First of all, I'm a cross-dresser -- meaning I'm a guy that likes to dress up like a girl every now and then. Move along if you have a problem with that, or if that's just not your thing.

I'd be quite happy to share more details about it all if you're interested, just ask away. It's a bit too private and hard to explain in a summary like this.

Even so, I am very much into girls and consider myself fairly straight. My biggest dream would be to find someone that perhaps enjoyed being with someone just as girly as themselves. I don't really expect to find my soul-mate so to speak at OkCupid, but I'd like to find some new friends, someone to get girl tips from or maybe just someone to flirt with if I'm lucky.

But make no mistake, there's more sides to me than this. Though I'm quite open about it online, in real life it's a whole other story. 90% of the time, I'm your average normal guy. Bruce Wayne during the day, Catwoman at night. Thus I'm overly paranoid and don't show my face here, but I don't mind showing you if you ask me for it.

I'm really interested in movies, photography, Japan, World of Warcaft, and body modification. I don't have many myself (yet!); only a retired piercing and two poorly self-done scarifications.

I find joy in the small fleeting moments in life and I'm a hopeless romantic at heart. I probably nerdgasm more than i orgasm. Or at least I try to keep a healthy ratio.

I'm a completionist. A perfectionist that's not perfect. Give me a game with a high score list I can beat over and over. Give me social networking sites where I can fill out details and answer questions endlessly. I'm a sucker for anything with stats, achievements and the likes.

I take life easy, as I hate stress. Some might say I'm lethargic -- I say I'm easy going and relaxed. I'm a high school drop-out, with no real education -- though I don't consider myself particularly dumb. I don't know what to do with my life, but still I'm not too worried. I'll get there in the end.

Honestly I don't excel at anything. And I'm not being modest in any way -- if I was good at something I'd brag about it as much as I could get away with.

I'm pretty good at playing every class in World of Warcraft. This is however a rather sad thing to be good at.

I can code a decent web page in PHP. As long as you don't expect it to be done in the fancy OOP-way.

Probably my long hair, and that I look young for my age.

I'm a huge film buff. I like a lot of different stuff, but to give you an idea of my taste, some of my favorite movies includes Casablanca, Kind Hearts and Coronets , Lawrence of Arabia, M, Clash of the Titans, anything by Miyazaki. No, I don't just like old movies, but I find myself more easily drawn towards them. I currently have ~2300 movies/series in my IMDB vote list, scary.

Some of my favorite series includes The Office (US) (I'm usually a huge fan of british comedies, but I did NOT get into the original The Office at all, even though I love Gervais), Rescue Me, Dexter, The Big Bang Theory, Family Guy, Numb3rs, Black Books, Arrested Development, House, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Mythbusters, Dirty Jobs, 30 Rock, The Wire, [Psych]... and well yea. Sorry you list-hating people, I like lists.

My musical taste is all over the place. I listen to everything from Bruce Springsteen, Iron Maiden, Darkthrone to Kanye West. My current obsession is Pendulum (think Prodigy, but without the sucking part). I'm absolutely in love with mash-ups and cover songs. You can find me listening to the most low-fi raw black metal one moment, and my favorite Justin Timberlake song the next.

As for books, I'm not really sure what I like. I grew up hating reading because of mandatory novels in middle school, and didn't find the way back to it until a few years ago. I enjoyed the Harry Potter series immensely, and I'm a huge fan of Haruki Murakami's books. Fell in love with The War of the Worlds, The Hobbit, The Alchemist, Anansi Boys and much more. Still trying to find my way -- my bookshelf is overrun with books I've been meaning to read one day, but I never get around to it anymore.

Computer, lip balm, music, movies and skirts. The last would be a tie between chocolate and panties. Both of which are fun in their own way.

I should probably have put more meaningful things like freedom etc. on that list, but meh... skirts > freedom. Not to mention it would be obvious and boring, both things I consider myself not to be.

- Whether I'll ever find someone that will like me for who I am.

- How much I want to learn how to play the piano and how to sew my own clothes. I was pushed into watching Project Runway, and I've been addicted every since.

- Wishing I was the sexy beast that is Mike Rowe.

- The grand adventures I would have if I was the last person on earth. Granted being alone in the world would probably suck, I still think I'd have a complete blast. First thing I would do would be to find myself a head quarter of sorts, where I'd horde stuff. After watching too many doomsday movies, I'd probably go find myself some weapons of sorts, just in case zombies actually exist. I'd go crazy in clothing stores, smash things and go urban exploring. The possibilities are endless!

- "Imagination will often carry us to worlds that never were. But without it we go nowhere". I'm pretty sure if there was a God, it would turn out to be Carl Sagan.

In front of the computer playing World of Warcraft, reading or watching a movie/series.

That I think I can pin-point the exact time that lead to my cross-dressing... Age 13-14, growing up shy, not much contact with girls. Out of town cousin and her friend sleeping over, said friend's panties suddenly miraculously found themselves in my possession. Uhm, yea...

- I suck at making the first move, so if you should find me interesting and want to talk, please do message me! I'm rather apprehensive about messaging people, because even though they might have listed themselves as liking guys in one way or another, I'm not exactly the average guy.

- You like shy, innocent, feminine guys that enjoys the girly side of life.

- You are flirtatious with a kinky streak in you. I like people with assertiveness.

- If you have an abundance of clothes you don't know what to do with and feel like donating something. I'm poor, let's talk.

- You play World of Warcaft. Let's share Hogger stories (I actually play Horde, but oh well)!