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68 Berkeley, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 62–74
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:25am
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body type
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Has kids
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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Some things I like: Travel, laugh, cycle, hike, backpack, play piano, dance, read, meditate, make love, learn, spend time with family and friends, movies, theater, concerts, volunteer in a public school kindergarten, relax, pet my cats, good conversation, watch baseball (go A's!), watch TV (rarely), try new things, visit with my adult sons and new grandson - who live in LA.

Some words to describe me: Happy, outgoing, sensitive, quiet, active, caring, strong, sensuous, loving, funny, thoughtful, kind, honest.

You: Smart, fit, open, introspective, solvent, left-wing or liberal, non-smoker, kind.
What I’m doing with my life
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Discovering all the wonderful things I can do in retirement.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a good and caring friend. I'm also responsible, organized, and can pay attention to details. And more . . .
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm kind of a "what you see is what you get" person. People usually notice my warmth, out-going-ness and down-to-earthness. I also am easy to be with, like to have fun, and have a good sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love to read and am always in the middle of a book. Some recent favorites have been: Cutting for Stone, Water for Elephants, Still Alice, Shantarum, The Art of Racing in the Rain, The Room, Unbroken, Cry of the Kalahari, Eye of the Elephant. I go to Berkeley Rep, enjoy live music (jazz, classical, folk) and movies.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My adult kids
Family and close friends
My health and fitness
My cats
My bike and hiking boots
My piano
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I recently commented to a long time friend, that "I have to get back in my groove," (after a summer of traveling and things). Her reply was, "Maybe there isn't a groove." I'm thinking about that.

Every day I marvel and appreciate how beautiful it is outside and lucky I am to live in the Bay Area. I am so grateful for the beauty and good things and people all around me. At the same time I think about how "give back" a little and to help address the many seriously troubling things that are going on.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes I go to Berkeley Rep. I often take a swing dance class at the Y or go listen to live music. Sometimes I stay home and read and play piano.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a large stack of unread New Yorker's.
You should message me if
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If you are a man who is happy with himself, enjoys his life and cherishes his relationships with his friends and family, can be an intimate and lasting friend, lover, and companion.