a dork
● furiously waving around my hands
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
BOOKS
I barely ever read a book, since I can't keep my concentration up long enough. If I'd read something, then probably either factual books or psychological thriller á la Richard Laymon. Other authors that might make me pick up a book: Jack Ketchum, Harlan Coben, Sebastian Fitzek.
Also, I've never read Illuminatus!.

Apart from that I can't read their books, I could probably enjoy at least audiobooks maybe of Terry Pratchett, Stephen King.

MOVIES
Hesher, Léon: The Professional, Hard Candy, The Dictator, Funny Games U.S., Moon, Into the Wild, Amélie, The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, Antichrist, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Mr. Nobody, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Grave of the Fireflies, Donnie Darko, Phone Booth, Limitless,..

SHOWS
American Horror Story, Community, House, Game of Thrones, Better off Ted, Sherlock, Adventure Time, Dr. Who, Malcolm in the Middle, Home Improvements, The Ren & Stimpy Show, Little Britain, Dr. Slump, ..

Here's a TV show I'm still waiting for:
Bee and PuppyCat

MUSIC
Chiptunes, pop, rock, country, classical, rap, metal, glitch hop, outrun electro, acoustic, ambient, singer-songwriter, electro-swing, no idea, just whatever I like at that moment..
it's probably easier to sort out what I will most likely not like, unless it has superawesome lyrics maybe: Schlager, generally a lot of traditional music, minimal..

Here are a few examples:
Berry Weight - Magician's assistant
Secede - Leraine (Feat. Kettel)
Plaid - Hawkmoth
Phutureprimitive - Cryogenic Dreams
Parov Stelar - Libella Swing
The Prodigy - Stand Up
Marcus D - Kindred Spirit (feat. Emancipator)
Grimes - Vanessa
Rodrigo y Gabriela - Tamacun

GAMES
Oblivion, Mass Effect 2, Fallout 3, Animal Crossing, Tetris, Dragon Age, Red Dead Redemption, Theme Hospital, Discworld, Neverwinter Nights, Creatures 2, Terranigma, Seiken Densetsu 3, Kirby Super Star, Chrono Trigger, FTL, Terraria, Heavy Rain, Pokémon, Demon's Souls, Assassin's Creed,..

A great flash game, of the Butthug webcomic:
THE TUBE ADVENTURE

FOOD
Pancakes, sour apple spaghetti, sushi, baklava, cheddar cheese (or old gouda), white nougat, cookie dough, liquorice (at least 7.99% salmiak),..

here's a webcomic I like, check it out:
Butthug
and another one
Hyperbole and a Half
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
M
Y
S
E
L
F
(hey, I mean without myself I wouldn't exist.. obviously. Most other things are pretty interchangeable. And "oxygen" et cetera got kinda old)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
a lot.

I might include some examples here:

Adapting to a specific stereotypical lifestyle, just for fun.
For example, intentionally not cleaning up the flat, ordering pizza, leaving two pizza pieces in the crate, one somewhere thrown against the wall. Everywhere are empty packages, dirty undies and other clothes, the TV is constantly running and I'm eating chips in front of the PC. It's like creating your own little documentary or movie about another person, just without the cameras.

What it would be like if houseflies were pets. And we would walk them on leashes and have them on our hands, carefully stroking them with our pinkies.

Values. What I think is good or bad. I mostly fail to come to any conclusion, leaving most things vague, relative and rather without a set value.

Conversations I will probably never have.

Currently the word "Käse".. or generally words, etymology..

Why things are the way they are. Trying to imagine of which atoms something consists of.

The beginning of the universe, what might have been before, and what will be after it dies.

Why other people act the way they do.

If I should leave the house or if there's theoretically still enough food left.

Food.

What it would be like if you styled your room in a way that made it look and feel completely like nature, without actually being nature (though maybe a few real-life plants in pots here and there).
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Chatting and listening to music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I lie.

I also occasionally pee my pants when either jumping, laughing, sneezing or coughing.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
(pick at least one:)

● you understand that I'm not searching for a love relationship or sex

and/or

● you know with some certainty which MBTI type you are (especially if you're an INFP, ENFP or INFJ!)

● you live close to me and want someone to be alone together (meaning: let's meet up and then each one of us minds their own business! Books and laptops or handhelds are recommended, unless your own mind keeps you busy enough)

● you're weird or broken