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41 M Rocklin, CA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 29–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:16am
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes cats

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My self-summary
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The concept of play is important to me... wordplay, gameplay, or just play... The stories we create and make real are amazing things that live outside us and can serve to inspire.

I'm affectionate, distracted, and probably looking for a sandwich.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am learning, I am growing always, and if it isn't exhausting me than I am not doing it right. That being said, I have a very relaxed approach to life, hoping to wander into inspiration rather than throttle it out of the world around me.

A summary of a few things I've done on the weekends and evenings; Strolls around San Jose taking in the night life, such as it is, wandering the rest of the bay area, sampling chai, beer, coffee, playing a role playing game (I know some amazing tale tellers and word weavers), playing Rock Band in clever and stylish company, a glamorous 1940s Club party(complete with a fabulous hostess), visiting Dickens Faire, dancing and drumming under moonlight on a friend's wedding night in the woods, dancing at a goth club.

When I have down time, I'm reading graphic novels, historical fiction, fantasy, or nonfiction. I also listen to music as I write, dancing in my living room, think about new cd mixes to make, and play casual flash games on my pc.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
occasionally I have luck gathering misfits and poets together for social gatherings.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I am casting some sort of spell.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books) The Rum Diary, A Wizard of Earthsea (both H Thompson and Ursula K Le Guinn are two of my favorite writers, and I will eventually read everything they have written!) Red Dwarf/Better Than Life, The Chronicles of Amber, and what I've read of Christopher Moore (especially Fool, Biff, and The Stupidest Angel).

Movies) Dune, Hero, Donnie Darko, Fight Club, Unbreakable, Withnail & I, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Super Troopers, I heart Huckabees, Night Watch/Day Watch

Music) I am very fond of waltzes, in many forms. I love songs that sound very cheery, but have odd or dark lyrics if you stop to listen.
many more than this list: movie and game soundtracks, Bowie, Kate Bush, Tool, Ladytron, Radiohead, the Smiths, Gorillaz, Happy Rhodes, Garbage, RJD2, Siouxsie, The Clash, Death Cab for Cutie, Gogol Bordello, Imogen Heap, PJ Harvey, Velvet Underground, Steeleye Span, Oingo Boingo, Muse, R.E.M., Alphaville, Wyclef Jean, Regina Spektor, Röyksopp, Apoptygma Berzerk

Snacktime) Dark chocolate. Coffee. I am a vegetarian who loves spicy food and a wide and exotic range of cuisine. Favorite dinners often include Avacado maki(or my custom avacado-cream cheese-jalapeno roll!), savory crepes, Chili Rellenos, Drunken noodles, hot hot curries, and even my own stir fry (if I feel brave).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
hypnotic or inspiring new music, coffee that wakes me up, a smile that makes my heart light, a chance to be greater than myself, quiet moments while traveling, singing with friends (I didn't say how well, mind you)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
hypothetical imaginary conversations, past and present, songs, just what makes people and cultures tick, etymology, mythologies
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching a show, reading a book, out entertaining or being entertained, all with the dangerous possibility of karaoke.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'll never tell!
You should message me if
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you would like to
chat over coffee (a good first meeting)
go on long strolls
go out dancing
ponder the imponderables