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34 M Nottingham, United Kingdom

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:02pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
I'm a laid-back, compassionate, good-humoured bloke. A fairly solitary figure but keen to avoid too much of my own company. I come into contact with a great many people through my work, so it kind of doubles up as a social life. I'm quite old-fashioned in certain respects but go out of my way to avoid convention.
What I’m doing with my life
Working as a mail processor, which I quite like. I have certain literary ambitions which I tend not to talk about. I never seem to read enough or write as much as I would like. I am constantly battling for a balance between work and leisure. Work seems to be winning lately.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm not the late John Thaw of Inspector Morse fame.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books include The Quiet American by Graham Greene; A Single Man by Christopher Isherwood; The Disenchanted by Budd Schulberg; The Mask of Dimitrios by Eric Ambler; The Group by Mary McCarthy; To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee; Nothing Like the Sun by Anthony Burgess; Julian by Gore Vidal; Cat's Cradle by Kurt Vonnegut; The Heart is a Lonely Hunter by Carson McCcullers; The Name of the Rose by Umberto Eco; Day of the Triffids by John Wyndham; Sons and Lovers by D.H. Lawrence; The Mosquito Coast by Paul Theroux; tons of others (including history and politics).

Films include Twelve Angry Men; Zelig; Night of the Hunter; City Lights; The Wages of Fear; Targets; The Old Dark House; The King of Comedy; An Actor's Revenge; Seven Samurai; Dog Day Afternoon; Short Cuts; Theatre of Blood; Witchfinder General; Sons of the Desert; Duck Soup; The Night They Raided Minsky's; Carry On films; The Odd Couple (I could go on...and on!)

Music includes Neil Young; Bob Dylan; Ella Fitzgerald; Chris Farlowe; Rolling Stones; Pink Floyd; The Who; Seasick Steve; Tom Waits; Harry James; Toots and the Maytals; Benny Goodman; Joan Armatrading; R.E.M; Eels; Sam Brown; Nat King Cole; Frank Sinatra; Howlin' Wolf; Cream; Johnny Cash; Muddy Waters; Creedence Clearwater Revival; The Bees; Sam Cooke (and much more)

Food is a bit less expansive: fish and chips; potatoes; anything Indian; rhubarb crumble; Monster Munch.
The six things I could never do without
My (immediate) family.

My hands (I seem to find myself using them quite a lot)

Work (of some sort). I've been unemployed several times in the past and can vouch for how shite it is.

Tea. I'm a big fan of real ale. I love the variety but given the choice I'd probably stick with tea every time.

Books. I'm a bibliophile and I have thousands of them. If I live to be a hundred and twenty I wouldn't be able to get through them all (especially not while I'm only able to grab a few pages on the bus to work).

Films. I've been a big film enthusiast for most of my life. The DVD collection doesn't rival the book collection but that doesn't mean it isn't vast.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Time. How there used to be more of it and how it used to last longer. How I don't fit into modern life too well (which I don't find a problem) but probably wouldn't have fit too well into the past either.
On a typical Friday night I am
At work...but only till 10, which isn't the end of the world.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't know how to tie a tie; I can't click my fingers; I cannot abide coffee.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 24–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You're not a gym-dwelling, tango-tanned, TOWIE wannabe who uses text language. Everybody else is fine.