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Kyshander

41 / M / Straight / Available

Santa Rosa, California

His Details

Last Online
Jun 17
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Disclaimer section:
1) I don't play games, unless they are fun and/or sexy
2) I want to laugh, dance, and smooch with you
3) I am respectful and will only bite you if you want/need it
4) If you have any questions, ask my wife she'll set you straight
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Blah Blah Blah section:

I am married to an amazing women MrsPinkKisses who supports our family and lifestyle 100%. We are in a fantastic relationship, but at the same time we believe in the non-monogamous expression of ourselves. We believe that we have an abundance of love and affection to share.

I am quick witted and have a active sense of humor, physically affectionate and emotionally available.

I have several tattoos and find them very sexy, and I do have a couple of bonus piercings.

I am a little bit geeky, nerdy, dorky, athletic, artistic, naughty, smart, and open-minded. I went to a very small school therefore the standard descriptions never really fit me completely.

Do you like me? I think you will.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm successful professionally and personally. I work in the wine industry and play in the world that I make for myself. I look forward to new experiences and solving life's mysteries (whatever they may be).

I enjoy (in no particular order)
camping, dancing, walking, games, being affectionate, playing with my kids, keeping physically active, sexy times, being productive at work, lovin' on my wife, my doggie, and lots more cool stuff....
I’m really good at
Making hamburgers, smooching, relating to people, dog walking, finances, lovin' on my girls, playing games, being a daddy, being a "daddy", kicking butt at work, being a goof, intimacy, sexy times, actually having fun when I dance, and many more things.
The first things people usually notice about me
My beadie eyes and my smile..... ok so my wife tells me that I shouldn't say "beadie eyes" but maybe I should say my cool glasses or my thick (sometimes poofy) hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Top 3.... (as of today)

Books = Vampire Chronicles, Contact, Dragonlance Chronicles
Movies = Star Wars saga, Road Trip, Memento
Shows = I'm assuming this is TV... Modern Family, Better off Ted, Top Chef
Music = Black Eyed Peas, The Who, The Beastie Boys
Pro Sports Teams = The Giants and all the other bay area teams
Athletics (to play) = Bike Riding, Paintball, Gym
The six things I could never do without
Ice Cream, Bread, Tomatoes, Technology, Sexiness, Freedom of expression
I spend a lot of time thinking about
surviving in my little world

taking the next step

oh and lots of naughty stuff!
On a typical Friday night I am
Let's be honest.... I would definitely like to be playing with you instead of doing what I'm doing right now!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
On this site..... that I am a fan of the 420

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I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners, long-distance penpals, casual sex
You should message me if
You like a passionate and affectionate guy who is a little bit kinky

You have an interest in exploring with me (fun, games, life, love or other)