I'm a dreamer who worked so hard they came true. I have worked my way through the entertainment ranks to find myself as a Producer of reality shows. This hasn't left me with a ton of time to meet Ms. Right. I love traveling and have found myself in some amazing (and bizarre) places for work (Paris, London, Australia, Qatar, Swamps, Snake Churches, Ect) but still have many places to go and things to see on my personal checklist. I'm not shy and have been thrust in to MANY crazy situations surrounded by complete strangers and having to "Figure it out". I live by the laws of common sense (which sadly isn't common) and even though life isn't fair, I try to be. I'm sure you have no problem meeting people, I don't either, but I'm trying this out to expand my dating pool of more than people I happen to be in the same place at the same time with. I would love to find "the one" but won't put that kind of pressure on myself. I've waited and dated a long time and won't settle now... Although I am ready to meet her. I have no expectations other than hopefully meeting some cool people. When it's right it's right, but who knows how it all comes to be. I would be totally willing to meet someone online, but think meeting in person is the best barometer of chemistry. It's the most important thing and probably the easiest to know if it's there or not. I think the most fun thing on a date is finding someone smart, quick witted, confident, and fun... When I "Click" with someone I'm attracted to it's an amazing experience. I live for witty banter with a beautiful woman. I find myself dating women who other men find intimidating. I am very attracted to intelligence and all that goes with it (ambition, confidence, experience, sarcasm, self reliance) and I hope you are too.
Instead of keeping this novel going I'll list a few things that I hope we have in common...
I like to write my texts in complete sentences and words.
I have 5 sisters so I learned very early what it's like living with women (you don't need to have 5 siblings)
I don't subscribe to any organized religion. I am spiritual, moral, and kind, but don't think there's a dude in the sky judging me.
I don't lie. I find it exhausting. This saves a lot of time and energy and I only have to remember what actually happened not who I told what version to.
I've been in serious relationships before and am good at communicating. I capable of having conversations about my feelings (I also excel at rescuing damsels in distress from spiders so...)
I enjoy going out and having fun when I do. I am NEVER an angry drinker and don't hang around anyone who is. I only choose to do things that bring me happiness. Angry drinkers (or angry anything really) need not apply.
I am spontaneous... I don't like making plans all the time. Sometimes I just want to get in the car and drive and figure the rest out later.
I always open doors, walk on the outside of the street, and say "Thank you" to anyone who helps me. If you don't like a gentleman then we won't work. I enjoy it, was raised to be that way, and would like to meet someone who appreciates it.
I like to give thoughtful gifts. I'll remember the thing a friend said they liked 6 months before and have it wrapped for their birthday or holidays. I find not many people do the same.
I LOVE big curly hair. I have no idea why so many women go to great lengths to straighten... Let it fly!!!
I strive to do the "right thing" in every situation. I'm no boy scout (ok I was when I was a kid) but I consider myself a good person and most of all want that in any person I get close to. There are enough assholes in the world, I don't need them in my inner circle.
Since I have no idea what other people put in these things I hope what I've said makes sense. I guess I could just take a bathroom selfie and message (wht r u up 2 2nite?) and call it a day... but that's just not who I am.