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33 Shanghai, China Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 29–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 22
Body type
Other, and laughing about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English, Chinese

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My self-summary
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What I’m doing with my life
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2nd time entrepreneur, testing how much further the world can stretch for me lol
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
A lot of thing and be humble about it...
The first things people usually notice about me
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Calm and cool
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movie: Before sunset, before sunrise, Dazed & Confused, Waking life; Clerk; Transpotting; Exit from the gift shop; Woody Allen, all of Quentin Taratino's, anything from Wes Anderson, Spike Jones; The perfect Human;Cai Ming Liang, all of Edward Yang's(Yang Dechang), Wang Jiawei

Books: Usually non-fiction... but I'm a huge fan of Haruki murakami though, simply beautiful.

TV shows:Recently i'm into House of cards, Scandals, The boss, house of lies, The girls,The Good Wife etc. I love British humor!The Office (UK), Absolutely Fabulous, An idot abroad, Daria

Music is my passion, i love almost all kinds of music except the bad ones, favorite artists/bands:Pink Floyd, The Cure, New Order, Talking head, David Byrne, Nicolas Jarr, Tom Waits, Prins Thomas, Todd Terji, Lindstrom, Flako, Four Tet, Jamie Lidell, Utitur, Metronomy, Basti Grub, James Blake, Radiohead, Portishead, Hot Chip, Caribou, Cut Copy, Woodkids, Prince, The family, Ella Fitzgerald, there are too many to list here!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
friends,love,family,music,humor,travel, inspiration,challenge, that's def more than 6 lol
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how and why
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying not to work
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Trying NOT to sound weird or blonde..but i'm actually sweet and cute under that sarcastic shell.
You should message me if
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Want to hang out and be silly together