I think now spontaneity and flexibility are the key to my happiness. Carefree timelessness (I.e. going with the flow) is a good way to live. Appreciating the small and simple things in life such as hanging out by the ocean, or a good conversation, or experiencing something for the first time. Definitely a key for my serenity...
I love working out now too. I do these outdoor boot camp style classes 5 days a week and I love it. I am training for the Tough Mudder in October, but more importantly I just feel better when I work out consistently. It's good for my psyche and I'm more motivated to be a better person too, and I like that :-)
I have six years sober in AA and I say this because it's such a big part of my life now that I wouldn't mind having that in common with my future partner. It is not a deal breaker though.
I'm looking for someone on here that is in a good place in their life. Someone who is not done enjoying life, but is more in tune with what they want to get out of it.
I also want someone who is willing to try anything and everything at least once!! And still gets excited at the prospect of trying that new thing! That's a rush for me..
My friends have described me as adventurous, knowledgeable, well traveled, optimistic, open-minded, easy-going, funny, goal oriented, and a great friend.
I guess I would love to meet someone who shares some of those similiar qualities.