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43 M Springfield, VA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:36am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
No shirtless selfies here--sorry, girls--can't be showing off the goods for free.

I am curious, reasonably smart, usually polite, often direct (hopefully tactful), funny--in that Chandler from Friends kind of way. I enjoy cooking, sports (tennis, ultimate, biking), traveling (lived in the UK for a few years, traveled in Europe, a bit of the Middle East and Africa), art and music (especially going to see live bands/orchestras). I'm laid back, but have to work at it.

For all you marathoners out there--I may join you in training for a couple of miles, but beyond that, a tiger had better be chasing me to get me to run any distance.

To those who are curious (and in Washington it's the burning question), I work for a federal law enforcement agency that has its own TV show (two, actually).

I apparently like parentheses.

And Scotch. Scotchy, scotch, scotch...

I'm looking for a partner who wants to join me in some adventures, somebody who's curious, looks for new experiences, and wants to grow together. I'd like someone who is more optimistic than me, laid back, fair, and loving.
What I’m doing with my life
Working for The Man. But I actually enjoy it most days.
I’m really good at
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Stand, Ian Rankin novels, Lonesome Dove, Empire Falls, the "Sharpe" series, Long Walk to Freedom

Movies: Casablanca, LOTR, Philadelphia Story, His Girl Friday, Star Wars (IV and V), Raiders (I and III), Lost in Translation, Caddyshack; Dark Knight; Star Trek II, Lawrence of Arabia, Usual Suspects, Millers Crossing, Cinema Paradiso, Hitchcock, just about anything with Christopher Walken

Shows: The Wire, Family Guy, Burn Notice, Psych, Breaking Bad, Dr. Who, Top Gear, Arrested Development, Family Guy, X-Files, 24, Les Mis, Avenue Q;

Music: Beatles, Stones, 80s (New Order, Smiths, Eurythmics, Kate Bush), Jazz, blues, salsa, African (Senegal, Zimbabwe, Mali); Joe Henry, Chuck Prophet, Alejandro Escovedo, Cowboy Junkies, Neil Young, Thievery Corp., Faithless, The Chieftains

Food: Indian, Thai, Italian, Lebanese, and Greek
The six things I could never do without
passport, warm socks, towel, 6-7 hours sleep, credit card, bottle of water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
whether I should get rid of the beard and what it is with Oxford commas and parallel parking.
On a typical Friday night I am
...sitting down with a beer (or wine) and a movie, going to happy hour, or to see a band
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I did it before and I'd do it again.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 32–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you're curious or feel like taking a double dog dare.