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51 M Chelmsford, MA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 38–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Not at all
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them

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My self-summary
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I am generally happy with my life, but there is always room for improvement, so I'm here to explore possibilities.

Some of the things I enjoy are bicycling (e.g. Minuteman and Nashoba River rail trails), running local road races, hiking (Wachusett Mountain, Mount Monadnock, etc), apple picking, taking long walks surrounded by beautiful natural scenery. I love the four seasons, but winter lasts too long. So, I'm enjoying late summer, fall

While I enjoy living in the quieter suburbs, I still like to visit the city. Some of my favorite spots are The North End, Public Gardens, Museum of Fine Arts, Museum of Science, Aquarium and Fenway Park.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a research analyst in the substance abuse and mental health field. I have also worked as a college lecturer and freelance writer. My writing is mostly about baseball and I have published a book on the subject.

I have been to Europe including Ireland multiple times, Canada and the western United States. I also enjoy more local trips around New England. I want to travel more both nationally and internationally.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am more introverted than extroverted which helps me to be a good listener. I try to avoid drama and tend to be a steadying influence. I am good at staying fit and healthy.

Most women say that they appreciate a man with a sense of humor. I believe that everyone has a sense of humor, but there are different types of humor. Mine tends to be dry wit and sometimes sarcasm.
The first things people usually notice about me
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They notice that I look Mediterranean. I am half Greek and half Irish, but nobody ever guesses Irish. Some notice that I'm lucky enough to have a full head of dark brown hair at age 51.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like to read classic literature, biographies, baseball history and many other things. Some of my favorites are The Grapes Of Wrath (I believe I have read every Steinbeck novel), Empire Falls ( or anything else by Russo), Born to Run and The Numbers Game.

I like many types of music including songs from the 80s (Duran Duran, Go Gos, etc), 90s (Third Eye Blind), Swing Music from 30s and 40s, electronic dance music.

I don't watch a lot of regular television shows other than baseball in the summer. I'm not anti-TV though and do enjoying watching a movie with you.

I eat simply and healthfully - lots of chicken, fruit and cooked vegetables. I do have a weakness for homemade cookies.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My bicycle
2. baseball
3. sunsets
4. internet
5. bottle of water
6. running
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Lately, I've been thinking about about how to write a good OKCupid profile that is honest, yet not too generic and boring. :-) I think about places I might travel or my next baseball article.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Here are some not so private things about me that I know you'll ask:

I have never been married. I have been in relationships - all good ones - but have not met the right woman yet.

I do not have children, but I do like them. I have dated a woman with children and it's OK if you have children.
You should message me if
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You are happy with your life, but looking for someone to share it with.

You are intelligent and curious and have a strong passion for your work, hobbies or other activities.

You like the outdoors and are physically fit and active.

You are a kind, down-to-earth and positive person.