LJLehmann
51 Saint Paul, MN
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My self-summary
It is important that I say it like I see it and I can only hope it does not turn you off but as a woman on chat/dating site I feel it is better to put it out there first instead of somewhere else in my profile where this message might get lost. So here it goes! If you don't like drama in your life, you are who say you are, no stretching the truth, no serious criminal/felony records AT ALL, you are interested in friendship that turns into a long term relationship, and these issues are also important to you then that is great! and I would love to hear from you! Lets chat:)

For the most part, I am an open book to the people I feel comfortable with. My current career involves legal and social aspects; I work with people who are in some of the worst possible times of their lives. It has helped me fine tune my ability to look at the most optimistic possibilities about another's situation. I use this in my work, and outside of it, to help people with problems they typically find difficult to deal with.

I am looking for someone who is strong morals with a big heart. Who is goal oriented large or small, that when you wake up in the morning you see your life ambitions are in front of you and no time like the present to go after them. Who has no problem taking care of their business, optimistic, and enjoys life. If you think life is short and there is no time like the present to get to know someone new and you can never have too many good friends. If you agree lets go from there. :-)

I have two bi-racial children (African-American/White). I believe that our differences are what makes everyone unique and worth the time to get to know. if you agree, then we would be a good match.
Without our differences the world would be intolerable and a boring existence.
What I’m doing with my life
I work full time 9 to 5 pm. I work on my home when I get time. I also enjoy refinishing and refurbishing furniture. Breathing new life and design in to old pieces of furniture.
I’m really good at
Working hard and playing harder. I am great at connecting with people. I enjoy making others laugh and having a good time. I can be the life of the party, but I don't have a hard time focusing on the person I went to the party with.

I am good at helping people to help themselves with their problems. I see myself as a bit of a humanitairen and to tend to be compassionate about a vast majority of issues.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, my height, and my hair. I am very outgoing and enjoy socializing, but not being a social butterfly. I am also a natural leader and have no problem taking care of my life.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The last book I read was, "Eat, Pray, Love". It was about a woman who was going through a change in her life and she did some soul searching. She took a year off from work and flew around the world to do it. For me, it was fun to read and try to imagine doing that in my own life.

I love to read faith-based books and enjoy listening to local stations such as 89.9, KS94.5, 97.5 and alternative/easy listening/adult contemporary music, R&B and MoTown.
The six things I could never do without
1) My faith in God.
2) My children.
3) My family.
4) Laughter and joy.
5) A career.
6) Basic necessities.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
It is better to put time into a relationship then to just jump in head first. Dating sites take time and patients. I am financially secure, I am finding I want to start looking for a significant other. So here I am, 50 year old and ready to date.
On a typical Friday night I am
either...
1) chillin' and watching Law and Order, HgTV, Bar Rescue, cooking shows.
2) reading a good book,
3) going to see a movies,
5) going to the gym.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
That I am looking forward to meeting that special man from the site.
You should message me if
If you don't like drama in your life, you are who say you are, no stretching the truth, no criminal/felony records, and these issues are important to you also. If you think life is short and there is no time like the present to get to know someone new; that you can never have too many good friends. If you agree with that, lets go from there. :-)

Without our differences the world would be intolerable and a boring existence!!!! Don't you think?
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