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LV421

28 M Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:45am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Skinny
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Indonesian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm from the midwest, a boy of the burbs. Stumbled around do-gooding with AmeriCorps here and there for a few years: Bay Area, Boston, New Orleans. I'm now almost 2 years into a New York sojourn after moving here for a grad school journalism degree. (I've since graduated and am now stumbling through some other path.)

I'm kind of an anxious person, but can definitely be seen laid-back. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ROOEsYT6zkw.) I probably over-think things, which is helpful (and kinda charming) in my position: writing. I can cook alright, but I don't know how to bake. I love music, but don't dance. Still a little nerdy. Maybe weird. I like sports. In a Grantland way. I'm nice. And sadly, yes, sincere. Travels well.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Looking to figure things out and perhaps have a good time along the way.

Striving to be a better writer, reader, thinker, and person; maybe making my way up the journo-ladder.

I think a lot about "the arts" and culture. I try to write about it too— at least when I'm not doing the day job (i look over an outdoor "reading room" of books, magazines, and newspapers in a well-known midtown park) which allows me to do my "real job": again, writing, which currently is on film and art shows, but I have a few long form ideas in me.

[Forgetting to log out of OKCupid on public computers. I should be glad people don't do worse to my profile than this.] saving this for posterity.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being talkative and riffing on all things.

Remembering things—dates, names, titles—and now forgetting some...

http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/wonkblog/wp/2014/04/16/your-brain-is-over-the-hill-by-age-24/?wprss=rss_AllWPStoriesandBlogs&Post+generic=%3Ftid%3Dsm_twitter_washingtonpost&clsrd

Being a nebbish dilettante.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I talk a lot—voluminously and discursively.
I'm thin—i prefer lithe/lithesome
I have a beard.
I know a lot of stuff.
I'm nice—it's hard to hide.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Lately I've been into The Wrens and still podcasts—Criminal, the gist, planet money, radiolab, memory palace, tal, judge john hodgman

Books: Lord of the Flies, The Road, Into the Wild, Borges, Poe, My Name is Red. Non-fiction a bit, Harpers, New Yorker, NYT.

Movies: ozu, Tree of Life, La Jatee, The Apartment, Duck Soup, Jules and Jim, Small Change, Let the Right One In, Enter the Void, Godfather I and II, Sunset Bwld, Ran, Road Warrior, Jaws, Blue Velvet, Alice (Jan S.), Alien, and on

Shows: Twin Peaks, Seinfeld, it's always sunny, Louie

Music: Replacements, Joy Division, Beatles, Antlers, Hank Willams, Theolonious Monk, Zombies, Deerhunter, Beach House, Grizzly Bear, Chromatics, Real Estate, and on.

Food: Indian, Mexican, Thai, Czech (I'm Czech, sort of)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no order

Curiosity
New Things
My messenger bag
Reading
Film
Other people
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
space

color

movies, art, leaving new york, my next article pitch

magic. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jljt5Ml28FU
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
roughly the same person
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I fear sometimes that I am boring and talk too much.

as long as I can't play with them, I don't care about your animals.

willing to admit more, but there's a lot there to admit, I suppose.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Here's the important part:

You're some fermenting combination of laid-back, serious, passionate, playful, weird, thoughtful, and independent.

You'd like to do something:

You want to go to a play, a dance show, museums, the natural history museum, many movies, parks, bars, Montreal—at some point.

Want to trade books and song tips.

You're sorta nice and totally smart but also has claws.

I don't want those protracted, batted game of messages. Doing something is preferred to frittering about and then dropping off. Chat away with me by all means and feel comfortable with me before meeting, but let's prioritize seeing how we do in person. IRL.

You want to grab a coffee and see how it goes.

Best luck, OKCernauts