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31 Lees Summit, MO Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 29
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Strictly other
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English, C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a bright, curious, driven and introverted guy who's slightly complicated but generally worth the time. INTJ (I get the hate for MTBI but it's useful when accurate) pretty much says it all with only slight inaccuracies; mostly the part about being an elitist prick and developing a drinking problem. When I was much younger I was an INFJ but years of reading about neuroscience, philosophy of mind, and the nature of consciousness turned that F into a T.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm an engineer in the game industry specializing in graphics and engine programming. That means nothing to everyone so I will attempt to elaborate. My day to day involves writing code and solving numerically oriented problems. Believe it or not it's what I've wanted to do since I was 5.

At the moment I am taking a break from my career due to some difficult life circumstances. So strictly speaking I have no job but my unemployment is by choice and I have enough cash in the bank to fund this decision. I still "work" but it's for myself and the project is a long term investment that may or may not turn a profit in a few years.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Using my charm to melt you into a helpless puddle of aching desire. Not buying it? Good for you. I don't fancy myself good at anything but I'm always getting better at everything. My friends would point to the following links as counter arguments:

Tangent Space Derivation
Solar Spectral Irradiance

Fascinating, I know.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Most people say I am somewhat unapproachable for reasons they cannot pin down; smarter people claim the reason is an aurora of seriousness / sadness. I do what I can to be more than I am but that battle can't be won every day.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Great Expectations, The Conscious Mind, The Rebel, anything about math, physics, rendering or space travel (from an engineering perspective). The last book I read was Consciousness and the Brain and I am currently reading Frontiers of Propulsion Science. Yes, I have trouble making small talk with people.

Movies: Wes Anderson and Werner Herzog films, Brick, Deep Water (the frenchman is my only mentor), Primer, There will be Blood, Pan's Labyrinth (visual feast), Fight Club (hilarious) understated thrillers, the occasional hard sci-fi, things with Donnie Yen (just for fun) or Tom Hardy (good acting ala Bronson) and cumbersome classics like Apocalypse Now and 2001 A Space Odyssey.

Shows: Breaking Bad, The Walking Dead, Hell on Wheels, Peaky Blinders, the British version of Top Gear, Sherlock, Dexter (a metaphor for my life) Leonard Susskind lectures (youtube), anything educational.

Music: Thursday, Engine Down, From Autumn to Ashes, Every Time I Die, mewithoutYou, Placebo, Arcade Fire, Far (before that idiotic "riding my pony" song), Modest Mouse, Joy Division, The Faint, and most other bands that are slightly abrasive with nuanced lyrics (post hardcore indie blends). It's the only kind of sound that's ever made sense to me.

Food: Frozen oatmeal chocolate chip cookie dough with too much vanilla and a tiny bit of whiskey in the batter.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) My books
2) My computer (actually a compiler)
3) Learning new things
4) Time to think and reflect
5) Sunshine and physical activity
6) Pepper grinder
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The size of the Universe and all the things in it that no human will ever see.

Why no one clicks on my "I'm really good at" links.

How many of the people with selfies taken in their car are still alive.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home studying, reading, programming or watching a movie. There is of course the occasional night out socializing. If the sun is still up I might be riding my bike as fast as possible because it reminds me of snowboarding. When I lived in San Diego I would surf. Working out is another possibility but only because it makes me feel good. There is not a meat-head bone in my body; I do sort of look like a scrappy Tyler Durden if you get my shirt off though.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can't tell a lie to save my life; go ahead, use it against me.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You hit most of these points...

- you are a viciously logical free thinker
- are quirky, dry, sarcastic and perhaps a little bitter
- are not religious by any measure
- are looking for a peer not a provider
- your weight to height ratio is less than mine (160lbs/1.83m)