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24 Lake Saint Louis, MO Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21-25
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:53am
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Atheism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), C++ (Fluently), LISP (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
You know how hard it is to sum up everything about yourself. The rest of my profile pointedly answers questions. But here's a list of the things that are the biggest parts of my life:
- My family
- Work (9-5 job, as a programmer)
- Board games
- Identity as an Atheist
- The outdoors and ties to my old Venturing Crew
- A strong drive for both tons of social interaction and tons of quiet time
- Reddit
- Nerdy stuff
- Environmentalism and Recycling
- Intellectualism (Maybe the only dude I know to find intelligence to be the most attractive thing about a person)
- Electric blankets
- Good beer and good wine

Alright, onto the real profile if you identify with any of those things and might still be interested...

I live an active, busy life and overbook myself intentionally. My friends tell me to relax once in a while and I do my best not to listen.

My life is programming, the outdoors, nerd culture, and Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. If you're somehow also interested in all of these things, we share the same brand of insanity and I would absolutely love to meet you.

Psychology is fun to think about, so if you care about the Myers-Briggs, I'm an ESTJ. That basically means I'm a solid leader and the life of the party....but only if no one else claims those roles first.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've been practicing BJJ 4-6 days a week, working, reading novels my friends suggest, running, and occasionally spending too much time on Reddit.

In the other bits of free time I have, I'm building a bottle cap table, putting together a 3000-piece 3D puzzle, playing board games (Android: Netrunner, anyone?), trying to find someone else who wants to go skydiving, and being a Royals fan in the middle of "Cardinal Nation."
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Skiing, climbing, board games, poorly re-telling jokes, puns, and cooking everything except ribs, which turn out black and charred every single time.

And being different. Who wants to be normal; there's nothing exciting or new happening if everyone else is already there!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
...are that I'm hyper-ultra-competitive and that I view absolutely everything in life as a game or contest.

I'm honestly not sure what else people notice first; folks have mentioned that my eyes always show my true feelings, so those wonderful after-h's? (Eh? Eh?)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Harry Potter series, Eragon Series, House of Leaves, A song of Ice and Fire, The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo, Moneyball

Shows: The League, iZombie, HIMYM, Walking Dead, Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D., BMS. I'm not ashamed to admit that I find dumb, perverted college humor hilarious and love movies and shows that use it. (Looking at you, Seth Rogan.) That being said, I generally prefer shows that make a person think.

Movies: The Guardian, The Great Escape, the new Batman trilogy, Dodgeball, Inception, The Adjustment Bureau. Anything that either makes you think hard about something, ties action into a good story, or does an exceptionally good job at dumb humor.

Music: Anything but "ghetto rap," slow country, or repetitive hip hop, works for me. Nightcore, mashups, pop country, and classic rock tend to be my go-tos.

Food: I follow a fairly strict diet and really care about what goes into my body and how I feel. When I do pull a human and cheat on that diet, it tends to be with pizza, chocolate milk, or a good glass of wine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-- The internet and my computer. It's good to be a nerd.

-- BJJ. Mentioned it thrice now. It's a wonderful thing - workouts, brotherhood, and a sink for my incredibly competitive spirit all in one.

-- Cell phone. Not even kidding; it's almost a necessity.

-- Sleep. I simply do not understand how people survive on less than 5 hours of sleep a night.

-- Puzzles and logic problems. No seriously, I once bought a book not to read it but to solve the puzzle contained within it.

-- Intelligence. So I kind of naturally have very little respect for unintelligent people and it's the only thing that would make me a bad person that I don't really feel bad about.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-- How to make myself a better person.

-- Why people don't consistently change their opinion when proven wrong. And how easy it is to educate oneself with "The Google" when such a person tries to explain said opinion with faulty logic.

-- Why everyone in the Walking Dead can only speak in a dramatic tone of voice.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
usually hanging out with friends - it's been a long time since I've had a quiet Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have 2 3D puzzles serving as decoration in my room.

There's nothing I really need to hide. I'm an open book - AMA!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you can challenge me intellectually,
you know who killed Rose Red,
you can successfully submit me with an armbar or RNC,
you want to PM_ME_YOUR_MESSAGE,
or you know, you want to.