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29 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:32am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Indonesian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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A. Started out life in the Chicago suburbs. Uni in state. A small world.

B. Did some do-gooding with AmeriCorps for a few years: Bay Area, Boston, New Orleans. I'm 3ish years into an extended New York visit. Moved here for grad school—journalism. (I've since graduated and am now stumbling through some other path.)

E. A childhood of few family travel trips and never camping has flowed into a maturity of tramping dreams and camping plans. (No tent is a limitation).

X. I don't think I'm very funny. Goofy and self-deprecating and slightly sly, but that's not quite humorous. Maybe I'm bemusing.

Q. kind and a little residually nerdy.
What I’m doing with my life
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Writing reviews and essays and working part-time. Broad goal is to get better at the former.

Trying to hike more, read more, fill out a little bit. The dead air in my days is too much.

I like doing things in this city. Plays, museums, movies. Being inactive for a more than a day here gets me down. But being here for too long gets me down, too.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
talking—riffing on all things, running off on spirited tangents

Remembering things—dates, names, titles—and now forgetting some...

Being a nebbish dilettante.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm thin—i prefer lithe/lithesome
I have a beard.
I can be a real talker.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Here are some thoughts.

Randy Newman has been on the playlist along with Grouper

Podcasts are a big part of my day.

Books: Borges, Poe. j Didion and j Malcolm. Non-fiction a bit, Harpers, New Yorker, NYT.

Movies: ozu, Badlands, Beaches of Agnes, La Jatee, Enter the Void, Godfather I and II, Road Warrior, Jaws, Alien, and on

Shows: Twin Peaks, Seinfeld, it's always sunny

Music: War on Drugs, Replacements, Galaxie 500, Joy Division, Beatles, Antlers, Hank Willams, Theolonious Monk, Zombies, Deerhunter, Beach House, Grizzly Bear, Chromatics, Real Estate, Debussy, Satie, Glass, John Luther Adams, and on.

Food: All things but spicy is nice. Indian, Mexican, Thai, Czech (I'm Czech, sort of)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My messenger bag
Other people
Travel (subway, boat, plane, hovercraft)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
war and space

wolly bears, waterbears

what to do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Getting to not care that it's Friday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Like Marty McFly I occasionally fall asleep in my clothes. Been doing it for years.

I am not all ooey-gooey for cats and dogs. Like em. Will pet em. Will cuddle em. But am just fine without em. Would love a tarsier as a pet, but let the animals be wild.

Dancing and me are an odd couple.
You should message me if
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Are damn smart, sharp, a feminist, a reader, a movie person, maybe knows the name(s) of their neighbor(s).

Can forage and want to share maybe poisonous things with me.

Are a sharer, a carer.

Burns with conversation and some ardor. Really. I love talking and don't need you to listen. Shoot me down if you must and take the reins. Don't be a blase bore.