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28 Somerville, MA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24-34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 5:20am
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 10" (1.79m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Sign Language (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I love people, music, situational irony, really nice speakers, outdoor cafe tables in the summer, sneaker-skating down sidewalks in winter and city walkabouts. My favorite time of day is the moment that the guitar rips back into a song after a dramatic beat drop or a too-long 90's-pop-style bridge. It doesn’t take much to get me talking too much, or dancing.
It's a beautiful world, and I would really like to have some wonderful company to explore all the parts of that. I'm usually pretty ethically non-monogamous: Good people who are open and honest with each other should be able to grow their relationships as much as is right for them, without external pressures or constraints. I'm not anti-monogamy; sometimes that can be the right thing, too.
But please, let's figure all this stuff out offline.
What I’m doing with my life
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I moved to Buenos Aires on a week's planning. I built a life, had a great job, learned Spanish and stumbled through tango-- it was great. A year later, the riots and economic default made it like a reasonable time to end the adventure. Now I'm back rediscovering Boston.
This is my favorite city, and it still feels like home. I'm taking stage manager gigs for circus and burlesque shows, and just starting to nail down a neat math career.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Ice breaking, geeking out about comic books, proportionate-response punning.
I make a beastly good mango-avocado salsa.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Typical: Casablanca, Pulp Fiction, Terminator 2, High Fidelity, Harvey, Brazil, Amélie, The Great Escape, Who Framed Roger Rabbit, Dawn of the Dead (1978 version) and every other zombie movie that wishes it were that good

Music!: Paul Simon, Flogging Molly, Carolina Chocolate Drops, Sonic Youth, Florence + the Machine, Massive Attack, The Rapture, Mos Def & Talib Kweli, M.I.A., and almost every cover of "All Along the Watchtower." Maybe I'll make you mix tape.

Books will take some thought. It'll definitely include William Gibson, Will Shakespeare and Warren Ellis. Through the Looking Glass and Great Gatsby. Hunter S Thompson is great, but I can't stand Kerouac.
I'm knee-deep in a pile of to-reads. Things that I will never finish include: Atlas Shrugged, Finnegan's Wake, Charles Foster Wallace's anything, and Guns, Germs & Steel.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- The length of all the roads in Ireland
- Bizarre hobbies
- Pretty science
- The best Billie Jean covers
(If you're on the app, those are links. If you're not on the app, probably don't waste your time with those links.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Calling lighting cues while keeping track of six performers, twenty juggling pins and trapeze rigging. Or, ideally, out with friends for adventure, music, board games or dancing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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No secrets, just stories you haven't heard yet.
You should message me if
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Let's grab a drink if we might have some things to talk about. Or let's have an adventure if there's adventuring to be had.