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Kumensia

26 F Bloomington, IN

My Details

Last Online
Jul 24
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Strictly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and very serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
If I were to summarize who I am, I would call myself...

A dreamer. Constantly looking to possibilities outside the mundane. A believer in the fantastical and mystical without falling into the traps of superstition and thoughtless whims. Neither am I dictated by the purviews of traditional religion or science, dragged down from wonder by what I should or shouldn't believe according to social climate. I have created my own spirituality, formed out both my intuition and logic, and I am intrigued by various occult philosophies. According to societal labels I could be tagged as an 'eclectic pagan' or even branded as a 'hippie.' I simply look beyond the surface in a personal quest to delve into what's out there. The threads of reality, so to speak. The reason as to why we're here.

A geek. I am inclined towards creative pursuits such as reading (fantasy and sci-fi), writing, and roleplaying, gaming, music, science (especially biology), history, philosophy, and many other things intellectually oriented or pursued by those of the nerdy or geeky persuasion. I am addicted to the internet.

An artist. Becoming a master at art is a dream goal of mine, and I have a long ways to go. I am a digital artist of sorts, drawing fantasy and supernatural characters, sometimes rendering them in 3D and most of the time, painting them into photoshop on my wacom tablet. It is something I highly enjoy and take pride in. Message me and I'll send you a link to my deviantart gallery. Lately, I've been spending countless hours just falling into what I call 'art comas.' Getting paid to do it is absolute nirvana, and I just adore getting my vision for people and places out in visual form. I am also a musician, and while I haven't been focusing on that aspect of my life in a while, I am a highly skilled cellist and pianist in both classical and jazz. I aspire to learn guitar as well. I also write; novels and spiritual ramblings. You can say I'm an artist in many mediums.

Eccentric and shy. I've never gotten along well with people, but not because I'm stand-offish. It's because I'm a very gentle and timid person, and I tend to close up like a little turtle in public. I'm better online, but I've been always extremely nervous around people and as such I stutter and sometimes act strange. It takes some time for me to open up, but once I do I'm highly loquacious and chatty . Despite my problems regarding talking to people, however, I am an extremely good judge of character and I can read people and their personalities almost better they can do so for themselves. I try to be friends with everyone who wishes to reach out to me, but I'm terrible at starting conversations or friendships so it's better if people talk to me first. Keep that in mind if you consider talking to me. I'll open up eventually if you're patient!

I could write more, but I think that's good for now…
What I’m doing with my life
I've decided that I wish to be a digital artist for concept art, so I'm going to college for a Fine Arts degree. Otherwise, I want to be a writer, spread my ideas into the world regarding my unique belief system for the world. Maybe one day I'll write a book or series of books on my thoughts.

Meanwhile, I'm forging ahead in life, working in the family business.
I’m really good at
understanding people. I am empathic and sensitive to others, trying to be a very good friend to those who reach out. I am honest, loyal, and compassionate. I tend to give good advice--at least, people say I do. Like I should be a therapist or something along those lines. I would, if it didn't take all that much school. I also have my own issues to get through!

I'm also talented at art and music and other forms of expression. It's just something I do. I am perceptive and observant to an extreme, and tend to think outside of the box. In fact, I have no idea where the box even is.

Not that this is a talent to be proud of, but I'm also good at creeping people out. I tend to stare past someone's eyes, and absorb the flicker of life around them. Because of that and my quiet nature, I can appear quite aloof.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am tiny. I weigh very little, I have an extremely slight form with no fleshiness to speak of. I literally have the figure of one of those stick-thin runway models. I don't mind being scrawny, but sometimes it's frustrating to keep the weight up.

Then, I have a very unique fashion sense. I tend to wear clothes that are not in style at all. Hand-me-downs, goodwill hauls, things on sale... But somehow I make it work. I tend to go for flowing skirts, sweaters, bohemian prints, with a very elven or 'gypsy' style. I wear too much jewelry as well, in the forms of rings, necklaces and bracelets. I am a lover of shineys, it's not my fault!

I will never be seen without makeup in public. It may be a mask, but I feel comfortable with it. I love artistic, slightly too-dark-for-daytime 'witchy' styles of makeup with dark eyeliner and smokey colors. I am naturally vampirically pale, so I usually play that up even more.

My hair is also unique in the way it is not layered and styled, and very long and naturally straggly. The color shifts in hue occasionally, but it is normally a mild blonde to golden brown. I sometimes play with lighter blonde or red hair colors. Maybe purple streaks, if I'm feeling whimsical.

