I'm bisexual or
pansexual - and
no, that doesn't mean I fornicate with cookware. I'm also polyamorous and
non-monogamous so if you
wouldn't be interested in a relationship with someone already in a
relationship, please look elsewhere.
I'm not interested in an additional romantic relationship with a
man at this time, nor casual sex with a man. I am in a long-term
relationship with CupidRich and have no plans of changing
that. However, I've been craving the attention of a sweet, sassy,
sexy woman for some time now.
I can be socially awkward and I sometimes lack self-confidence.
It's sometimes hard for me to make the first move.
I am a freelance writer and a wanton, licentious, lascivious
hedonist. I am also an avid life-long learner with unusual life
experiences including alternate lifestyles and homelessness. I am
passionate about sexuality, sensuality, and the First Amendment.
I am Meander on
MySpace. You can see more photos and some of my art if you add me
as a friend there.
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Ethnicity Native American, White
Height 5' 4" (1.62m).
Looking For New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Casual encounters (sex partners)
Smokes No
Drinks Rarely
Drugs Never
Religion Atheism
Sign Aquarius but it doesn't matter
Education
Job Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income N/A
Kids Likes children, but doesn't want any
Pets Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages English (Fluently)
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What I'm doing with my life
Right now I'm working on building up my writing portfolio and
promoting my work. I have some writing samples posted on Associated
Content and at my blog, Through a Violet Haze, which
I've sorely neglected of late.
You can read my latest column for Bare Back Magazine, Talk Dirty To Me.
Here's an editorial I wrote about morality from an evolutionary perspective, Where Morality Comes From, One Atheist's Opinion.
You should also check out my new sex articles on Associated Content here and here!
Additionally, I'm working on recovering my drawing skills after an injury last year caused nerve damage to my hand and regaining my health from autoimmune diseases.
You can read my latest column for Bare Back Magazine, Talk Dirty To Me.
Here's an editorial I wrote about morality from an evolutionary perspective, Where Morality Comes From, One Atheist's Opinion.
You should also check out my new sex articles on Associated Content here and here!
Additionally, I'm working on recovering my drawing skills after an injury last year caused nerve damage to my hand and regaining my health from autoimmune diseases.
I'm really good at
Going off on bizarre tangents.
Cooking and inventing new recipes. I wouldn't say that but my roommates insist it is true. If you'd like to make a cake like The Ace of Cakes you should read my article on How To Make Decorating Fondant For Art Cakes.
I'm told I'm very good at making people feel good.
OK, screw it - I'm good at writing.
Cooking and inventing new recipes. I wouldn't say that but my roommates insist it is true. If you'd like to make a cake like The Ace of Cakes you should read my article on How To Make Decorating Fondant For Art Cakes.
I'm told I'm very good at making people feel good.
OK, screw it - I'm good at writing.
The first thing(s) people usually notice about me
I pun frequently and without remorse.
I walk with a limp.
I tell horrible jokes.
I walk with a limp.
I tell horrible jokes.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Some of my favorite books are Stranger in a Strange
Land, The Fountainhead, A
Guided Tour of Buckminster Fuller, The Selfish Gene, Lord of the
Rings, and Rite of Passage.
Some of my many, many favorite authors are Carl Sagan, Bill Bryson, Desmond Morris, Stephen Hawking, Richard Dawkins, Stephen Pinker, Kurt Vonnegut, Harry Harrison, Robert A. Heinlein,Orson Scott Card, Larry Niven, Jerry Pournelle, Piers Anthony, Dean Koontz, Christopher Moore, Wen Spencer, Mercedes Lackey, and Susie Bright.
My favored genres are Science Fiction, Science, Sexuality, Fantasy, Psychology, Philosophy, Society, Humor, and Erotica.
I love all sorts of music including The Beatles, Panic! At The Disco, Pink Floyd, John Lennon, Echo and the Bunnymen, Queen, The Doors, The Smiths, The Pixies, R.E.M., The Rolling Stones, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Love and Rockets, David Bowie, Danny Elfman, John Williams, Sisters of Mercy, Fields of the Nephilim, Rancid, They Might Be Giants, Skinny Puppy, The Butthole Surfers, Violent Femmes, Badly Drawn Boy, SpeedPussy, Lenny Kravitz, The Cure, Stone Temple Pilots, Agent Orange, Camper Van Beethoven, Tangerine Dream, Bauhaus, Alphaville, Sex Pistols, Adrian Belew, Beastie Boys, Eminem, Flaming Lips, Cat Stevens, Nine Inch Nails, Beck, Talking Heads, Genesis, Dead Can Dance - pretty much everything except twangy Country music.
I love to eat sushi and sashimi, dark chocolate, asparagus, goat cheese, Pink Lady apples, apricots - and many other things. I don't like hot dogs, green peppers, or artificial lime flavoring.
My interests include writing erotica, erotica, sexuality, writing, reading, sci-fi, philosophy, sociology, evolutionary psychology, cunnilingus, psychology, sexy women, Boggle, Scrabble, kissing, breasts, cats, kissing girls, love, conversation, music, evolution, pansexuality, poetry, bisexuality, lyrics, lyrical storytelling, aquaria, cake art, reefing, boobs, puns, debate, sex, writing fiction, dark humor, LOUD music with lots of bass, nanotechnology, micro electroplating, Artificial Intelligence, biochemistry, biology, boobs, non-monogamy, chemistry, colloidal chemistry, base pair bonds, polyamory, boobs...
