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KrimsonJ

34 / F / Bisexual / Single

Riverside, California

Her Details

Last Online
Jun 28, 2011
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Other
Income
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am one of those people you can take nearly anywhere and I will have a great time given some good company. The list of things I won't do is quite short and so far includes country line dancing... yeah, not a fan of that. I can't see myself enjoying ice fishing either.

I love museums (the more bizarre the installation the better); dancing (especially goth/ industrial clubs); poetry readings; coffee shop philosophy, meandering in the desert, on a mountaintop, or beaches; cons (especially comic-con or santacon); basically socializing anywhere there's a vibrant atmosphere, hole in the wall vibe, or stimulating conversation. I have a passion for learning and view the world as a playground.

I'm non-monogamous but very ethical in the relationships I create. I strive for a strong level of trust, passion and compassion.

I am passionate, vibrant, and creative

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What I’m doing with my life
I love my career and am building up my private practice as a massage therapist while also working part-time at a chiropractic office. I've been a therapist for about 12 years now. Someday I hope to own my own practice and not just rent a room. I'd also like to go back to school for a double degree in holistic nutrition and naturopathy. My long term goal is to someday open a sort of holistic healing practice and team up with a range of practitioners to offer clients a variety of preventive health care options. I'm a single mama to a very lovely young lady.

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I’m really good at
... being a good listener and a loyal supportive friend. I seek growth and a healthy balance in all the relationships I create be they intimate, friendship or business partnerships.

... putting my thoughts and ideas into words.

... challenging myself and learning from my environment and experience.

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The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes and welcoming smile. The fact that I dwell somewhere outside those boxes. That I'm usually smiling or laughing and have a youthful vibrance.

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Literature: My literary taste ranges all over the scale. I will just as readily read fiction as I will non-fiction, any subject that catches my interest. I am an avid reader who devours books.
Some of my favorite fiction includes: The Sensualist by Barbara Hodgson, Jitterbug Perfume by Tom Robbins, the entire discworld series by Terry Pratchett (how does he maintain that level of humor?), Geek Love by Katherine Dunn, and Jonathon Strange And Mr. Norrell by Susanna Clarke...

Film: My taste in film can't be categorized easily either. I am very eclectic in my choices of cinema. The movies that touch me the most are those that induce an emotional response, positive or negative.
Some favorites: The Corndog Man, The Princess Bride, Ichi the Killer, Cannibal the Musical, Fire, The Cabinet of Dr. Caligari, The Stendhal Syndrome, Le Nain Rouge (The Red Dwarf), Amelie, Delicatessen, Zombie (Lucio Fulci), Reservoir Dogs, Allegria, The Brick, Metropolis, Cecil B. DeMented...

Tunes: I have an extensive library of music and quite a variety. I love to just let my iPod randomly pick for me.
Favorites: Assemblage 23, Apoptygma Berzerk, Beborn Beton, The Cramps, Atom & His Package, Faith and the Muse, Abney Park, Lesbians on Ecstasy, Amanda Palmer, The Dresden Dolls, Ani DiFranco, The Pogues, Patti Smith, The Bastard Fairies, Sleepytime Gorilla Museum, Charming Hostess, Collide, Concrete Blonde, Das Ich, Einsturzende Neubauten, Emilie Autumn, Hanzel und Gretyl, The Legendary Pink Dots, Lunachicks, Loreena McKennitt, Marianne Faithful, Mindless Self Indulgence, Moi Dix Mois, Oneiroid Psychosis, Rasputina, Poxy Boggards, Suzanne Vega, Stolen Babies, Tom Waits, Utah Phillips... there are a lot of favorites missing from this list, but you get the idea...

Dining: Spice and variety is the key here. I love such complex combinations that confuse my senses.
Favorites: Vegetarian/ Vegan (although I do try to eat some fish), Sushi, Japanese, Thai, Indian, Ethiopian, Mediterranean, Macrobiotic...

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The six things I could never do without
... my zany/ loving/ conscientious/ amazing daughter.
... my incredible friends with all their love and support.
... a vast library of books to feed the brain.
... music to feed my soul.
... meditation to bring me back to balance.
... love and passion.

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
everything. I am one of those individuals whose brain is always spinning at a much faster speed than speech can relay.

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On a typical Friday night I am
... working before I hit the club or a fabulous drag show.

... unwinding with a luxurious bath while devouring a book.

... hanging out with the beautiful people in my sphere.

Every day is something new. Who knows where I'll be on a Friday night?

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am an extremely open and sincere person. I don't tend to have secrets. Also, being an exhibitionist, private is not necessarily my thing.

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I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 25-37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
... you would like to chat.

... something here spawned a thought or question.

... you love a good cup of coffee.

... there's a book you think I just have to read.

... any other reason that comes to mind.

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