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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 29–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 3:44pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Some focus, some truancy. and some jazz.
Norma Rae -- when she stands on the table
enneagram; toe the introvert/extrovert line
equally lively and sloth.
kinesthetic, affectionate, playful, feminist
would rather be sweating than cold
late night walks/runs
dedicated bouts of reading. sometimes I have a dirty mouth but mostly I'm polite. Am a social worker but I don't do social work.
90s kid, I remember the blue light of my first macintosh computer with more nostalgia than a family album, although those are nice too.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
stat/programming in a sort of think tank for the city. I walk there and it makes a difference. Otherwise, climbing up on my roof, which is just a slab of concrete and pipes but has box seats to the manhattan bridge. Staying active, writing, yoga, weekday adventures, over proofreading, voice notes to Columbia, charging my phone in bars like a schmuck, thinking about SAS.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
having a long term memory
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that I remind them of Anne of Green Gables
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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my brother's keeper, james baldwin
MMRP, eve ensler
the wire, david simon
s politics, kate millet
7 types of ambiguity, eliot perlman
before, irini spanidou
to be of use, marge piercy
the god of small things, arundhati roy
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
hair elastics
urban moonshine's bitter serum
oren's slow drip
tara brach's orations
affina's chair massage
54 2nd avenue
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
anticipating, old/dirty/howling new york, fantasizing about how to send the Basic mob and the brunch supermob (nothing against breakfast) over the GW bridge and then lifting the gate interminably, that I never do laundry, metabolic states, how super it feels to give people subway directions, the 5 second rule.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
quiet or not
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I still sleep with a stuffed animal
You should message me if
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Thoughtful, saucy, empathic, a bit wanton, and you like the mechanics of things.
And funny ups everything.