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29 M Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Indonesian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm from the midwest, a boy of the burbs. Stumbled around do-gooding with AmeriCorps here and there for a few years: Bay Area, Boston, New Orleans. I'm now almost 2 years into a New York sojourn after moving here for a grad school journalism degree. (I've since graduated and am now stumbling through some other path.)

I'm kind of an anxious person, but can definitely be seen laid-back. ( I probably over-think things, which is helpful (and kinda charming) in my position: writing. I can cook alright, but I don't know how to bake. I love music, but don't dance. Still a little nerdy. Maybe weird. I like sports. In a Grantland way. I'm nice. And sadly, yes, nice and sincere. Travels and camps well. Let's go hiking.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Looking to figure things out and perhaps have a good time along the way.

Striving to be a better writer, reader, thinker, and person; maybe making my way up the journo-ladder.

I try to write about film, photography, and books.

[Forgetting to log out of OKCupid on public computers. I should be glad people don't do worse to my profile than this.] saving this for posterity.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being talkative and riffing on all things.

Remembering things—dates, names, titles—and now forgetting some...

Being a nebbish dilettante.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I talk a lot—voluminously and discursively.
I'm thin—i prefer lithe/lithesome
I have a beard.
I know a lot of stuff.
I'm nice—it's hard to hide.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Lately I've been into The Wrens and podcasts—Criminal, the gist, planet money, radiolab, memory palace, tal, judge john hodgman

Books: Lord of the Flies, The Road, Into the Wild, Borges, Poe, My Name is Red. Non-fiction a bit, Harpers, New Yorker, NYT.

Movies: ozu, Tree of Life, La Jatee, The Apartment, Duck Soup, Jules and Jim, Small Change, Let the Right One In, Enter the Void, Godfather I and II, Sunset Bwld, Ran, Road Warrior, Jaws, Blue Velvet, Alice (Jan S.), Alien, and on

Shows: Bob's you know what, Twin Peaks, Seinfeld, it's always sunny, Louie

Music: Replacements, Joy Division, Beatles, Antlers, Hank Willams, Theolonious Monk, Zombies, Deerhunter, Beach House, Grizzly Bear, Chromatics, Real Estate, and on.

Food: Indian, Mexican, Thai, Czech (I'm Czech, sort of)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no order

New Things
My messenger bag
Other people
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
war and space

wolly bears, waterbears, sun bears, and sloths of all sorts, esp giant ones.

and lately—how and why I killed a personally beloved character in The walking dead game. And what this means.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Like Marty McFly I occasionally fall asleep in my clothes. Been doing it for years.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Want to watch horror and scary movie flicks. +100 points if you do.

O and...

You're some parts laid-back, weird, thoughtful, and independent.

You want to grab a coffee and see how it goes. (and maybe watch a scary movie.)

Best luck, OKCernauts