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LaVidaSBella

27 Los Angeles, CA Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:01am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Thin
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Income
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I love to experience events in life as they come and learn from each one. (Not an innuendo for sex) Sometimes said experiences suck, yeah, but most things happen for a reason and I just try to always revert to that concept. Life is too short and sweet not to savor every bit of it. I just try to enjoy my day and be happy about it, not stressed out or angry.

I was brought up to be versatile and understanding but to voice my opinion and that leads to me probably doing so more often than I should. But hey, I have faults and am in no way perfect. You shouldn’t think you are either...

It'd be fantastic if you enjoy cooking as well and can make me laugh. Laughing is crucial, if not mandatory. :)
What I’m doing with my life
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Exploring Los Angeles. I need to find new places to hang out and meet some good people.

Researching, planning, and exploring places to travel to both in the US and overseas. I love venturing to new places to eat and enjoy.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My tattoos get noticed often and also my hair (it's longer now than it is in the pictures).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like books. It might be easier to take a look in my bookcase if you were to enter my apartment.

and I see a movie in a theater at least once a week. Favorites constantly change.

my music taste changes as often as I change my underwear. I’ve had a few people comment on that underwear statement, wondering how often I change them. So, just to point out, I change my underwear more frequently than I would my music preferences.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My passport.
Sensitivity.
Good, positive vibes.
A pet or the two I have.
Creativity.
My comfort.

A few things that make my life more convenient and I enjoy having them...
A back scratcher.
My Keurig.
Remote Controllers.
Q-tips.
Wallets.
Extension cords.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why I’m misunderstood. Then again, is anyone ever really understood?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typical is a tough word. I like variety.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You don't have a mustache. Other facial hair is totally acceptable and sometimes nice.

You make others laugh and enjoy cooking.

You don't suggest meeting for drinks for the first few dates. Such a bonehead move in my opinion. How can you honestly find anything out about a person when the date is influenced by alcohol? Alcohol is fun sure, but definitely not on a first date. If you "need" it to loosen up, you probably have some stuff to overcome before going on a date...