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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 43–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Judaism and laughing about it
Has kids and doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Dutch (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Hi. I'm the outgoing type who loves travel, thrives on laughter and enjoys big adventures. I'm most comfortable outdoors. I'm sincere, passionate and athletic,,,, yawn, yawn. I am told I'm really funny, witty, quite considerate, a great dad, and I get the big picture. For the most part I am neat and organized. After having learned some hard lessons I have a real zest to live life with no room for games or casual flings as there are simply too many bumps in the road to live any other way.
I prefer eating healthy but don't go crazy with it. I enjoy stimulating conversation, holding hands, long walks in foreign countries, the beach, hikes in the woods, snowstorms and snuggling by the fireplace with a glass of wine...more yawning, cliché, cliché..but quite valid.
According to my friends of 40 years I have a talent for meaningful compassion and unending loyalty. After planning it for months I proposed onstage in front of 2000 people. I put my partner first, always. I will leave you silly notes. I will make you laugh.
I have jumped out of a plane. I've driven a car, legally, over 160 mph. Things like this make me happy. I know I don't go for boredom and I can take the adventure thing too far for some, so you don't have to go along and I wouldn't pressure you to. I seek a woman who shares some of these traits, perhaps loves the ESB, and is as committed to finding happiness, via a two way street, as I am. If this works for you, and if you know who the ESB is (or not), I'd really like you to know more about you.
What I’m doing with my life
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Rather reluctantly helping my daughter with her college challenges, reconsidering my 9-5 working career, and planning the next use of my passport.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Name that tune. honesty, sincerity, vacation planning, getting ESB tix at the last moment, making people laugh, having people think I know what I'm doing in the kitchen (I don't but I can fake it pretty well) and being a loving and supportive Dad and partner.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My sense of humor and my story telling talent. After 25 years of business travel I have some rather hilarious true tales involving earthquakes, wedding crashes, driving a forklift through a car intentionally, DHS and El Al detentions, a prostitute payoff,.. enough said.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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REM, Tom Petty, The Cranberries, U2, Neal Young, Bruuuuce, The Rolling Stones, INXS, The Ravonettes, Shirley Manson, George, Paul, John, Elton, Melissa, Black Crowes, Clash, Ramones, Killers, Pretenders. I love the music of the 60's & 70's and Motown too.
Italian, Thai, Spanish food.
Scorsese, Allen, Kubrick, Tarantino, Anderson, Lynch, Coen Bros, Boyle.
I should read more books but I focus on current events.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love and passion
My Bike.. the kind where my legs are the engine
The New York Times
My passport, beaches and off the beaten path vacations
She's obviously not a thing but..should I have said "my daughter" already?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
When I'm going to meet someone who gets me.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes I play in the City for the weekend, or hop to NJ/ PA /CT and visit friends, hang with my niece...or, most likely, I stay home, read, ride and play like New Yorkers do.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am chopsticks challeged, I dislike Facebook and am not too fond of excessive texting.
You should message me if
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You like what you've read, you take care of yourself without being pretentious, you don't feel that next to your kids (if you have any) your handbag/shoes are critical to your happiness with life, and you are serious about finding someone to ride off into the sunset with...eventually, of course.