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LANative1965

48 Beverly Hills, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 35–52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Management
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Hi,

I have written and rewritten my profile a few times now, and I'm of the mind at this point that saying little is better.

Here's a little: I like to talk about many things and I'm not afraid to deal with controversy. At the same time I am very sensitive to when people have firm beliefs and positions, and not to make them uncomfortable or challenge them. As you'll see below, I like film and I like music, in spite of the time we live in now, where art forms are generally derivative.

I am not into social media at all. For me it's a complete waste of time.

I have lost a chunk of weight in the last 12 months (60 lbs) and still have a bit to go about 25 pounds. I think I look pretty good though and I am in decent shape.

This isn't much to go with, but, I'm more comfortable with you having a look at me, seeing the simple things like where I live, my height, and my basic stats, and if you're interested in contacting me, or responding to my introduction, then we can go from there.

I am a real person, not a scammer or text only time waster, and think that I am a lot of fun to be with, but ultimately, we have to meet in order to see if there's a spark.

And most importantly I am living with my married partner. There is no physical or romantic connection. There is 100% zero sex, and we sleep in separate rooms. This is the absolute truth which almost no one seems capable of believing. Hasn't been any sex for more than 10 years, which is the age of my daughter (not much of a math riddle). She (my wife) is looking for a steady boyfriend. I'm looking for a steady girlfriend. The reasons why we still cohabitate are simply about our daughter and finances which are not bad but would be materially weakened by moving out. With that said, this will not go on forever and my expectation is that within a couple of years, we will not be cohabitating any longer.

Ok go ahead take a moment with that. Been doing this long enough and tired of avoiding the truth to get a conversation started. So now you know.

And In spite of my circumstances, I'm not desperate. Anyone interested in me, suffice to say, has to have some experience with this or circumstances of their own where it's not a negative or they are a fairly enlightened soul.

Good luck to all of you:-)
What I’m doing with my life
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I have my own business where I handle the international sales for about 30 manufacturers to countries around the world.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being on time. Listening. Learning. Being thankful.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My black hair and ruddy complexion. That I'm very nice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Spicy food. I add red pepper to a lot things I cook. As far as cuisine: Indian, Thai, Vietnamese , Japanese, Korean, Mexican, The Palm, Ruth Chris's, Canter's, Kingsroad Café, On and on.

Randomly selected flicks I dig:

Bad Santa, Gigantic, Napoleon Dynamite, Lost in Translation, What's Up, Doc?, Collateral, In Bruges, A History of Violence, Eyes Wide Shut, Lock, Stock and Two Smoking Barrels, Heat, Three days of the Condor, Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid, Tombstone, Raising Arizona, The Big Lebowski, Fargo, Searching for Sugar Man, Lars & The Real Girl, Inglorious Basterds, Pulp Fiction, Run Lola Run (German), The Lives of Other People (German), The Celebration (Danish), Jean de Florette/Manon of the Spring (French),
Troubled Water (Norwegian), A Separation (Iranian), Frantic
(Roman Polanski), Amadeus, The Right Stuff, 50% of Wood Allen Films, but up there is Crimes and Misdemeanors, Manhattan, Annie Hall, Match Point...., Night on Earth, Man Facing Southeast, Plunkett and Macleane (soundtrack to this film is awesome), The Parallax View, Chinatown, Marathon Man, Bridesmaids, Superbad, Henry Fool, 310 to Yuma, Saving Pvt. Ryan, War of the Worlds (Spielberg), The Exorcist, Omen I & II, There Will Be Blood, Boogie Nights, Magnolia, Punch Drunk Love, Ronin, Goodfellas, 48 Hours

Comedians: Louis CK, Bill Burr, Chris Rock

Cable: Game of Thrones, Veep, Girls, House of Lies, Boardwalk Empire, Southland, The Borgias, Hell on Wheels, Vikings. Also History channel programs and NatGeo stuff like programs on The Universe, Ancient Rome and Ancient Egypt.

Music: Alt-J, twenty one pilots, Hot Chip, Arctic Monkeys, Caught A Ghost, Four Tet, Hal Hartley, Chicane, Savager, Snow Patrol, New Order, Thomas Dolby, Mono, The Lonely Island, Ulrich Schnauss, Sigur Rós, The The, The Cure, Paul Oakenfold, Brian Eno, 3 Dog Night, The Rolling Stones, Cat Stevens, Led Zeppelin, James Taylor, The Sex Pistols, Mozart, Beethoven, Tchaikovsky, Bach, Handel, Mahler, Chopin, Rachmaninoff, Gershwin, Aaron Copland, and so much more

I don't read many books right now, but when I do I tend to gravitate towards biographies. I've been trying to teach myself German (Rosetta Stone) and enjoy it a lot. Would love to meet someone that I can practice with.

I do think the greatest writer of prose in the 20th century was Evelyn Waugh, and I loved the British television production of Brideshead Revisited
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My daughter, coffee, my dog Mamu, HBO, exercise, comedy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How strange it is that there are so many people apparently single, and looking for love, but so few having success at it online.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out and relaxing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'll get back to you on that.
You should message me if
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You feel like messaging me.