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33 New Orleans, LA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 32–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 8
Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Not at all
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Hello, Nola. Your friendly neighborhood hooch slinger here. A little about myself:

Have a deep affection for art, music, theater and film (but unlike a lot of other creative types, I do have an "OFF" switch, relax). I really believe in the power of good performance, quality musicianship and sincerity in art. Also, language stuff. I tutored ESL twice a week at the Jax library for a year and loved it. It's the first job I ever had that didn't feel like work.

I like people, laughing at terrible media, TV programs and keeping clean. I'm a registered Democrat. I believe in being exceedingly polite, ALWAYS, because it's an easy way to make a difference and it costs nothing, requires very little effort.

I also sing, mostly country western. Oh, and I love New Orleans so, so much. Really happy to be back. (Ask.)

I do not have any tattoos, but find them attractive on others. I like to dress up and very much enjoy being a girl.
What I’m doing with my life
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I love singing, I am taking acting classes and look forward to the day when my Mom can spot "Cop with bearclaw #4" on NCIS and be all, "ZOMG MY BABY IS A STAR!!" I'm serious, that would really be a hoot for me. I'm not looking to win an Emmy, folks, I just love performing, I've got good instincts and even a very modest bit of success would be enough to satisfy that facet of my identity.

There's also a big part of me that wants to give back to this place that I love so much, to come to people's rescue and be a force of compassion, so I'm thinking very seriously about going to school to become an EMT next summer. I've missed the deadline for the Spring, started sorting through some personal stuff and gave my brains a good scrub and I guess deep down I just want to be sure I've got the emotional fortitude to handle that special New Orleans blend of tragedy, violence and general human misery. I'm confident that even if I were to just squeeze my eyes shut and dive in I'd find it somewhere along the way (I always do through some miracle), but you know, adulthood. Made a lot of rash career choices in my twenties and I'd like for this next one to stick. :)

Other than that, I spend most of my time reading the paper, preparing for the personal renaissance that's in the mail, and hanging with my dog.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
horseback riding (Western), crossword puzzles, reciting world capitals, applying lipstick, teaching ESL, pub trivia, waiting tables, karaoke.
The first things people usually notice about me
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the hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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These things matter.

BOOKS: The Right Stuff by Tom Wolfe (ANYTHING by Tom Wolfe, really, but TRS is my favorite), The Gum Thief by Douglas Coupland, Out by Natsuo Kirino, A Confederacy of Dunces by John Kennedy Toole, Johnny Got his Gun by Dalton Trumbo, Trainspotting by Irvine Welsh, The Raw Shark Texts by Steven Hall

MOVIES: The Host (Korean), American Splendor, Thirst (love Park Chan-wook), Ed Wood, Jaws, Amadeus, Paradise Now, Memento, Pan's Labyrinth, Hot Fuzz, Singin In The Rain, All That Jazz, Lenny, several trillion others..

MUSIC: Talking Heads, Ween, Pulp, Belle and Sebastian, Loretta Lynn, Hazel Dickens, Charlie Poole, Queen, Allen Toussaint, Bowie, Blur, Morrissey, Leonard Cohen, Magnetic Fields.

TV: PEEP SHOW!!! (I'm obsessed, truly), Bob's Burgers, Broad City, Twin Peaks, Breaking Bad, Louie, South Park, The Inbetweeners, GOT, It's Always Sunny, That Mitchell and Webb Look, The IT Crowd, MST3K, Strangers With Candy, King of The Hill, Comedy Bang Bang

FOOD: Mostly vegetarian, but I'm not a real pain in the ass about anything except pork.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My dog, Louie Lafitte. <3
iPod / Spotify
seeing the sun (tried living in Oregon. Lasted about 2 years)
ice cream
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what Seoul will look like from my window seat, strategies for living to 120, my dog's well-being and how I can improve as a guardian.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At Neutral Ground or home, watching Netflix, like you.
You should message me if
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you want to be friends first, then possibly more. No dudes who shout "Roll Tide!". No meatballs. No social conservatives. This life is short, so let's all promise to never settle and just get out there and go after what we really want, yeah? :)