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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35-63
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Dec 26, 2014
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Other and it’s important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English, Spanish, Portuguese (Somewhat), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I"m a writer. And a few other things of a creative nature. I'm looking for something deeper than a hookup.
Looking for an authentic, spiritual (I didn't say religious) man of integrity with whom to deepen emotionally and otherwise.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Improving. At least, we can hope so...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Playing with words. Kissing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can make my eyebrows dance. If I happened to be doing that when you first saw me, that would be the first thing you noticed.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love a book called Disappearance of the Universe. I went through a James Kirkwood period, and a Robert Heinlein period, a David Sedaris period, an Augusten Burroughs period, and a Calvin and Hobbes period...let's move past the reading.
I always said Field of Dreams was my favorite movie, but I saw Life of Pi and it completely rocked me. And I just saw Her, and it was a profound experience.
Shows: Les Mis, A Chorus Line, Book of Mormon, Into the Woods, Next to Normal, Nicholas Nickleby, Cloud Nine, Angels in America, ...let's move past the shows.
I love Brazilian jazz, anything by Ben Folds...and lots of other stuff.
Food is nice. Let's leave it at that.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A sense of humor
An alternate perspective
Love (I hear it's all you need)
My friends
Sondheim musicals
A voucher for six more things to put on this list
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If there had been photography in Voltaire's day, do you think there'd be a Candide Camera?
(Well...I guess I don't spend VERY much time thinking about that...)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Shark Tank! Unless a fascinating man is knocking at my door. As it were.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
...will be shared with you on the second date. :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You appreciate a sense of humor, and likely have one of your'd rather be kind than sarcastic. Open-hearted men are hot.
Also, I'm HIV neg, so it's probably easier if you are also (no offense intended to my poz brothers).