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44 Springfield, VA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 34–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Today – 5:11pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Politics / Government
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I have a friend who tells me I have a fatal flaw when it comes to relationships. Namely, I fall into the "friend zone" so quickly it precludes romance. I'm looking to change that. She also told me I'm much better looking in person than I am in these photos. God, I hope so.

I am curious, reasonably smart, usually polite, often direct (hopefully tactful), funny--in that Chandler from Friends kind of way. I enjoy cooking, sports (tennis, ultimate, biking), traveling (lived in the UK, traveled in Europe, a bit of the Middle East and Africa), art and music (especially going to see live bands/orchestras). I'm laid back, but have to work at it.

For you marathoners out there--I may join you in training for a couple of miles, but beyond that, a tiger had better be chasing me to get me to run any distance.

To those who are curious (and in Washington it's the burning question), I work for a federal law enforcement agency that has its own TV show (three, actually).

I apparently like parentheses. And I don't care what my OKC "Personality" says, I can be romantic, dammit!

And Scotch. Scotchy, scotch, scotch...

I'm looking for a partner who wants to join me in some adventures, somebody who's curious, looks for new experiences, and wants to grow together. I'd like someone who is more optimistic than me, laid back, and loving.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working for The Man. But I actually enjoy it most days.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyelashes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Stand, Ian Rankin novels, Lonesome Dove, Empire Falls, the "Sharpe" series, Long Walk to Freedom

Movies: Casablanca, LOTR, Philadelphia Story, His Girl Friday, Star Wars (IV and V), Raiders (I and III), Lost in Translation, Caddyshack; Dark Knight; Star Trek II, Lawrence of Arabia, Usual Suspects, Millers Crossing, Cinema Paradiso, Hitchcock, just about anything with Christopher Walken

Shows: The Wire, Family Guy, Burn Notice, Psych, Breaking Bad, Dr. Who, Top Gear, Arrested Development, Family Guy, X-Files, 24, Les Mis, Avenue Q;

Music: Beatles, Stones, 80s (New Order, Smiths, Eurythmics, Kate Bush), Jazz, blues, salsa, African (Senegal, Zimbabwe, Mali); Joe Henry, Chuck Prophet, Alejandro Escovedo, Cowboy Junkies, Neil Young, Thievery Corp., Faithless, The Chieftains

Food: Indian, Thai, Italian, Lebanese, and Greek
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
passport, warm socks, towel, 6-7 hours sleep, credit card, bottle of water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
whether I should get rid of the beard. UPDATE: It's gone.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...sitting down with a beer (or wine) and a movie, going to happy hour, or to see a band
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I did it before and I'd do it again.
You should message me if
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you think I seem clever or you're willing to take a double dog dare