Since I'm no good at self-summary, I'm going to crib something that xbklyngrrlx wrote about me. Also it describes the guy I hope I come across as:
"He is dapper, flirtatious, and a gentleman. He puts most white men on the dance floor to shame, appreciates good grammar and bawdy humor equally. He charms the pants off everyone ((or skirt) and sometimes actually off!). His bendyness has inspired me to get bendy, too. He is a child whisperer & an amazing dad. His chicken soup cured my flu and his cocktails should be shared with the worthy (open invite, byoliquor). He is a gifted yet understated lion tamer and problem solver.
While I haven't known him very long in the grand scheme of things, his hidden Superpower is his heart of gold and that, plus all the rest, makes [redacted] a unicorn of a man whose friendship we all treasure. "
I'll take it.