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L3xLuthor

41 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:37am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Father. Sales Guy. Yogi. Lover. Over-dressed cyclist.

Since I'm no good at self-summary, I'm going to crib something that xbklyngrrlx wrote about me. Also it describes the guy I hope I come across as:

"He is dapper, flirtatious, and a gentleman. He puts most white men on the dance floor to shame, appreciates good grammar and bawdy humor equally. He charms the pants off everyone ((or skirt) and sometimes actually off!). His bendyness has inspired me to get bendy, too. He is a child whisperer & an amazing dad. His chicken soup cured my flu and his cocktails should be shared with the worthy (open invite, byoliquor). He is a gifted yet understated lion tamer and problem solver.

While I haven't known him very long in the grand scheme of things, his hidden Superpower is his heart of gold and that, plus all the rest, makes [redacted] a unicorn of a man whose friendship we all treasure. "

I'll take it.
What I’m doing with my life
Staying as close as I can to and supporting my son. Seeing this world. Selling other people's stuff. Blending new flavors. Trying new food. Drinking well. Meeting new people. Loving those that deserve it. Yoga.
I’m really good at
Finding a meal where there was only food. Finding a cocktail where there were only bottles. Navigating train schedules and bike trails.

Also, hot chocolate. Seriously, I was sipping on a batch that I just made and had to come here to brag. It's a pretty big deal.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm bald. Yep. There it is. I am follically challenged. You want a man who uses all his testosterone on a useless head of hair, I'm not your guy. I use it for other things. But, you know, we'll get to that eventually.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love to read. It may be the overarching passion of my life. But, my favorite books always seem to be connected to the time of my life I read them and not necessarily their quality.
Were I to list them here, we'd have nothing to talk about.
Tell you what, ask me what I'm reading and I'll tell you. Because there's always at least one answer to that. Weird that this seems like such a personal question....

Favorite movies and television tend to be be defined by the voices in them. I love the sound of conversation. Sooo, in no particular order The Thin Man, Philadelphia Story, West Wing (1st 4 seasons but really, the rest is like pizza. Even when it's bad, its still pretty good), SportsNight, Studio 60 On The Sunset Strip, Gilmore Girls, Parenthood, Mad Men, Breaking Bad. I'm sure there's more.

As to food. My palate is as itchy to explore as the rest of me.
The six things I could never do without
-Son.
-Work.
-Bicycle.
-Yoga mat.
-That Grrl.
-A new mountain (literal and metaphorical) to climb.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
-Where I'm going next.
-Why I seem to be able meet people so easily but have no idea how to approach women I'm interested in. I was in an incredibly long relationship and seemed to have let those skills atrophy.
-How little do I have to carry with me? (seriously, I spend a LOT of time on this one.)
-Why does my inbox fill faster than I can empty it?
-What does "open relationship" mean? For that matter, what does "polyamory" mean?
On a typical Friday night I am
I haven't really settled in on typical since I've moved here. Lately I've been a little obsessed with yoga, so most Friday nights have been working until I'm done, dinner with co-workers and/or yoga and home to crash after a long week. Also, I seem to have find myself spending a lot of time with someone who likes to dance as much as I do on a Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I rarely drive. It's not that I can't. I have a license and spent years commuting on the 405 in L.A.. But, recently I've realized that I much rather seeing this world from a bicycle or train.

Also, if we hit it off, at some point, we will find ourselves on a dancefloor and you will likely be embarrassed. I REALLY like to dance. But, as I type this, it occurs to me that its possible you won't be embarrassed. You might enjoy it. Is there nothing you can't do, Internet?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–54
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You've got a car. KIDDING!
Message me if I made you giggle. Is there anything sexier in this world than a beautiful woman giggling?

But, who are we kidding? If you're reading this, it's likely that I messaged you and you are deciding whether or not to respond. Things you should know if this is the case:

-When we meet, I will likely have different facial hair. I change it often and just don't take enough pics of myself to keep up with the profile image. Today, it's a full beard with a shaved head.

-As much as I love my son, I'm not looking for a new mother for him. The one he has does just fine. In fact, the chances of you meeting him any time soon even if we really hit it off are pretty slim. Especially since he lives in California and I spend most of my time two thousand miles away from him.

-I am currently spending a lot of time with an incredibly open-minded, adorable, smart and funny grrl (I had originally called her a "lady" here but apparently that is objectionable. Who knew?). But, we both have active social lives apart from each other and with each other. If you see yourself involved in one of those aspects, speak up! Feel free to look her up (xbklyngrrlx).

-A special note about dating. Currently my life is pretty full and wonderful. And I love adding new people to the cast. I'm not (or we're not) "unicorn hunting". But if you end being the kind of friend I (or we) want to get naked with, fantastic!

-I wasn't kidding about the dancing thing. Seriously, it's embarrassing.