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30 DeWitt, MI Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:47pm
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Not at all
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Name's Mathew, it's a spelling error, a mistake that worked out better than anything I could have planed. It's common and unique all at the same time. I'd say that fits me pretty well. I typically go by Mat but, I answer to a wide variety of nick names.

I have a passion for creative movement arts (Dancing, Gymnastics, Martial Arts, Capoeria, Stage Combat) and any creative expression related to freedom of movement. I adore the crafting of stories and weaving of words (writing, acting, role-play). I'm a geek, a gamer and an open minded liberal. I'm into historical swordplay/fencing. I read a lot, mostly Fantasy or Sci-fi and enjoy writing in those genera as well. I adore felines and have been described as a bit catlike myself for traits like my insatiable curiosity.

I am not afraid to ask questions and am honest to a fault. I've practiced transcendental meditation for most of my life, spent a great deal of time exploring philosophy (both eastern and western) and am fascinated with the way the mind works and the study of thought and perception (Epistemology, psychology, logic, Vedic Science). I'm very interested in holistic healing modalities and how the mind, body and spirit work in harmony.

I enjoy deep conversation about complex subjects and welcome friends who can (and will) challenge my ideas and aren't afraid to let me know if I'm being a jerk or ignorant about something. I try to be the kind of person who will push the people I care about to think and grow; and hope they do the same for me.

I'm a playful spirit and would love to find someone to be playful alongside. I admire passion, compassion, intelligence and creativity. I think strong-willed women, who are proud of their femininity and are not afraid to step outside traditional gender roles or challenge the status quo are awesome.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting lost
crafting intricate tales and complex story-lines.
Dancing (or so people tell me...)
Heartfelt public speaking
Stuff... I think... this is kinda tricky I have a lot of skills I objectively know I'm good at, and lot of people tell me I'm good at but I feel shy about saying something. I don't like to feel like I'm bragging.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can't really speak to what people actually notice about me first, but I hear a lot of comments about:

My hair
My being short (5'3")
Whatever strange thing I'm doing at the time.
The way I move (being able to do flips draws a lot of attention)
A lot of people have commented that I'm very polite/respectful.
I get asked a lot if my name is actually spelled with 1 T. It is.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Listing this seems like such a daunting, intimidating and time consuming task. There are just so many things I enjoy in life... if I just started in on the books or video games that come to mind I could be here a while...

I rarely bother with the idea of favorites, I just have stuff I like a lot, stuff I like somewhat and stuff I don't like. It's rare for any one thing to stand out enough to be a favorite.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
'I could never do without' is so dramatic, let's say I wouldn't do well if I didn't have the following in my life for a prolonged period.
-A Cat
-The ability to creatively express myself physically and mentally.
-Friends and family.
-A good book or story to read.
-A job or something meaningfully productive to do with myself.
-A computer.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why I think or do the things that I do. Then I wonder why I spend so much time over-analyzing my own thoughts and behaviors and why my attempts to alter them so rarely actually work out.

I have an hyperactive curiosity, apparently it is fun to tease it by dropping hints that kick it into over drive and then withholding the details which would satisfy it, until I have been sufficiently driven wild with curiosity.

Also, I'm always creating worlds and stories in my head.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Coming home to relax to unwind with some video games, read a book, play with my kitten and prepare for whatever set of adventures are on the agenda for the weekend.

Honestly, Fridays are typically pretty boring when compared with my weekends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Over the in the Questions sections of Okcupid I've already admitted to a lot more than I'm entirely comfortable with...

It's hard for me not to answer almost anything when it's asked directly. Oddly I'm good at confidentiality, I will take other people's secrets to my grave, But I'll probably tell you anything you want to know about me, provided you know what to ask.

I have trouble knowing when to shut up sometimes and can make myself sound a lot worse than I am because I'm over willing to admit my (sometimes imagined) faults.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You find me interesting and would like to get to know me or have questions about anything on my profile. Nothing else I could say here really matters, you either will or wont choose to contact me and I really don't know how well we are going to hit it off until we actually talk... regardless of whatever preconceived notions I might have.

I know it can be a hard to break the ice so here are a few random things it's easy to get me to talk about:
-Good books (especially Fantasy or Sci-fi)
-Writing, telling stories or wordplay.
-games (video/board/role-playing/physical games)
-Freedom of movement and the creative expression of dance or other movement arts.
- martial arts, fencing
-Nerdy/Geeky stuff
-and tons of other things I can't think of right now.