As a person, I consider myself fairly outgoing and confident (though actually an introvert), friendly, and quick-witted. I hold my friends to a high standard which leaves me with a small handful, but the people that I am close to I value highly and would do anything for. Humanity and I have a love-hate relationship... I would like to like people, but too many of them suck. I have been dubbed "the friendliest misanthrope." ...but you can call me B00b13Dr46oN. (...if you don't get it you should watch this). I value honesty and believe that communication is the key to any successful relationship, romantic or otherwise.
In a committed (polyamorISH) relationship with this amazing human ----> Jehovatron
Unfortunately, Dan and I are often thrown into the "unicorn hunters" box without a second glance, because we are looking for a woman who would be interested in dating both of us... but from what I've read, I'm not so sure that we deserve that label and all of its negative connotations for at least two reasons:
- First, we're not looking for someone because our relationship or sex life is boring. We have a very stable relationship (been together for almost 8 years) and a healthy sex life, we don't need to "spice it up" or bond over something new to solve a problem.
- Second, we don't have a pre-constructed notion of what shape our relationship would take. We don't have a long list of expectations, desires, and rules all planned out for you - it's all up for discussion and negotiation. Our only "requirements" are that you're interested in dating both of us, that you are STD/I free, and that you are open and honest about your other relationships (if they exist).
We don't require exclusivity.
If you have any questions, please feel free to ask.