Hello and thanks for taking the time to read my profile. I'm just going to be as bluntly honest as possible since I'm not a big fan of playing games and I know exactly what I want and hope you feel the same way too. I've pretty much given up on writing letters to you ladies since after about 3 years and about 300 letters I've come to realize that getting a response is about impossible. I usually write a pretty decent sized letter when I do write because I figure the last thing someone wants is someone just saying, "Hey, sup." So to save myself from carpal tunnel in my latter years, I'm sticking to winks and clicking yes on the meet me page. I may write letter of greetings to you first if I feel that you have a great amount of potential in my eyes. That all being said, if you're interested say hello, you don't need to be fancy about it if you're shy just give me that first glimmer of interest and, if I'm interested, I'll write you. One caveat for you ladies though is as much as I don't mind a girl with some meat on her bones, I'm just not attracted to bigger women. Nothing against you as a person but for a marriage to work there must be some physical attraction.

Okay so yeah I mentioned marriage. I do mean that, I am looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with. I'm not that picky or needy about what qualities you may have. The biggest thing I'm looking for in a relationship is just mutual love and desire. I don't want us to waste each other's time if we're not the right people for each other, and I'm not the type of person who's going to just tell you what you want to hear to keep you around for as long as I can fool you. I want the real deal, so if you're interested read on.

A little about me then to close things off. First I'll point out the bad so that if I mention any deal breakers(I have many) you can go ahead an move on to the next suitor. I'm a 34 year old college student, yeah pretty sexy already, eh? I'm studying mechanical engineering at a community college currently since I thought I could just drive a truck my whole life.(I'll let you Google the pay scale for a bachelors degree toting mechanical engineer yourself, if money is what you're looking for) So strike 2 would be that 4 and a half years ago I had a seizure which was later trace to a brain tumor(which was not cancerous and has been removed) after spending 3 years working with the doctors to get back to driving a semi(with my blind wife divorcing me during this period since I wasn't bringing in the money I did driving a semi) I finally got back to driving just to have a second seizure 6 months later. I also do not drive currently. Legally I can drive but I choose not to since owning a car costs money I don't want to spend, I live next to the school so I don't really need a car anyway, and especially I don't want to be the reason someone has to bury their kids.

Okay now for the good stuff, thanks for reading this far. I'm a very affectionate and loving person, always have been always will be. In fact I've been described as clingy but I feel that's not correct since I have no problem with my partner doing her own thing if she wants provided she's still letting me know I'm loved I'm gonna be perfectly happy. I think they mistake my desire to be close emotionally and physically when possible and appropriate as abnormal for a guy. I am also very open, I don't feel you can really love someone without opening yourself up to them as much as you can. Also, as much of a loser as I am financially now, that will not always be the case since after I get my degree I will not be worrying about money. Honestly that's one of the reasons I'm here right now even though I'm not the best catch in the world is I'd rather find someone who loved me when I was nobody rather than marry another woman who only wants the money.

So if you're looking for a sweet, loving, and cuddly guy, drop me a line.

Working on my degree in Mechanical Engineering.

Everything but meeting the right woman.

I'm tall.

I think about everything, I've very random up in the noggin most times.

Doing nothing special.

I'll admit anything, just have to ask. Secrets are for people who are ashamed of their decisions.

You're interested in a lasting relationship or are looking for a friend to hang out with.