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23 • Chicago, IL • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 20–25
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 25
- 6′ 3″ (1.91m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
- Graduated from university
- Art / Music / Writing
- Strictly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), German (Okay)
I think the worst thing in the world is to stop wanting to better oneself. I'm a mess of contridictions. I love organization, timeliness, and have strict standards for myself, but I do my best to love everyone despite their flaws. I'm relaxed and tense, critical and accepting, intelligent and silly. The best thing is to get to know me in person. I'm shy at first, but quick to open up. :)
ENFP/ INFP/ ENFJ/ INFJ
^Right in the middle of those four.
Follow me on Twitter @KyleStoffers for a better idea of who I am.
P.S. Someone messaged me asking if I smile???? Yes??? I just don't really like smiling in photos, sorry.
But really my genuine kindness coupled with dry humor.
-Mostly Fiction: Dinner at the Homesick Restaurant, A Handmaid's Tale, Harry Potter, The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, Inheritance Cycle, A Song of Fire and Ice.
-Otherwise lots of plays and non-fiction theatre books.
-Anastasia, American Beauty, Beauty and the Beast, Beyond the Sea, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, The History Boys, Mean Girls, Up, Wall-E...
-I really love a lot of movies, but I'm pretty picky! It all depends on the story. Not a fan of fancy cinematography (unless it's coupled with a good story).
-30 Rock, Adventure Time with Finn & Jake, Bobs Burgers, Friends, Game of Thrones, Parks and Rec, Sailor Moon, Seinfeld...
-Mostly comedy. I feel like it's difficult to get a good story in a 30min spot. There are a bunch of series I want to check out soon, though!
-Alternative, Electronica, Pop, Ambient, Acoustic, Jazz...
-Play me anything and I'll likely be happy.
-I'm down for anything as long as it isn't super spicy or sushi.
I hate myself for that list.
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