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23 Lake Saint Louis, MO Man


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  • Ages 21–25
  • Near me
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Last online
Today – 11:18am
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Atheism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), C++ (Fluently), LISP (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I live an active, busy life and overbook myself intentionally. My friends tell me to relax once in a while and I do my best not to listen.

My life is programming, frisbee, and Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. If you're somehow also interested in all of these things, we share the same brand of insanity and I would absolutely love to meet you.

Psychology is fun to think about and though the major tests are all pretty much worthless, they're pretty fun as well. So that being said, and if you still care I'm an ESTJ, which makes me a good leader, but only when no one else wants to be, stubborn when I have to be, and mostly good at analyzing and handling social dynamics, even if I sometimes don't want to be in them myself.
What I’m doing with my life
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Work is boring, but (throwing modesty to the wind) I'm pretty good at it. Recently I've been practicing BJJ 4-6 days a week so that takes most of my free time. My roomates and I just went skiing in Colorado and are planning a return trip next winter - it's easily the most fun I've ever had!

In the other bits of free time I have, I'm building a bottle cap table, putting together a 3000-piece 3D puzzle, playing board games, trying to find someone else who wants to go skydiving, and being a Royals fan in the middle of "Cardinal Nation."
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Ultimate Frisbee, skiing, climbing, avoiding terrible watery beer (I'm looking at you Budweiser, Miller, and Coors), and stealing (then poorly re-telling) jokes.

And being different. Who wants to be normal; there's nothing exciting or new happening if everyone else is already there!
The first things people usually notice about me
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...are that I'm hyper-ultra-competitive and that I view absolutely everything as a game or contest.

Strong optimism about everything but government, a natural tendency to view things logically, and my fairly awful fashion sense are probably the other things you'd see. But let me know if it's something else.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Harry Potter series, Eragon Series, House of Leaves, Ender's Game series, Moneyball

Shows: The League, iZombie, HIMYM, Walking Dead, Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D., BMS. I'm not ashamed to admit that I find dumb, perverted college humor hilarious and love movies and shows that use it. (Looking at you Seth Rogan.)

Movies: The Guardian, The Great Escape, the new Batman trilogy, Dodgeball, Inception, The Adjustment Bureau. Anything that either makes you think hard about something, ties action into a good story, or does an exceptionally good job at dumb humor.

Music: Anything but "ghetto rap," slow country, or repetitive hip hop, works for me - I have about 50 wildly different Pandora stations. Favorites are The Offspring, Toby Keith, Flogging Molly, Ludo, The Shins, and movie soundtracks (look up Hans Zimmer). I do enjoy pop music; judge me if you want.

Food: Okra is a terrible food. Seriously, it's not even that healthy and tastes terrible to boot. Beyond that, I'll try anything once. Applesauce, anything with a lot of cheese and spicy tang, and pulled pork are my favorites. I was vegetarian for a few years, completely respect that decision, and still eat very little meat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-- The internet and my computer. It's good to be a nerd.

-- BJJ. Mentioned it thrice now. It's a wonderful thing - workouts, brotherhood, and a sink for my incredibly competitive spirit all in one.

-- Cell phone. Not even kidding; it's almost a necessity.

-- Sleep. I simply do not understand how people survive on less than 5 hours of sleep a night.

-- Puzzles and logic problems. No seriously, I once bought a book not to read it but to solve the puzzle contained within it.

-- Intelligence. So I kind of naturally have very little respect for unintelligent people and it's the only thing that would make me a bad person that I don't really feel bad about.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-- How to make myself a better person.

-- Why people don't consistently change their opinion when proven wrong. And how easy it is to educate oneself with "The Google" when such a person tries to explain said opinion with faulty logic.

-- Why everyone in the Walking Dead can only speak in a dramatic tone of voice.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
usually hanging out with friends - it's been a long time since I've had a quiet Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm naturally lazy. I hate that about myself, it's obviously unattractive, and I try my hardest to fight it day in and day out.

Honestly though, I don't really have anything that I feel the need to hide from people. If you want to know, feel free to ask.
You should message me if
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you can challenge me intellectually,
you know who killed Rose Red,
you can successfully submit me with an armbar,
or you know, you want to.