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33 M New York, NY

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Pisces, and it matters a lot
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), C++ (Fluently), Swahili (Okay)

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My self-summary
(The following is an honest, philosophical musing of my life... don't worry I don't talk like this in real life...)

I'm an ambitious idealist. I've held onto the same dreams for more than 20 years now even despite the antagonism that has raged against me to deny the jewels of my quest...and yet, I still find myself venturing forward. If you were to see a picture of my life journey so far, it would look like a meandering, winding path, veering left and right, stagnating at certain points, circling itself, perhaps going backwards sometimes, but ultimately, still moving towards the horizon. What that future destination is, I am unable to see at the present, but the vision of myself, formed in the naive, innocent daydreams of my childhood is still clear, and is what compels me to walk this road less traveled. I do hope, that someday, that is what will make all the difference.
What I’m doing with my life
- keepin it gangsta dawg keep it gansta

- I travel to Asia a lot for work. To date I've been to Tokyo, Taipei, Tainan, Pusan, Shanghai, Beijing, Hong Kong and most recently Bangkok.

- I try to learn as much as I can about...everything. I have a particular interest in science, philosophy and religion. I spend a lot of time in museums, especially Moma and sex museum...jk

- I like crossfit training and staying in shape and stretching and eating Wendy's. I realize this isn't necessarily an ideal combination, but its just that Wendy's is really good. You should try it with me sometime.
I’m really good at
Enjoying pizza.
Picking on someone who is smaller than me..
The first things people usually notice about me
That I sound very much like Keanu Reeves. Apparently I resemble him too, but I don't see it...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
1. 2001 Space Odyssey
2. Godfather
3. Lord of the Rings - Return of the King
4. Blade Runner
5. Minority Report
6. Inception
7. Seven Samurai
8. Braveheart
9. Akira

Pink Floyd, Arcade Fire, Jefferson Starship, Bon Jovi, Goo Goo Dolls, Massive Attack, anything Mozart, Tchaikovsky, The Cure, Gato Barbieri, Ella Fitzgerald, most Trip-hop
The six things I could never do without
- TKD roundhouse kicks
- wendy's
- poland spring sparkling water
- ipad (well i just realized this last year after I bought one)
- petting small yapping puppies
- halal food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
1. what my next tasty meal will be. when I'm not thinking about that, career stuff, specifically, the future, what am I doing now, and am I doing it as best as I can.

2. One life to live. Make it count. How do I decide to do with the time that I have?

(warning, some confusing philosophical yammerings ahead)
3. I was raised Christian, but I am currently engaged in a mighty intellectual struggle with skepticism. It scares me to death, knowing that I may live my entire life, however long that is in ignorant bliss, only to discover at the end of it that the truth had passed me by. If having truth empowers us to live an objectively meaningful and fulfilling life, then I'd be damned (literally) if I failed to seek it out and understand it and be transformed by it.

Practically, I think taking a rational approach to my search will yield the I'm examining all the different worldviews, trying to find one that is philosophically defensible, that is to say, that its totality of claims are logically coherent and consistent and stands contrary to all others. I'm not trying to sound smart here, I'm just using the jargon of the manner (ie philosophy) by which I believe will ultimately convince me of the one worldview that I hope to someday commit myself to.

4. Why asian men have such a bad rep in western culture especially as romantic types and alpha males. Sure we dominate the field intellectually and academically and nerdly...but why aren't asian men desirable romantically and sexually?? Fuck!!!
On a typical Friday night I am
Watching Batman movies...looking at pictures of puppies...wishing i owned a pet puppy...hoping to meet a yapping puppy on the street while going to wendys
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
One time I saw this hot looking cougar so I go up to her and I sti- [DELETED DUE TO EXPLICIT CONTENT -OKC STAFF]
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You are nice...and you want to go to wendy's with me now

And you have an answer to #4 above...