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I am kind, silly, and thoughtful

LJSds

30 / m / straight / Single

Baltimore, Maryland, United States

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Ethnicity Black

Height 6' 3" (1.90m).

Looking For New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners

Smokes No

Drinks Sometimes

Drugs N/A

Religion Buddhism and somewhat serious about it

Sign Leo and it's fun to think about

Education Working on two-year college

Job N/A

Income N/A

Kids Likes children

Pets Likes dogs and Likes cats

Languages English (Fluently)

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My self-summary

I am nice to a fault at times. One of my biggest joys in life is being kind to others. I am a work in progress, making progress. I just might communicate better with music then I do with words. I like to sing but can never remember the words, however I do keep trying. I have a fascination with printed words, but I am not particularly verbose. If I can help anyone with pretty much anything that makes me happy. I am much better at listening than talking, however I do enjoy pontificating over the issues of the day. I love cooking and hate cooking for just myself, but I do have leftovers, which isn't so bad. I tend to name things that I use a lot. There are a few things that I am around so much that I feel like they are friends. For instance my bass is named Marcellus, cause he is my best, most loyal friend, and he's not someone you wanna mess with. If you get where the name comes from then +10 for you, the clue is in my profile.

What I'm doing with my life

I am in college, the long term goal is a masters degree in music. But I am in community college studying computers. I have done the starving artist and am over it. I currently work my tail off as a jr electrician. I love music, had a band, hope to start another.

I am a bass player. I read about it, think about it, learn about it. It's what I'm good at.

Also getting in shape is important to me. I jog almost every day, do yoga and a number of other physical activities. Maintaining an active lifestyle is important to me. But I do like my couch time also.

I'm really good at

Music. I play bass, piano and guitar. Also I have been known to sing on occasion. I seem to be good at making people feel comfortable. I can cook pretty well, anything from a fried catfish and a killer steak to a really nice vegan chili. I give the best hugs ever.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me

I'm a big guy, 6'3" 235 lbs with dreads. I get the "big teddy bear" a lot.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Movies: Comedies mostly, Pulp Fiction, The Big Lebowski, Reefer Madness, Coming to America, The Blues Brothers, Enter the Dragon, Iron Monkey, Death to Smoochy

Music:

Jaco Pastorius, Charles Mingus, John Coltrane, Dave Brubeck, Wayne Shorter, Chick Corea, Charlie Parker, Marcus Miller, Miles Davis, Stanley Clarke, Wes Montgomery, Larry Graham, Stevie Wonder, Earth, Wind and Fire, James Jamerson(Motown Bassist), Les Claypool, Umphrey's McGee, DJ Shadow, Daft Punk, Steely Dan, Chicago, Amon Tobin, John Ellis, Meshell Ndegeocello, Tori Amos, Bill Withers, Marvin Gaye, Return To Forever, Weather Report, Seal,

I have a guilty pleasure when it comes to music and thats hair bands. I loved 80's rock. Van Halen, Def Leppard, Metallica, Aerosmith and so on and so forth.

Food: Whatever i'm cooking

Books: Tech manuals for school, Philosophy (Krishnamurti, Chopra), Harry Potter, more school books

The six things I could never do without

Friends
My bass
Live music
Good food
My Computer
I'll get back to you on this one

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The future. I am at a point in my life where I am beginning to think about how my future will unfold, and I am taking control of my future.

How will I organize the stream of thoughts and words into my next song?

Equal rights for all people. I tend to go back and forth about if a man can actually be a feminist, but if so, that's me. I think Gay rights is one of the biggest issues of our time, equal to the civil rights movement of the 60's. How could so many people in our country vote against love?

On a typical Friday night I am

Seeing a band, playing a gig or relaxing at home.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here

I can't swim. I love water sports, but alas falling out of the boat is an issue

You should message me if

You are an artist, musician, liberally minded, kind and intelligent.

If you know who Jaco Pastorius is.

If you wanna see a show.

If you like someone to cook for you.

If you can play chess (i'm a little rusty).

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