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58 F White Plains, NY

I’m looking for

  • Straight men only
  • Ages 55–63
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:34pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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I consider myself worldly, experienced and adventurous, but also grounded. Love exploring the city. Finding little out of the way eateries. Discovering the newest Off-Broadway hit. Sleeper foreign films. Listening to music. That new museum exhibit. Take out and a video. Always open to trying and doing new things. I am a great dancer - especially salsa. I’m looking for a great guy who knows how to lead but also walk hand in hand at other times. I am looking for someone who loves to go out but also likes to cuddle up at home: movies, dancing, reading, theater, museums, concerts, restaurants, traveling or just hanging out at home. He should be generous, nurturing, supportive, sensual, adventurous and looking to be in a committed relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Just recently retired. Getting my certification as a Doula.
I travel every year. Plan to do more now that I am retired. In the last several years, I have gone to Portugal, London, Paris, Spain, Italy, Greece, Croatia, Monte Carlo. This summer, I hope to go to Santorini Greece. Next year Istanbul? I am looking for a partner who also loves to travel.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I love to dance! I especially love dancing salsa. I have taken belly dancing lessons and hula.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have short very pretty grey hair. I am often told that I am much prettier in person and look much younger than I look in photos. FYI: I have not gained weight. Most of the photos are less than two years old.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I just finished "Cutting for Stone" (loved it!). I'm reading Gone Girl right now. OMG! It is sooooo good! I have read The Help, Eat Pray Love, The Red Tent, The Kite Runner, A Thousand Pleasant Suns. (I read about a book a week.) Favorite authors: Amy Tan, Walter Mosley, Grisham, Patterson, Tananarive Due, J. California Cooper. Favorite children's authors Mo Williems and David Shanon. Favorite books change all of the time, but right now it would be: The #1 Ladies Detective Agency series. Favorite adult movie is The Shawshank Redemption. My favorite children's movies are Babe and Happy Feet. Favorite musical West Side Story. I am really into trying new and different kinds of foods. I really enjoy Ethiopian food, Italian, Mexican and Gourmet Chinese. Caribbean is also a favorite. I like any type of live entertainment when it comes to music. From Jazz to World, to Pop to Top 10...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My daughter
2. Books on Tape (audio books)
3. DVR
4. My pets
5. My car (I like to get around)
6. A good sense of humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Here is a list of my pet peeves: Sorry if I sound angry, I'm really not. But I've been on and off dating sites and I am exhausted by people who waste your time. I will not respond to profiles without a picture. I will not respond if all of your pictures hide your face with a hat and sunglasses, (Are you in a Witness Protection Program?) or you are 50 feet in the background or the picture is so blurry that you can't tell what you look like. I am not interested in seeing you with your shirt off, (maybe later after we get to know each other), but it's not the most appealing or refined pose for a first look even if you think you have a great body. I have no interest in dating anyone in their 20's 30's or 40"s. I am not looking for a long distance romance: you must live within a hours drive. If you're married and miserable, for goodness sake, go for marriage counseling or get a divorce. But please don't deceive women who want to meet a nice guy to share their life with. Just be honest in what you write about yourself, (not what you think women want to hear) and have real expectations.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging with friends, reading a book or take-out and a video.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am very shy and it takes me a long time for me to warm up to people.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
So many men are afraid to smell the flowers for fear of getting stung by a bee. So email me if you are willing to take a chance of walking in my garden.