Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a happily married
(look it up) woman. I'm
on here with full support of my husband (he has his own profile on
here as j00bz
) and my
boyfriend with whom I'm also entirely committed) Dritano
, and I'm interested in finding
other open-minded, poly-friendly men or women for friendship/
casual dates (though *not* for casual sex) . I'm Cuban
. I do Crossfit
. I stick to the Paleo
diet, and I can
probably deadlift more than you can;-) I'm built like a pin-up
model and have done
my fair share of it. I'm a professionally trained vocalist
, but I'm an artist
of every stripe. My
husband likes to say that the only reason they haven't named a
hurricane after me is that there hasn't been a class 6 storm yet.
He's probably right. I am a *very* intense person- its kinda just
my main mode- especially when I meet someone new- I *could* dial it
back- but honestly life is too short for me to be anything other
than who I am.
"It's not that she's in love with *me* or *you*... It's that she's
in love with the world" - the artist is present
Just to be upfront, I do have protocol when it comes to dating.
Everything has to be above board and I keep NO secrets from my
partners. I'm not interested in an affair, nor a cuckolding
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Where to start... I was trained as a professional opera
singer - and did that till I
was about 23. But then switched gears and went into non-profit
management (yes - I'm a bleeding heart... but not the crazy sort).
These days I find my self switching yet again back into my creative
roots. I'm the lead singer
of a local rock band, I do
face/body painting, I am a model
) and a photographer, and I'm
branching out into visual arts and fashion design. Like I said, I'm
an artist of every stripe.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
looking and singing pretty. Or at least that's what I say after I
say something completely silly that I can't take back. Which
happens more often than I'd like. Or will ever ordinarily admit.
But I'm actually quite clever and smart, and I'm always in search
of new knowledge and paths of learning.
I'm really good at being a social catalyst- though I confess I'm a
natural introvert and it exhausts me. I'm always trying to
introduce my friends to each other who I'm positive will hit it
off. I'm really good at making Cuban food (but that's about it).
I'm really good at walking in five inch heels. I'm *really* good at
cuddling with my dogs. Oh and sleep... yeah... I win at napping.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I know this is supposed to tell you something revealing about me,
but honestly it's my tits. Holy living fuck, they're huge.
But after you manage to pull your eyes from their gravitational
pull, people notice my green eyes and totally memorable
So basically, come for the tits, stay for the charm. It's win-win
all around. And dont even try to pretend that you don't notice
them... I have years of experience on calling people out on that
load of bull shit.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My guys (yes 2 of them)
2. My pets
3. The ability to create- I can rarely turn my mind off
4. My family (both blood and non)
And in no specific order:
5. Red wine
Also- I hate that this question only asks for 6.... I'm way too
complicated for just 6...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Do my dogs really know what I'm saying, or are they just making
lucky guesses all the time? Hey, I've got an empty toilet paper
roll - maybe I can turn that into something cool. Look at that
stain on the sidewalk- Doesn't it look like a bird?! How can I get
somebody to give me a foot rub *right now*? Is there really such a
thing as 6AM or is that just a myth? Was my form ok on that last
dead-lift? I really hope that the wod doesn't break me. I should
make something cool with that empty wine bottle- maybe I can fit a
tree sculpture inside of it. This will make an *awesome* lyric!
Oooooooh reddit... (one hour later). That's a really awesome poly
article- I should share it with everyone.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out at karaoke night with my poly and poly-friendly friends (I am
very fortunate to have an amazing poly family and community that I
have become part of).... this is typically every single Friday.
Otherwise, I'm usually entertaining a half-dozen random guests at
my house with Firefly
or New Girl reruns (also
), copious bottles
of wine, and whatever my husband whips up in the kitchen. I love to
dance- but kinda have to be in the mood for any club scene... I'm
known for randomly turning my living room into salsa night though.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an open book to people I care about- lets see if we can get
that far first.
You should message me if
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*You actually *read* my *whole* profile
*You can write in intelligent and coherent sentences
*You are poly-friendly
*You are intelligent, interesting, and independent
*You actually have opinions of your own
*We actually seem like a *good* match
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