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KsETool

29 Westland, MI Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 24
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I was looking at another profile's list of "What I'm looking for" and was like "huh, that's a pretty solid description of me," so here is said regurgitation:

intelligent, curious, confident, down-to-earth, funny, self-aware, emotionally mature, driven, considerate, kind, sane, and passionate

I consider some of those traits to be more defining than others, but they're all accurate.

I had been working at my dream job for 2+ years when I was very unexpectedly and baselessly fired in April of this year. When this happened, some of my professional contacts suggested I go into business for myself, so that's exactly what I've been working on for the past eight months. I have what amounts to roughly a five year plan that begins with my current 100% internet based business and ends with a brick and mortar retail store in a climate that's a lot more hospitable than Michigan. Location tbd.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My business is the tabletop gaming industry - board games, miniature games, trading card games, role-playing games. When I was growing up, a store that catered to these hobbies carried me through my introversion and social anxieties to help me become a well-adjusted adult. This underlying principle of adding good to the world and helping people build relationships (social or otherwise) to enrich their lives is why I've started my business empire (Right now it's just me, but I have big plans! BIG PLANS!). It also helps that tabletop gaming is one of my favorite pastimes. Win-win.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being honest about my character, both the good and bad. This can often come off as somewhat egotistical, but I think it's a waste of time and energy to deny our shortcomings or be modest about our strengths.

I have a remarkable mind for trivia. I'm forever curious about everything.

I have a huge vocabulary and love flexing it.

Math, spelling and grammar.

Taking care of my woman in bed. I'd rather give than receive and I've gotten many positive reviews over the years.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My warm demeanor. Though I am poor with the small talk, I still manage to make pretty good first impressions.

My deep, manly voice. People are routinely surprised by it since such a rumbling bass should not come from a man who's 6'1" and 180lbs. At least once a week someone tells me I should sing/work in radio.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love all ethnic foods more than any American fare. SUSHI has to be my #1 love, but I also dig Indian, Mediterranean, Chinese, Thai and I'm always excited to try new things.

I tend towards more non-fiction than fiction these days because I'm interested in why we humans make the choices that we do, but I love a great narrative regardless of it being fact or fantasy - i.e. Fight Club, Ender's Game, Siddhartha, The Tao of Pooh, Tao Teh Ching, A Brief History of Time, The Hitchiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Harry Potter, Watchmen, The Tipping Point, Blink, Outliers, The Snowball: The Authorized Biography of Warren Buffett

I love the movies. As in, the experience of going to the cinema. It was something my family did together a lot and I have a lot of fond memories related to it. So, of course, I enjoy movies themselves quite a lot as well. If there's a flaw in my movie tastes, it's that I'm not a huge fan of 'subtle' cinema. I like my movies to give me a very visceral reaction. Whether it's love, sadness, excitement, or fear, I want my movies to make me feel something - i.e. All movies in the Marvel Cinematic Universe, Christopher Nolan's Batman Trilogy, Fight Club, Spider-Man I & II (NOT III or The Amazing Reboot Junk), All X-Men movies, The Boondock Saints, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Memento, Se7en, The Usual Suspects, The Matrix, Ghostbusters I & II, TMNT I & II, A History of Violence, Pleasantville, Garden State, Stranger Than Fiction, American Psycho, The Big Chill, Juno, American History X, Die Hard (A Christmas Classic), Live Free or Die Hard, The Holiday (I love chick flicks with substance), Insidious (Movies can still be terrifying w/out the gore are awesome), Get Him to the Greek

TV Shows: Sons of Anarchy, Dexter, Spartacus, All Star Trek (to varying degrees), Firefly + Serenity, Stewart/Colbert, Dollhouse, American Horror Story, United States of Tara, Game of Thrones, The Following, Gotham, Arrow, Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D., The Flash, The 100

Music: Tool, Lamb of God, Rage Against the Machine, A Perfect Circle, Killswitch Engage, Boysetsfire (aka Boy Sets Fire), Unearth, As I Lay Dying, Deftones, In Flames, Nine Inch Nails, Thursday, Slipknot, System of a Down
I appreciate most things that fall under the giant heading of "rock" and I'm okay w/ a fair bit of hip-hop and anything that makes me feel the urge to dance, but there's no appeal to hardcore rap or country for me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends that are my family
Music
Peanut Butter
Sex
Intellectual Stimulation
Love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I just spend a lot of time thinking. My brain rarely slows down. I'm never bored. I can sit quietly for long periods of time without difficulty. Once in a while I have trouble falling asleep just because my brain is working in overdrive, but mostly I like the way my head works because it means that I'm always considering alternative possibilities and points of view and making calculated, dispassionate decisions. I'm the opposite of impulsive. That doesn't mean I'm not adventurous, but it means I have very few regrets in my life because I don't act without thinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dancing, drinking, playing Friday Night Magic, preparing for weekend work events, relaxing at home, playing video games online with friends, playing board games created after 1990
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have no secrets. I fearlessly share all aspects of my character and will happily answer any direct question posed to me.

The most fucked up thing to happen to me this year is that I was catfished last month. 29 years old and this was the first time in my life b/c A: I'm naturally trusting until you give me a reason not to trust you, B: I assume and look for the good in everyone. To this very moment, I cannot fathom why someone would waste their time pretending to be someone they're not. I would rather do literally anything that adds value to my life or the life of someone else. Because I don't spook easily, when he flipped the script from "I'm a 21 year old girl" to "I'm some dude that's going to fuck with your friends and family," I talked him down fairly easily by never reacting with anything but positive remarks ("I'm sorry the world has been so shitty to you that you think this is a reasonable and worthwhile way to spend your time" "If you really want to make a change, I'd be glad to meet you for coffee just to hang out"). But when I saw him on https://www.reddit.com/r/r4r again trying to lure guys pretending to be a girl, I responded in the thread that "This is a guy that needs to find something better to do with his time" knowing full well that I would incur retaliation and, sure enough, he sent me a screenshot of the filthy spam he was dropping on my facebook friends. And if I had another chance, I would make the same choice to protect those faceless reddit masses from that pathetic predator with no regard for personal repercussions. Though I wouldn't flaunt some of the information this troll was trying to embarrass me with, I'm not ashamed of anything about my character. But let me now tell you from experience, it is fucking difficult to get Facebook to remove content that you can't see yourself :-p
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Having some combination of the below traits probably means we'll be more compatible, but they're not necessary:

-You are self-aware, emotionally and/or existentially
-You like to exercise your brain
-You like metal and going to concerts
-You rank sex among your favorite activities
-You consider yourself to be some kind of nerd (In my experience, that just means you're passionate)
-You skip the small talk when meeting someone. I'm here to make a genuine connection. Small talk is just the superficial stuff you share as you're talking about the experiences and passions that define you.
-You are familiar with board games created in the last 20 years
-You want to share experiences with me. I find most things in life to be more enjoyable when you do them with someone you care about.