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LacedWithASmile

25 / F / Straight / Married

Las Vegas, Nevada

Her Details

Last Online
May 20
Ethnicity
Middle Eastern, Hispanic / Latin
Height
5′ 1″ (1.55m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Executive / Management
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Farsi (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Pretty much everything you need to know about me has been provided for in the other fields, so this "self-summary" thing is a definite no-go, except by duress from the masses. I should tell you that I am rarely on this site... and by rarely I mean every few months I check my messages. But if you send me a message and seem like someone I care to talk to, I'll give you my contact info.

I am complex, selective, and an information whore

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What I’m doing with my life
Working, going to school and enjoying life. I work at an energy efficiency consulting firm, consulting with builders about green building programs such as LEED and BIG and working with California utilities to provide energy efficiency rebates for builders participating in the California New Homes Program. My company has just decided that they're going to create a new department dedicated to these rebates, and I'm the head of it... yet I don't live in California. I'm also attending college in pursuit of my Master's degree.

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I’m really good at
Creating things, debating, role playing, writing, insulting, problem-solving. I also like to disrespect your autonomy. It's basically my favorite.

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The first things people usually notice about me
I've gotten many comments about my eyes, my grin, and my confidence. People also like to ask about my heritage, most of them being completely unable to tell 'what I am.' It's great watching people try to wrestle with a PC way to ask me about my race. Upon first meeting me, people often think I'm very cold or cruel--until they get used to my sense of humor. I can't tell you how many people tell me their first impression of me was that I'm "really mean" or "intimidating" (WTF) only to find out later that I'm sarcastic and really unusual. And of course people note my height. I'm pretty short.

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
At the risk of sounding girly and immature, my favorite book is "The Last Unicorn", by Peter S. Beagle. It's such a gorgeous, timeless story, and I adore the writing style. His other books and compilations are just as memorable and refreshing. My favorite movies are "Spirited Away", Tampopo and "Hero." Music... hmmm. Mostly rock--classic, metal, and indie. My favorite album is "By The Way" by the Red Hot Chili Peppers. I also love the Foo Fighters, Muse, and Cake. That's not a complete list by any means, but oh well. As for food... I love rich, complex flavors and light, interesting ones like lavender and rose. But not raw tomatoes. Ever, ever, ever. ::shudder::

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The six things I could never do without
Showers, food, water, shelter, stimulating conversation, and romance. In no particular order. If there were an option #7, I think I'd have to put video games.

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On a typical Friday night I am
There is no such thing as a typical Friday night.

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Um. Nothing. I'll tell you things if I like you.

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I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–32
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You're sweet, articulate, interesting, and fun to talk to. I love intelligent conversation, but that doesn't mean you need to compile an academic program for me--I'm a student, I can get that any time. If that's really your thing, though, I'm a big fan of passive solar design. ALSO: please do not message me if you are looking for a relationship or someone to flirt with. I'm married to the man I love and I assure you, I am not even remotely interested in anyone else. I DO NOT respond to woos, etc., regardless of whether you seem like someone I could like. If you want to befriend me, message me. If you want to hook up, seek someone else.

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