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29 M Portland, OR

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 26–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:50pm
6′ 0″ (1.82m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Hello! I will be moving to Portland in October, most likely. I am currently living in Ho Chi Minh City, VN.

I’m a laid back guy with a good sense of humor. I have been very much into soul searching and self-exploration the last several years. Part of this is that I haven’t settled on much for very long. Moving between cities, and jobs. But I think I have hit the right combination now, and see Portland as a good fit for what I want in my life.

I like the outdoors, and particularly like to hunt the wild edible mushrooms of the PNW. I like to be silly and goof around. I like cooking and eating with friends. I like watching movies. I enjoy yoga and meditation. I really connect with the basic human experiences that I feel like helps people relate to one another, if that makes sense.

I have been mostly keeping to myself and a smaller group of friends the last several years, and now I really want to get out and mingle, and go to events and shows, and do more fun stuff!
I have been out of the dating scene for quite a while, but I would really like to find someone special to spend all this with, so that is my interest on OKC. I’ve got a cool group of friends who are moving to Portland along with me, but I don’t have any romance in my life. That would be nice:)

There is so much I could say about myself, but I don’t want to take away from the opportunity to get to know each other in person. So maybe I will see you soon!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to understand who I am and what I should be doing to be happy.
Starting graduate school and a new profession.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am a pro at being being silly about anything.
Understanding where people are coming from.
Following through on what I think is important.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I think I come off as confident and articulate and friendly.

Also I get compliments on my subtle, dry sense of humor. Something I can thank my family for.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: in high school I read a lot of fantasy fictions (LOTR and the like). In recent years most of my reading is on psychology. Been reading lots of books on psychotherapy: On Becoming a Person, Counseling and Psychotherapy, The Meaning of Anxiety, A Way of Being, Breaking From Your Parents.

Movies: I can appreciate most movies, and like to think about what they say about society, culture, and human psychology and relationships. My guilty pleasure has been fantasy fiction again (like in books), but I find them less palatable over time. Nowadays I am watching mostly drama/romance with compelling relationship stories, or comedies.

Music: I don't listen to a whole lot of music, but I like Death Cab for Cutie, The Decemberists, Arcade Fire, Explosions in the Sky, Cold Play, Imogen Heap, Radiohead, Mogwai, Mono, Rasputina, Sufjan Stevens, for some examples. Like movies, I am pretty open to music.

Food: everything. Some of my favorites are Indian food, thai, burgers, pizza, anything from the sea, just to name a few. I like potlucking too!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. a sense of direction to grow towards
2. the internet (recovering addict;))
3. people to share life with
4. a good sense about my own values
5. a meaningful way to contribute positively to humanity
6. forests to get into
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
wtf am I doing with my life! (just healthy doses of existential crises)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
here in VN, dinner and a movie, or hanging with friends. Hoping to take advantage of more nightlife in Portland.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
mostly can't watch horror movies with ghostly villains....if I want to sleep afterwards
You should message me if
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you'd like to get a coffee, come October