Hai I'm looking for people to chat and/or hang out and chill with.
If you're interested in having a platonic long-term contact give it a try! (Not looking for a relationship or sex)
Around most people, particularly at the beginning, I'm really calm and quiet, because I first need some time and information to assess how "open" I really can be. I'm not the kind of person to just randomly throw crude jokes and macabre stories around if I'm not sure, whether everyone involved is alright with that.
Being respectful and tolerant of others' feelings is very important to me.
Once I warmed up to people I can be pretty weird, quirky, funny, cuddly, enthusiastic, stuff like that.
There are times where I'm really hyper, having bursts of laughter, talking random bullshit and just being totally nonsensical.
I have a morbid sense of humour and don't care too much about political correctness, as long as no one gets hurt.
I love being around people, even if I myself don't actively participate in their doings. I enjoy just being an observer. Being alone together is great too. It's nice to know that someone is there if I'd suddenly come up with a great idea I need to share or generally if something comes up that I just really need to discuss or do.
A lot of things are just so much more enjoyable if shared with others. If I'm watching a movie alone there's not so much of a point in laughing about the funny parts, because in a way the fun I had feels "unreal" since there was no one to reflect it off, as reassurance of my own reality.
Most of my time is spent chatting with others and listening to music, rather low-key. I also enjoy watching movies, TV-shows, videos on youtube, reading and learning about new things. I'm curious about a lot of things, but it can be hard to get into something new if it's a huge topic and I don't know where to start. I really love when others are really passionate about something, be it a movie, a band, an activity, or a whole field of interest.
I don't necessarily plan to keep my life that low-key.. it might or might not just be a phase. I'm generally not much of a planner, I rather just live for the day.
I'm in my own head and thoughts a lot and personal development is a big key point in my life. I spend a lot of time thinking about what I want in life, what's important to me, what my ideals are, who I am and why I am.
I highly appreciate if people are just straight-forward and honest. I don't enjoy weird social games, they're rather irritating. If you expect something, then you just gotta state it and ask. Unless of course you're fine with nothing happening.
You probably shouldn't take anything I say too serious.
a) I meant something (potentially completely)different, but didn't find the right words
b) I changed my mind
c) I wasn't serious (irony, sarcasm,..,...)
I'm an idealist. I have unrealistic ideas of what the world should be like, and sometimes defensively cling to them and refuse to adapt.
I can both see the positive and negative sides about most things, and thus easily relate to different viewpoints. However, within an discussion I often seem to only see one side, as I like to play the devil's advocate and just take up the opposition. I do this in order to better understand your viewpoint, to find out why you think the way you do and also to get possible new data for myself to consider.
If you like labels, I mostly prefer mental illnesses. You could say I'm depressive, probably with ADD . I might also just be a hypochondriac.
And if you're familiar with MBTI/socionics: I am an ENFP. It's true!
Enneagram: 6w7 sx/sp.
What else... well, I am a scatterbrain... I might drop in seemingly unrelated stuff, draw weird conclusions and connections, I somewhat identify as agender, panromantic and gray-asexual, am pretty forgetful about most things. My desk is a mess most of the time, my whole flat is a mess, depending on my overall mood. Though I actually like order and nicely sorted things. And sorting things! Every now and then I spend hours just to get my music library perfectly tagged or to get the perfect structure in my pictures folder.
The end. °‿°