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49 F New Rochelle, NY

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Other, but not too serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids
Has cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm chronically inquisitive, adventurous and open-minded; a laid back person who puts people at ease and fosters open communication; a natural conciliator.

I'm attracted to people who look for and find the unusual, beautiful, and amusing in the everyday and can creatively describe it in words. I gravitate to tall, athletic and kind of smart-alecky (but not snarky) men: you know, the kind of guy who can playfully make fun of me verbally and be playful physically. Nicknames welcome.

I often forget to log off this site. I am not, contrary to appearances at times, checking this site 24/7.
What I’m doing with my life
I work freelance and am selective about the projects I take. I'm blessed to have choices and take at least 4 months off annually. I have a reputation as a great boss and enjoy identifying people with little to no experience in my field and helping them build a career.

As a family we travel, we zip-line, we kayak, we bike, we read. Alone, I'm content to do all that or just relax at a beach for a few days. I can pack in like 15 minutes.

I'm seeking to build a partnership with a man of eclectic interests, innate charm and charisma...someone who has as much to share as they're looking to receive. Ideally, a soulful lover, a fanciful friend, a good listener and fellow traveler -- a committed relationship.

While I'm raising kids in lower Westchester County, I own an apt in Brooklyn (though it's currently tenant-occupied), work in the city and my cultural-dining life/spirit is mostly city-centered.
I’m really good at
Bending in interesting ways. I've practiced yoga for 20 years and am thankful for the agility and balance I've cultivated. I also have an impeccable inner GPS and great parkma (parking karma)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Just finished Freedom, went through a Philip Roth phase, am forever re-reading The Short Stories of John Cheever and a lot of David Foster Wallace. Love Lorrie Moore, Richard Ford (though didn't like Lay Of The Land), read The Times habitually. As for music, I find myself oddly okay with Pink (who I hear in the car when driving with my daughter), but am relieved that my son is, like me, into any kind of music with a non-electronic beat: Citizen Cope, Broken Bells, Alice In Chains, Eddie Vedder, Fleetwood Mac, Ray La Montagne are in current rotation. We recently saw a great funk band in New Orleans. Made me realize I need to get out to see live music more. Re food, I'm open to any and all cuisines save for Korean. Meat and pickles is just not a broad enough palate.

TV: Homeland, House of Cards, The Wire, Orange Is The New Black

A bit of an WNYC junkie
The six things I could never do without
My children and friends
Copper pots
Good red/white wine depending on the season
The kindness of strangers
Fitted jeans tucked in tall boots in winter; sundresses and sandals in summer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How maybe it's all about timing.
On a typical Friday night I am
Free as a bird since my ex typically has the kids that night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I harbor a secret fear that the kitchen cabinets could, at any time, fall on my head.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 47–57
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You want to get off this hamster wheel.