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LJLehmann

50 F Saint Paul, MN

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 40–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 15
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Law
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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It is important that I say it like I see it and I can only hope it does not turn you off but as a woman on chat/dating site I feel it is better to put it out there first instead of somewhere else in my profile where this message might get lost. So here it goes! If you don't like drama in your life, you are who say you are, no stretching the truth, no serious criminal/felony records AT ALL, you are interested in friendship that turns into a long term relationship, and these issues are also important to you then that is great! and I would love to hear from you! Lets chat:)

For the most part, I am an open book to the people I feel comfortable with. My current career involves legal and social aspects; I work with people who are in some of the worst possible times of their lives. It has helped me fine tune my ability to look at the most optimistic possibilities about another's situation. I use this in my work, and outside of it, to help people with problems they typically find difficult to deal with.

I am looking for someone who is strong with a big heart. Who is goal oriented large or small, that when you wake up in the morning you see your life ambitions are in front of you and no time like the present to go after them. Who has no problem taking care of thier business, optimistic, and enjoys life. If you think life is short and there is no time like the present to get to know someone new; that you can never have too many good friends. If you agree with that, lets go from there. :-)

I have two bi-racial children (African-American/White). If you agree that our differences are what makes everyone unique and worth the time to get to know, then we would be a good match.
Without our differences the world would be intolerable and a boring existence.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Last year I took some Interior Designer classes, but desided to not pursue it as a carreer. I spent several years doing the construction and modifications to my home. It is the Interior Design part I loved most. I still seem to keep on fine tuning the Interior of my home. I enjoy working hard and playing harder. I am great at connecting with people, making others laugh and having a good time. I can be the life of the party, but I dont have a hard time focusing on the person I am with. I am out spoken and with a big heart :-) I love, walks, talks, debating nicely, movies, theator, holding hands cuddling with someone special, I enjoy being the hostes for gathers at my home especially on the holidays. Oh yes, laughter can never ever have to much laughter!

PLEASE SEND send a short message instead of "A FLIRT". It is kind of a waste of time don't you think so?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Working hard and playing harder. I am great at connecting with people. I enjoy making others laugh and having a good time. I can be the life of the party, but I don't have a hard time focusing on the person I went to the party with.

I am good at helping people with their problems; I don't like to see people in need and tend to be compassionate about a vast majority of people's issues. I like to help people help themselves. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair and then my smile. I am very outgoing and enjoy socializing, but not being a social butterfly. I am also a natural leader and have no problem taking care of things when they are needed.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The last book I read was, "Eat, Pray, Love". It was about a woman who was going through a change in her life and she did some soul searching. She took a year off from work and life and flew around the world to do it. For me, it was fun to read and try to imagine doing that in my own life.

I love to read faith-based books and I like to listen to local stations such as 89.9, KS94.5, 97.5 and alternative/easy listening/adult contemporary music. I also enjoy occasionally R&B and music from MoTown.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) My faith in God.
2) My children.
3) My family.
4) Laughter and joy.
5) A career.
6) Basic necessities.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Uh...... finding someone to date lol! No if it happens it happens. It is better to put time into a relationship then to just jump in head first. Dating sites take time and patients. I've spent a good amount of time with my work and family, and now that my children are grown and I am financially secure, I am finding I want to start looking for a significant other. It is not so much that I hadn't wanted to before, but I took on quite a few projects with work, my home and raising my children, that time seemed to fly by. So here I am, 48 and ready to date.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
either...
1) chillin' and watching something like Law and Order or HgTV
2) reading a good book,
3) going to see a movie with my "adult" children,
5) working nights at current job.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I am looking forward to meeting interesting people on Okcupid,
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you don't like drama in your life, you are who say you are, no stretching the truth, no criminal/felony records, and these issues are important to you also. If you think life is short and there is no time like the present to get to know someone new; that you can never have too many good friends. If you agree with that, lets go from there. :-)

Without our differences the world would be intolerable and a boring existence!!!! Don't you think?