I'm also very very quiet. That's pretty noticeable, I've found.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Fantasy, Horror, Sci-Fi. H.P. Lovecraft, Michael Moorcock, George R. R. Martin, R.A. Salvatore, William Gibson, and others. Plenty of literature as well. Hermann Hesse, Walter Mosley, Honore de Balzac, George Orwell. And especially the works of Edgar Allen Poe and Shakespeare and Homer. I read a LOT, so it's tricky to put my favorites here. I have so many.

Movies: ...Fight Club. Silent Hill. Lord of the Rings. Then shows. Star Trek, Battlestar Galactica, Stargate, Firefly, True Blood, Doctor Who, Dexter, Rome, Camelot, Spartacus, Game of Thrones, Walking Dead. Then Anime: Cowboy Bebop, Death Note, Hellsing, Claymore, Ghost in the Shell, plus others I can't think of.

Music: WAY TOO MUCH MUSIC. Considering I have thousands upon thousands of artists that I like... I'll name main genres. Classical. Jazz. Metal. Industrial. Dubstep. Trip Hop. Music from all cultures and styles and subcultures. Some good/older rap. Everything from Rachmaninoff to John Coltrane to Psyclon Nine to Collide to Megadeth. Seriously, I'm obsessed. I will tell you now I tend to eschew the mainstream, but not in the 'hipster' way. I just like things that are a bit offbeat, and more containing skill, creativity and innovation in sound, than pandering to trends or societal desires. To note, however, I have a few guilty pleasure pop artists that I won't mention here.

Food: I'm a vegetarian, so no meat. I also have celiac disease so I like things that have no wheat barley or rye. I eat way too much yogurt and fruit and granola. Berries are crack to me. I am a hippie so most of what I imbibe is organic and pure and wholesome. I live on 'peasant food.' Though occasionally I like a nice gluten-free pizza.
The six things I could never do without
Gluten-free food. Again, I have a severe allergy to wheat. Not quite deadly, but I get quite ill if gluten gets in my system. So to be healthy and happy, I need purely non-gluten food. Meat-free, as well, since I am vegetarian.

Caffeine, in the form of pills and tea. I need caffeine to be creative, stay awake in my strange sleep schedule, and not be horribly grumpy. I love tea, too. Tea is the best way to calm myself down, and get myself in a sort of art or writing coma. Mint infusions, fruit-flavored green, and earl grey are my favorites. I'm also in love with chai, both hot and iced.

My computer (and wacom tablet.) The internet is a requirement for my daily human interactions, and I need the computer to do most of my art, since I am a digital artist. Without it, I get quite squirrely, overly talkative... I pace, I rant and I am extremely twitchy. So yes, I must commune with the cyber gods daily.

My musical instruments. Cello and piano in particular. I need them to make beautiful sounds, to get tension out through wailing on a piano etude or calm my spirit by playing a Bach prelude. I adore my piano and my cello both, so having access to them is a must.

My pets. I have a cat and two budgies, and by extension a dog (which is my mother's.) My cat is my source of cuddles during the day, and he provides quirky companionship since he is a rambunctious scoundrel. My budgies, or parakeets, are working in the direction of being tame, and they are a joy to have in my room. They keep me company with their cheerful chirping and their clown-like antics. I need them in my life to stay sane.

This is obvious, but I need my family and my few friends. They mean so much to me and without them, I probably wouldn't be here writing out this profile.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
...life and the meaning of it. Whatever I'm geeking out over at the time. I'm constantly working on artistic projects, thinking over events in my RPGs, pondering my pseudo-philosophical ideas and am generally lost in a frenetic spinning cycle of creativity.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably in an art coma. That, RPing on an online chat, taking a walk in the dark, daydreaming, huddled in my room enjoying solitude or meditating, reading (I read a LOT), watching anime or catching up on shows, and anything of the sort. I'm not a party-girl so you won't find me at parties or a bar. I'm quite reclusive. I joke, calling myself the 'Blonde Recluse' since I love spiders.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a very weird person. I like tentacles.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–99
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're equally weird and don't mind a somewhat flighty, easily-distracted, kooky individual to talk to. If you have an open mind and a penchant for pseudo-philosophy and geekitude. Or if you're simply wanting company. Anything at all!

I'm here for friends and those of similar interests. I will probably respond if you message, but I prefer lengthier messages about why you're messaging me, so I have a better base on which to respond. I really do want friends, more people to connect to. It doesn't matter where you are or who you are... if you feel we can have a good basis to message from, please send something over!

Though to note, if all you have to say is 'hi', 'ur hot' or 'wanna hook up' then I will not respond.