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27 Atlanta, GA Non-binary


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18-99
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:57pm
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Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Full figured
Working on Post grad
English, Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
i like earnest, self aware one-on-ones & loud spaces i can be quiet in.

* my location is always and forever temporary.
i will probably come to your city if you invite me. i'm open ended -
i'm only ever visiting.

/hyperlinks abound/ mobile is dead. secrets are everywhere.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
going over and under and through & writing stories about you.

straddling fine lines. rejecting apathy. re-evaluating solipsism. appreciating disparaged body parts. pursing people completely.
evaluating and re-evaluating.
wrestling with the complexity (re: absurdity) of Being People.

i sigh a lot, big and heavy, look distraught often & when I meet new people i always bring a book i hope we can read aloud from.

driving 'round & 'round to make myself endlessly happysadlonelyanxiousoptimistic working on this project:
+ takin' silly fotos:
& being angsty online like everyone else.
see also: MFA

see also also:
trying to do Being Good to Others and definitely doing Tender.
being (considerably less) angsty about transitions. (all kinds)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
ritual. revivals. nostalgia. being anyone at anytime. leaving the curtains open. close encounters. truck stops. back roads. reading poetry in sylvia plath's voice. appreciating nervous laughter. writing nonsense. mistaking the forest for the trees.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
mild wild.

“[someone] highly susceptible to the mere mention of flight. (i might at that moment have turned around and gone; i might just then have been thinking of it.)”
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
warsan shire / kierkegaard / n+1
(YA fiction when i want to pretend the world isn't terrible)

badlands, southwest, anything terence nance has ever done
*making a music playlist and watching movies on mute with subtitles is fun, too.

jesse woods on the road, especially when the land is plenty
angel olsen in the dark, under blankets
daughter when the tide is low, or in the city at dawn
+ (podcasts daily)
++ rummaging.

[fried pickle connoisseur.]
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
// reading in public
// Good Arguing
// voices in the wire
// sounds~textures [thick cut china hitting the saucer hitting the table pouring the coffee in
water over hands water in large bodies
furious typing; sometimes paper or plastic packaging; tummies rumblin'--“the story’s in the soil keep your ear to the ground”]
// reaction gifs
// jubilee years
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
hearts spilling over
pouring buckets into people / communities (are these two things even separable? add it to the list of questions)
non hierarchical ways of living / inter-accountability.
phenomenology. black anarchism. womanist/process theology. the effectiveness of civil resistance movements. combatting The Meaninglessness.
language as art / language as a site of resistance
calling in vs calling out.
accountability & the performance of Goodness
how to get people to tell me their secrets.
death by plane crash.
mark aghur.

(but can we really really talk
about some of this pleasemaybethankyou?)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
probably sitting in my car with something to read thinking about going in-to some/place, some/space (but never going in, no never)

in my dreams.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
*no thanks: malcolm gladwell, fight club, "nietzsche culture", pop psychology, americanized eastern practices.

we are done with capital i's

i enjoy disruptive linguistics and think people who heavily police grammar and spelling are boring (at best.) people who self describe as "grammar nazis" make me O_o
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you're more interested in meeting at the airport to people watch than meeting at the bar.

you want to go to where the moon's dropped down to the earth.
you want to drive around the desert doing ethical revivals with me (whatever that means. but really.)
you think hedonism is dead (maybe you tried it and it just wasn’t working out) but you like getting extra weird.

but especially if
you want to hear the whole story or want to tell yours.