Some of my many, many favorite authors are Carl Sagan, Bill Bryson, Desmond Morris, Stephen Hawking, Richard Dawkins, Stephen Pinker, Kurt Vonnegut, Harry Harrison, Robert A. Heinlein,Orson Scott Card, Larry Niven, Jerry Pournelle, Piers Anthony, Dean Koontz, Christopher Moore, Wen Spencer, Mercedes Lackey, and Susie Bright.
My favored genres are Science Fiction, Science, Sexuality, Fantasy, Psychology, Philosophy, Society, Humor, and Erotica.
I love all sorts of music including The Beatles, Panic! At The Disco, Pink Floyd, John Lennon, Echo and the Bunnymen, Queen, The Doors, The Smiths, The Pixies, R.E.M., The Rolling Stones, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Love and Rockets, David Bowie, Danny Elfman, John Williams, Sisters of Mercy, Fields of the Nephilim, Rancid, They Might Be Giants, Skinny Puppy, The Butthole Surfers, Violent Femmes, Badly Drawn Boy, SpeedPussy, Lenny Kravitz, The Cure, Stone Temple Pilots, Agent Orange, Camper Van Beethoven, Tangerine Dream, Bauhaus, Alphaville, Sex Pistols, Adrian Belew, Beastie Boys, Eminem, Flaming Lips, Cat Stevens, Nine Inch Nails, Beck, Talking Heads, Genesis, Dead Can Dance - pretty much everything except twangy Country music.
I love to eat sushi and sashimi, dark chocolate, asparagus, goat cheese, Pink Lady apples, apricots - and many other things. I don't like hot dogs, green peppers, or artificial lime flavoring.
My interests include writing erotica, erotica, sexuality, writing, reading, sci-fi, philosophy, sociology, evolutionary psychology, cunnilingus, psychology, sexy women, Boggle, Scrabble, kissing, breasts, cats, kissing girls, love, conversation, music, evolution, pansexuality, poetry, bisexuality, lyrics, lyrical storytelling, aquaria, cake art, reefing, boobs, puns, debate, sex, writing fiction, dark humor, LOUD music with lots of bass, nanotechnology, micro electroplating, Artificial Intelligence, biochemistry, biology, boobs, non-monogamy, chemistry, colloidal chemistry, base pair bonds, polyamory, boobs...
The six things I could never do without
Love, something to write on and with, books, art, sex, music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How much is too much pimping my writing?
In what other ways can I pimp my writing?
Breasts.
Will I drive CupidRich mad by repeatedly, inaccurately, and prematurely declaring myself well enough to return to my day job?
...And breasts.
In what other ways can I pimp my writing?
Breasts.
Will I drive CupidRich mad by repeatedly, inaccurately, and prematurely declaring myself well enough to return to my day job?
...And breasts.
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't really have a typical thing I do on Friday nights. You
might find me watching the open mic at Quinn & Tuites, at home
playing Scrabble, typing away on a new story, watching a movie...
thinking about breasts
The most private thing I'm willing to admit here
I probably have Lupus though I don't have a formal diagnosis.
However, I do have a brain tumor and fibromyalgia. I'm much more
ill than I usually admit to anyone.
I was once known as "The Pi Girl" because I had memorized Pi to a thousand digits ...and recited it to anyone who would listen and to many who would not.
It's hard for me to admit anything positive about myself.
I have brain damage. No, really.
I was once known as "The Pi Girl" because I had memorized Pi to a thousand digits ...and recited it to anyone who would listen and to many who would not.
It's hard for me to admit anything positive about myself.
I have brain damage. No, really.
You should message me if
I'm overweight so if your profile reads anything like, "No fat
chicks" I suggest you not message me.
You should message me if you have similar interests and you're looking for a friend or someone to hang out with. You should message me (pretty please with sugar on it) if you are a woman looking for romance or a girlfriend with benefits. I'm in a loving, open relationship with CupidRich and I'm looking for a FEMALE friend for lovemaking for just me or for the both of us - or anything in between. Couples are another possibility in this arena. Male friends with benefits aren't completely out of the question but for the moment I'm just looking for men as friends.
I'm also seriously interested in finding friends to hang out with, male, female, or couples. I'm somewhat of a tomboy and prefer the company of men and women who are not all about make up, fashion, or celebrity gossip.
Oh, and for the record, neither lupus nor fibromyalgia are contagious.
You should message me if you have similar interests and you're looking for a friend or someone to hang out with. You should message me (pretty please with sugar on it) if you are a woman looking for romance or a girlfriend with benefits. I'm in a loving, open relationship with CupidRich and I'm looking for a FEMALE friend for lovemaking for just me or for the both of us - or anything in between. Couples are another possibility in this arena. Male friends with benefits aren't completely out of the question but for the moment I'm just looking for men as friends.
I'm also seriously interested in finding friends to hang out with, male, female, or couples. I'm somewhat of a tomboy and prefer the company of men and women who are not all about make up, fashion, or celebrity gossip.
Oh, and for the record, neither lupus nor fibromyalgia are contagious.
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