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KundanChhabra

32 M Tustin, CA

My Details

Last Online
Mar 5
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian, Indian
Height
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Mostly vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Hindi (Okay), Other (Fluently), French (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
MDGBG3: ”Enable OkCupid to work for you & everyone: 2+ absolute essentials, plus SaberPen’s experience.” –Read THIS!, women especially.

Now, read the rest here:

"Kundan writes amazing love poetry that will melt your heart, light your body on fire, and touch a part of you, you never knew existed."

~ Ngoc Luzardo

"I have known Kundan for about 5 years and have found him to be always cheerful and happy. He is a sensitive and loving man and has deep insights into what love is and what relationships are. He writes beautiful poetry that expresses his feelings and perceptions of himself and others. Truly a wonderful soul."
- Michael Tyree

"This is my favorite poem of yours. I have it framed on my bedroom wall." ~ Jazmin regarding my poem "Why I Don't Need You But I Want You Around Anyway".

On our first date, here is what will happen:

We go dancing, and very soon, you feel my masculine energy so much that allows and enables you to feel like a woman so much that you can't help cracking a smile that grows bigger and bigger every moment into grins and laughter...you keep looking into my eyes and looking away, looking into my eyes and looking away, blushing, as you dance, because you keep becoming more and more attracted to me every moment. You sense that I am loved by a lot of women, and you feel so lucky that I have chosen YOU right now, and when I dip you, and your back arches back into the dance floor, you start exclaiming excitedly much laughter again, and very soon, you melt into my arms...your heart touched, every bit of your skin tingling with pleasure, your entire being feels caressed and treasured....

A Note on Chivalry:

For me, chivalry is not just about opening doors for women but include even the little things like walking on the side of road when walking with you on the sidewalk, to protect you from the cars, keeping you inside, safe. And it's about you enjoying being a woman - beautiful, enchanting, creative, deeply, fully feeling all your feelings and emotions, and being completely accepted and even appreciated for them, and loved, completely loved, heart-touched, you full of smiles, laughter and joy...have you ever felt this way before?

Now, Let's talk about YOU:

When you laugh, you laugh a big open happy laugh without covering your mouth. You smile and laugh often. Joy swims around you when you enter a room - you can't help it. You delight me with your smile and that twinkle in your eye - indeed, you smile not only with your lips but with your eyes as well! You love dancing. You love your job. You enjoy cuddles, hugs and slow caresses. You praise often and enjoy being praised too. You are in touch with your feelings at every moment and embrace them fully. You love your body and you love yourself and everybody. Your heart is so open. In fact, the sexiest part of you is your sweet, precious heart. You inspire me with the incredible kindness of your big open heart. You crack jokes spontaneously - and your jokes always make people feel better. For example, in an episode of Seinfeld, someone once said, "You know when someone sneezes, we say "Bless you!" Well, I think it is actually better to say "You are soooooo good-looking!" It actually makes them FEEL better!"

Your heart is thirsting to be on the train ride with me to the Land of Many Happy Smiles, Pleasant Surprises, and Connected, Open Hearts - at the same time, you are aware that you are not a broken heart searching for the other part - your heart is a full ocean of water overflowing towards me even as my own heart overflows towards you.

As for me, I am committed to experiencing Divinity and Sharing Awakening. This is my heart virtue or the core energy of what I am here to experience and to bring to the planet.

What is "heart virtue"? My friend, Diana Lees, said it best:

"Imagine being able to say something about yourself that you knew so deeply that you got goosebumps every time you said it. Imagine it absolutely not mattering whether anyone else understood you. Imagine getting excited at your own inner beauty simply by hearing yourself say a phrase about yourself.

If unconditional self love is the key to a joyful life, abundance, enlightenment, then knowing your Heart Virtue is a beautiful tool to bring that forward." ~ Diana Lees

Here is what another friend, Cynthia said, about my poem "What is Love?"

"I read your poem, what is love? Never, never, never, have I felt such a clear description of love. I live it as I read it. What more could anyone ask for from words? I will read it over and over. "

Read the rest of my profile for more about me.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a dream-job/dream-client alchemist and a self-love catalyst. I help you make your dreams come true and I help you fall in love with yourself because your primary lover and partner is YOU, and anybody you are with is a BONUS. I can do this because I am living my dream myself, and for the past 7 months, every job I have had has been a dream job that I absolutely love. So, now I am helping others live their dreams too.

What I do mainly though is to uplift everyone I meet and occasion their enlightenment via dance, poetry, comedy, compliments, singing/serenading, playing connection games such as the noticing game, and just by being the most fun person they've ever met without drinking and without doing any drugs

Back in 2008, I had a soulgasm. It is my mission in life to spread the message that I got from it to everyone I come in touch with...

and...

I rave. :)

Here is a poem I wrote about that:

Rave by Kundan

I am so glad to have eyes to see beautiful sunsets and gorgeous women
ears to listen to wonderful music,
tongue to taste delicious food,
skin to touch and feel, give and receive pleasure,
and nose to smell good perfume.

