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28 M Ho Chi Minh City, Vietnam

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:06am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Update: I will be moving to Vietnam in March 2014.

Hello! I’m Kyle, a somewhat recent Midwestern migrant, who was drawn to the beauty of the PNW forests and its progressive cities. I settled here after two years down in Corvallis, OR, completing my Masters’ degree. Now that I have gathered good friends around me, and got settled in Seattle, I would really like to meet Ms. Right ;)

To give you an idea of how I live my life, my major motivation is in being self-aware, self-accepting, rationally understanding reality (heavy, I know!), and having close connection in my relationships. This looks likes journaling, meditating, and having friendships where we can share our emotions very openly, without judgment. When I am nourished by these supportive relationships, I like to laugh and be silly, and I also like to have deep philosophical conversations. I like to cook (especially for others), and eat well. I am working on further improving my diet, which already has been largely fresh produce and meat based, by increasingly eliminating refined sugars and fried fats (old habits die hard!). I have been getting more active lately by doing yoga, playing basketball, tennis, jogging and swimming at the beaches around Seattle.

As far as a career goes, I am currently exploring new lines of work after not enjoying the job my academic study set me up for. I started up a house cleaning business in September, and was pleasantly surprised by how many customers I was able to get, off the bat! I am currently working on building up clientele and my reputation. Being self-employed is great!

After a few months running my own sole-proprietorship, I am looking into graduate school for Counseling Psychology! Surely my dream job!

In the future, I am interested in having a family. A wife and child(ren). I am looking for something long-term, but am patiently not looking for force anything to work. Either it works or it doesn’t, but my goal is to find someone who I want to spend my life with.

In a partner, I am looking for someone who has a good deal of self-awareness. I am very psychologically deep and want to share this pursuit with my partner. I am looking for warmth and empathy, and a capacity to stay in the moment during conflict and talk it through. Someone who strives to live with integrity; “practicing what they preach”. I am looking for a partner who takes their physical health seriously as well. I am no ascetic, but I try to maintain a healthy physique through healthy diet and moderate exercise. I am looking for a partner who wants a child; I am not ready to do so now, but expect it would be a deeply enjoyable to be a good father. I am sure there is more I could say, but for the sake of brevity, I’ll leave it there.

I look forward to hearing from you!

PS- if we hit it off, I would really like to take dance lessons; I think Swing would be a fun place to start:) I used to go out dancing during college and found it a real blast!
What I’m doing with my life
I am spending time with the best friends I have ever had, continuing to learn more about myself and grow, trying to reduce my stress and have more fun, getting more physically active, but also still enjoying some down time with a movie or video game.
I’m really good at
listening and having empathetic conversations
rationally analyzing arguments
being attuned to my own and others feelings
challenging myself and others to live up to their values
creatively solving problems
sharing myself openly and honestly with others
The first things people usually notice about me
I think I come off as confident and articulate and friendly.

Also I get compliments on my subtle, nonchalant sense of humor. I think this comes from the Midwest. But this usually doesn't come out too much on the first date.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: A Song of Ice and Fire, The Drama of the Gifted Child, The Fountainhead, Atlas Shrugged, Thou Shalt Not Be Aware, Real-time Relationships, Universally Preferable Behavior, The Six Pillars of Self Esteem, The Fantasy Bond, Love's Executioner, The Origins of War in Child Abuse, The Bullet-proof Portfolio, Getting Things Done, When I Say No I Feel Guilty, Peaceful Parenting, The Iron Druid Chronicles.

TV: Game of Thrones, The Office, Portlandia, Community, Seinfeld, Farscape, Saturday Night Live, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia (seasons 1-5), Man vs. Wild, Curb your Enthusaism, South Park, Defiance.

Movies I have seen so many movies. I am a bit of a cinema-slut. Action, adventure, comedy, romantic comedy, mystery, suspense. Really the only thing I do not watch much would be war movies, slasher films, violent horror, it is really the gory violence or sadistic torture that I avoid in movies. Lately I have seen Don Jon, Mysterious Skin, Knocked up, This is 40, Your Sisters' Sister, The Hobbit Part 2, Scott Pilgrim vs. The World, Nick & Nora's Infinite Playlist, Eyes Wide Shut, Beneath the Planet of the Apes...I could go on and constantly update this list.

Food: I primarily like to stick to fresh produce and meat, but still throw an occasional pizza or fast food in there.
The six things I could never do without
1. Empathetic and rationally principled relationships with people
2. Cooking delicious and healthy meals
3. The internet for getting information and connecting with people afar
4. A continual deepening of my self knowledge
5. Exercising my body (sports, walks, yoga)
6. Good humor and silliness.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to spend my time in ways which are more satisfying and better express my inner self. How to improve my already exceptional friendships. The goals I want to pursue in my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
hanging out with friends, out for dinner or a long walk through a park, watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I habitually pick my nose...but at least am discrete about it in public:).
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You feel intrigued or excited by what I have shared.