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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:33pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English, C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a bright, curious, driven and introverted guy who's slightly complicated but generally worth the time. INTJ pretty much says it all with only slight inaccuracies; mostly the part about being an elitist prick and developing a drinking problem. When I was much younger I was an INFJ but years of reading about neuroscience, philosophy of mind, and the nature of consciousness turned that F into a T.

I didn't go to my college graduation; my disregard for convention crosses a line that's rather distant from the norm. You can deduce a lot about me from just that.

If you want to know more you should ask. Seriously. Making the first move gets old.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm an engineer in the game industry specializing in graphics and engine programming. That means nothing to everyone so I will attempt to elaborate. My day to day involves writing code and solving numerically oriented problems. Believe it or not it's what I've wanted to do since I was 5.

At the moment I am taking a break from my career due to some difficult life circumstances. So strictly speaking I have no job but my unemployment is by choice and I have enough cash in the bank to fund this decision.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Using my charm to melt you into a helpless puddle of aching desire. Not buying it? Good for you. I don't fancy myself good at anything but I'm always getting better at everything. My friends would point to the following links as counter arguments:

Tangent Space Derivation
Solar Spectral Irradiance

Fascinating, I know.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My guess is that I'm quiet and reserved. Most people say I am somewhat unapproachable for reasons they cannot pin down.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Great Expectations, The Conscious Mind, The Rebel, anything about math, physics, rendering or space travel. The last book I read was Consciousness and the Brain and I am currently reading Frontiers of Propulsion Science. Yes, I have trouble making small talk with people.

Movies: Wes Anderson and Werner Herzog films, Brick, Deep Water (the frenchman is my only mentor), Primer, There will be Blood, Pan's Labyrinth (visual feast), Fight Club (hilarious) understated thrillers, the occasional hard sci-fi, things with Donnie Yen (just for fun) or Tom Hardy (good acting) and cumbersome classics like Apocalypse Now and 2001 A Space Odyssey.

Shows: Breaking Bad, The Walking Dead, Hell on Wheels, Peaky Blinders, the British version of Top Gear, Sherlock, Leonard Susskind lectures (youtube), anything educational.

Music: Thursday, From Autumn to Ashes, Every Time I Die, older stuff from mewithoutyou, selective things from Placebo, Arcade Fire, Far (before that idiotic "riding my pony" song), Modest Mouse, Joy Division, The Faint, and most other bands that are slightly abrasive with nuanced lyrics (post hardcore indie blends). It's the only kind of sound that's ever made sense to me. I must admit I haven't listened to any music in a long time; music and memories go hand in hand and I have a lot of bad memories.

Food: Chocolate Chip Cookies
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) My books
2) My computer (actually my compiler)
3) Learning new things
4) Time to think and reflect
5) Sunshine and physical activity
6) Pepper grinder
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The size of the Universe and all the things in it that no human will ever see.

Where are all the introverts? They are not at bars, they are certainly not at clubs, apparently they are not even dipping their toes into the world via OkCupid. Sigh. I'm so tired of meeting people who "love to laugh and have fun lol!"

Why no one clicks on my "I'm really good at" links.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home studying, reading, programming or watching a movie. There is of course the occasional night out socializing. If the sun is still up I might be riding my bike as fast as possible because it reminds me of snowboarding. When I lived in San Diego I would surf. Working out is another possibility but only because it makes me feel good. There is not a meat-head bone in my body; I do sort of look like Tyler Durden if you get my shirt off though.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can't tell a lie to save my life; go ahead, use it against me.
You should message me if
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You hit most of these points...

- you are an intelligent free thinker
- are quirky, dry, sarcastic and perhaps a little bitter
- can see the world from a perspective that's not your own
- are not religious by any measure
- know a thing or two about real, neurological depression
- are looking for a peer not a provider
- it's Friday night and you are home alone by choice
- are hoping I'll contact you (initiative!)
- you "liked" me and I took the time to message you
- your weight to height ratio is less than mine (170lbs/1.83m)