I am so glad to have these hands with which I can write, cook, make smoothies and juices,
call someone, express myself, hold things, touch people, hug them - wow! So many things I can do with my hands! Aren't hands brilliant?

I am so glad I have these legs that take me to many wonderful places and thus help me experience many lovely things such as Pujas and Open-Mics! Wow! Aren't legs amazing?

I am so glad to have this bed to sleep on, so soft and nourishing and so restful. Wow! Aren't beds so awesome?

I am so glad to have home to live in, with all these rooms and walls, keeping me away from the cold and the heat. Wow! Aren't homes so delightful?

And isn't the sun amazing? So powerfully hot and big and fiery! And yet, it gives us warmth and light, food and work, flowers and clothes. Wow! Isn't the sun so astonishing?

And isn't my laptop so brilliant? And my cellphone! Another brilliant thing! So small! And yet I can accomplish so much through these 2 devices! So Amazing! Wow!

And isn't the food I cooked today so nutritious and delicious? And the smoothie I made! So healthy! And wasn't the Open-Mic at Paradise Perks so awesome! So many talented singers, comedians, poets - there was even a cute little boy who sang! Boy! His smile was so cute! I felt like "Aww...." And such a supportive audience, so appreciative and so enjoyable to play with and have fun with! So adorable! Just like me! :) :) :)
I’m really good at
hugging, cuddling, caressing
freestyle dance
writing/performing poetry
Stand-Up Comedy
Giving And Receiving Compliments
Making people smile. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Here are my Jewels of Delight:
The taste of a good meal, the fragrance of sweet perfume, laughter with good friends, nice, long hugs, smiles, praise for my poetry, warmth after being outside in the cold, laying on the grass on a sunny day, having a 'Third Place', gazing into a Lover's eyes for a long time, communing, strumming a travel guitar and feeling my heart become warm, soft and pleasant, the unexpected company of a kid, a woman's heart melting and wanting to connect more deeply with me, caresses at a sacred snuggle party...

What are your Jewels of Delight?

I also like:

The Future of Love by Daphne Rose Kingma

My favorite movies of all time are:

VickyCristinaBarcelona

50 First Dates

Don Juan DeMarco

Still Breathing

What Dreams May Come

Thomas Crown Affair (the new version with Pierce Brosnan)

Same Time, Next Year

I also liked

Wedding Crashers

The Notebook

I like all kinds of music. My favorite love song in the English language is 'Little Moments' By Brad Paisley

I am a vegetarian.

My favorite ice cream is mint with chocolate chips.
I LOVE it! :) :) :) I also enjoy making my own green smoothies and drinking it! I put in lots of spinach, and bits of bananas, mangoes, peaches, plums, tomatoes, carrots, oranges, strawberries, blackberries and blueberries! Yum!
The six things I could never do without
Family
ALL of Myself
My body
Touch, especially to touch at least one person's heart daily, somewhere in the world...
Uzazu
Friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
love, intimacy, connections, words, openness, heart, relationships, what drives people and what inspires/motivates people, synchronicity, experiencing Truth.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like romantic movies as much as I like action films.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
want to, or if you are curious about me, or you wish to ask a question or respond to my message, or you wish to be friends, and especially if you've got this far in reading my profile, thus proving that you've actually read it - comment on something in my profile.

If you message me, tell me WHY I should respond back - what makes you stand out? What makes you different?

And if you wish to start dating, then I'd appreciate it if

you are very open-hearted and Heart-Centered
you smile a lot. :) :) :)
you hug a lot, and enjoy being hugged. :) :) :)
you like my profile and you wish to go out with me. Let's go hug some trees and each other, splash in the ocean and hear the pleasant sound of my laughter and yours.
You understand, or want to understand, the following statements:

"I am my own perfect mate, and he or she is a bonus."

"How do you know you don't need a boyfriend? You don't have one." ~ Byron Katie

You have read, or you are willing to read "The Future of Love" by Daphne Rose Kingma

You really like this poem I wrote:

Title: Why I Don't Need You But I Want You Around Anyway

Her Entrance is a happy ray of sunshine into the room,
and yes!
I can live with or without her.
After all, I myself am a bundle of joy,
and I do not believe in sentimental love songs
like
“There’s no sunshine when she’s gone.”
Because, even during the times when she’s away from me,
the sun is still shining and the sky is still beautiful,
except, of course,
when it rains,
but even that is really cool,
because, after it rains,
I can see the rainbow.

And, dancing in the rain can be quite fun!

But it's just incredibly nice to be around her.

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Part 2
In some places in the world,
there is a strong bit of individualism,
and Frank Sinatra's "I Did it My Way" is the back-up national anthem.
But There are some things you cannot do by yourself, to yourself, or for yourself.
For example,
you cannot make yourself laugh by tickling yourself,
you cannot tell yourself a good joke,
you cannot give yourself a surprise birthday gift,
you cannot give yourself a two-handed bear hug that goes all the way around the waist,
you cannot kiss your own lips.

And so, dear lover, this is why we love each other - not because we make each other happy - after all, happiness lies within - it is a moment-by-moment choice or decision.
No, dear lover, we love each other because,
what we give to each other, we cannot give ourselves.

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