I try not to judge others, and when I do, i make sure to take a step back and re-think it over. Nobody's a fan of labels placed on them by anyone but themselves. I've had to live though that my whole life; being asked to identify with being black, white, native-american, and sometimes even my religion.
I try and think I'm a nice guy. The only times I've been mean is when I'm flirting and that isn't always so bad =P
Oh and the name is Michael by the way