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34 Grand Rapids, MI Man


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 26–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:23pm
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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Sincere and thoughtful. Active and educated. Professional. Descriptive. List maker.
-I don't drink Soda or Coffee. I don't eat fish.
-Very trusting to a point.
-Left Handed
-Not-so-Secret nerd

I put time and thought into MOST of my messages. That is to say, if you send me a message, prepare for an "ear full." It's also a way for me to gauge how interested other people are as well, and has a way of flushing out those who may say one thing, but are really looking for something else. I think you know what I mean. :)

I don't keep a lot of acquaintances - I only keep a small number of good friends.
What I’m doing with my life
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Maritime Professional. I spend 2-3 months at a time working as a officer on a freighter, and then I get to spend a whole month to myself at home. I also get winters off (Jan-March). It's an odd schedule, and the reason why I really only want to meet trustworthy people. It's a rewarding career, and something I'm happy to be doing with my life, as I continue to learn and grow.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being brief.

Also, any sort of competition I enjoy. Being sarcastic, and sometimes crabby. Big gamer, allows me to do all three things.

I'm also very good at...organization. Very task oriented. I know how to prioritize, and keep ahead of things.

Kissing. :)

Also, Chess, though I wouldn't claim to be "good" at "it"
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably my height. Or my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: The Departed, Scott Pilgrim vs. The World, The Sweetest Thing, Rat Race, The Big Lebowski, Snatch, Shrek, Finding Nemo, Monsters Inc, Megamind, Trick, The Broken Hearts Club, Frailty, Fracture, Star Trek (et al)

Shows: Arrested Development, 30 Rock, Battlestar Galactica, Daily Show, Colbert Report, Star Trek (et al) South Park, Modern Family, Archer, Game of Thrones

Music: DMB, Godsmack, System of a Down, White Stripes, Billy Joel, Royksopp, RHCP, Smashing Pumpkins, Dance, Classical, Pearl Jam. Pretty much anything that doesn't involve rap or country :)

Food: The Potato, onions :) Each meal has to have at least one, if not both! Another one of my favorites are Japanese hibachi steakhouses.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
2) Autumn
3) Thunderstorms
4) List making.
8) Being able to Count.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future usually. How to make life better for me and those around me. I try to be as efficient as possible, so I'm always looking for a new way to do something. Sometimes hot guys, but that's more like day dreaming. Occasionally, about weird things that I find only funny to me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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So, according to an article I read in wired magazine, mentioning the 80's is a huge dealbreaker for most people. So now I'm not willing to admit it. There was a bunch of other stuff, but that was the big takeaway.
You should message me if
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you want. :) Ideally, I'm looking to get to know someone who has a direction in life, educated (or in progress), down to earth, and a non-smoker. Also, someone who can see silence as "companionable" instead of "awkward". Low-er maintenance. Someone who can appreciate a dry sense of humor and sarcasm. So, if you're some of these things, say hi.