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LaJolieFleur

25 F Elkins Park, PA

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Atheism, and very serious about it
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
University
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Korean (Poorly)

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My self-summary
In a committed relationship with this human ----> Jehovatron and it's awesome. Actually, he's pretty much the most amazing guy you'll ever meet, so check him out.

I am currently a professional model (for both artists and photographers) and belly dancer. It pays pretty well and I love it, so I'm happy.

As a person, I consider myself fairly outgoing and confident (though actually an introvert), friendly, and quick-witted. I hold my friends to a high standard which leaves me with a small handful, but the people that I am close to I value highly and would do anything for. Humanity and I have a love-hate relationship... I would like to like people, but too many of them suck. I have been dubbed "the friendliest misanthrope." ...but you can call me B00b13Dr46oN. (...if you don't get it you should watch this).

I am not interested in any relationship games or bullshit, simply looking for a similarly intelligent human female who would be interested in being friends with Dan and me (our relationship is not "open" ...I guess it's more "poly"). Ideally, we hope that the relationship would eventually head in a physical direction, but intellectual compatibility is so much more important than anything else, so the physical stuff is almost not worth mentioning. We'd rather make a new friend that isn't interested in sex than have a fling or a series of one-night-stands.
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying it. Dancing, modeling, spending way too much time on facebook, busying myself with the shameless self promotion bit of freelance modeling.. etc etc.

I've spent the last two months rehabbing a baby squirrel. He's adorable and just about to transition to his pre-release outdoor cage. (I ruined my hands putting it together, this week).

Taking it easy this summer, because I tend to work too hard..
Lighting the outdoor fire pit, roasting hot dogs and marshmallows, having drinks with friends, watching good movies, drinking ALL the coffee...
I’m really good at
I would be really good at having a stimulating conversation, if anyone would ever write back! Most of the people that OkC is matching me with, these days, have chat turned off and this email format is killing me.

Otherwise, I'm really good at:
-Staying positive most of the time.
-Maintaining a healthy appreciation for my body and abilities without letting it get to my head.
-Being a good friend.
-Picking out awesome t-shirts for other people.
-Getting freaked out that I don't have enough work booked for the next month and then overbooking and going crazy.
The first things people usually notice about me
My friendly demeanor and my positive attitude? Actually, unless I'm working, I generally hope that people aren't noticing me... maybe they're noticing my waist-length hair?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Jane Eyre is probably my favorite classic; recently read Fahrenheit 451 and thought it was excellent. Haven't done much "pleasure" reading recently, though. I've been reading a lot of dance education and sustainable-living books.

Movies/series: In no particular order - FIREFLY (and Serenity), Braveheart, the LoTR trilogy, Armageddon, The Fifth Element, The Princess Bride, "V" for Vendetta, Fight Club, Dogma, Moulin Rouge, Titanic and The Notebook (which, I guess, makes me girly... but whatever). I love Babylon 5 and I have seen all StarTrek ever produced. Full Metal Alchemist, Fight Club, Die Hard, The Dark Knight, Ghost in the Shell, the Bourne trilogy, the first Saw movie....

Music: My library has a wide range of genres from country to rap to industrial. My favorite artists are as follows: Evanescence, Linkin Park, Fort Minor, Powerman5000, Nine Inch Nails, Rammstein, Hanzel und Gretyl, Marilyn Manson, Smashing Pumpkins, Within Temptation, and Jonathan Coulton. I also enjoy an occasional musical soundtrack, like Sweeny Todd or Jane Eyre (the Broadway musical). I love opera, especially French Romantic (read: dramatic, everybody dies), but don't listen to it much at present. I am also very fond of my belly dance music - Solace, Beats Antique, Pentaphobe etc. Oh, and the Bastion soundtrack kicks ass.

Food: I'll eat just about anything, but I'm not really into seafood or spicy foods.
AND Dan makes the best potato soup and beef jerky that ever existed.....

Games: Portal, Mirror's Edge, Artemis, Braid, GTA 4, Minecraft, StarCraft and StarCraft II, Sniper Elite, Puzzle Kombat, Age of Empires (Rise of Rome expansion), chess...

Quotes:
"When I got untethered from the comfort of religion, it wasn't a loss of faith for me, it was a discovery of self. I had faith that I'm capable enough to handle any situation. There's peace in understanding that I have only one life, here and now, and I'm responsible."
-Brad Pitt (2009)

"The wise woman patterns her life on the theory and practice of modern banking: she never gives her love, but only lends it on the best security and at the highest rate of interest."
~Henri de Toulouse-Lautrec, Moulin Rouge (1952)

"Fallor ergo sum"
-Augustine

"Every word of the bible IS true. It's only when you start putting them together as sentences that they start getting iffy."
-Majora Luna (2013) comments section here

"You will never agree with any political party 100% and if you do, you're wrong."
-A Wise Man (2012)

"Live and be happy. Do no harm. Leave the world as good as you found it. (Or better, if possible)."
~My personal creed 2012-present
The six things I could never do without
Dan, our kitty-children, technology, a creative outlet, intelligence, meat and other delicious animal products.

Today, I decided that my favorite things are:
Going out for coffee.
Long night-time walks in the Summer.
Being barefoot.
Spending time with friends around the fire-pit.
Cuddles (from humans and from kitties).
Quietly appreciating beautiful sunsets.
Working - because I do what I love for a living... and
Really awesome thunderstorms.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why everyone is so fucking obsessed with labeling themselves and "identifying as..." which just makes it easy for other people to throw them into stereotype-boxes..

Also, dance, things that I need to get done, current social and political issues, and ways to live more sustainably/get off the grid/ways to maintain my current standard of living plus gain some "security" minus work more
On a typical Friday night I am
Relaxing with Dan somewhere. Potentially listening to "Tales from the Afternow" in the dark.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a really hard time initiating conversation with new people. I'm fine once the ball is rolling, but I probably laboured over that message that I sent you for nearly half an hour. Appreciate.

Last summer, I had a "trophy belt" made of safety pins with tick bodies on them... actually, it was only one safety pin with three or four ticks on it.. but I did wear it on the waistband of my yoga pants every once in a while.
I’m looking for
  • Bi girls only
  • Ages 21–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
...you would be interested in getting to know Dan and me.
...you know that I used the correct pronouns in my previous sentence.
...you know why it's awesome that I named my grey kitty Valen and that Dan named his black cat Ravage.
...you want to be exposed to the 80s rock band that Brian Cox was a part of.
...you know who Brian Cox is, and why the above statement is awesome.
...or if you just feel like chatting. Nerds/gamers preferred. ;)

Please no trans-
I am not anti-trans; I am happy for you to be happy, but you are not what I'm looking for. It's not that Dan and I wouldn't be interested in having a trans friend or a few trans friends, but we are actively looking for someone with whom we could be involved both intellectually AND physically and, while (if I *had* to choose a label) I identify as pansexual, Dan is straight and is turned off by the idea of being physical with someone who used to be male.

*Persons with children and/or religion need not apply.*