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29 F San Jose, CA

I’m looking for

  • All who like bi women
  • Ages 21–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a geeky transgender woman from the south bay. I am obviously pretty liberal leaning but I still get a little weirded out by people who are really into astrology and tarot cards. I like folks of all sorts of gender identities, sometimes even more so if you like to bend those rules a bit.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in the video game industry and some evenings I do stand-up comedy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My job, crafting diabolical plots and talking about weird stuff in front of strangers.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I can't talk about my favorite movie, it's against the first two rules.
I have a truly eclectic taste in music, my latest album of choice is the Guardians of the Galaxy soundtrack.
I usually go for science-fiction novels when the urge to read strikes me. The Moon is a Harsh Mistress is one of my favorites.
EVE Online is my favorite important internet spaceship game.
Archer makes me laugh harder than anything else on television. Always Sunny is up there too.
I'm a sucker for great Mexican food.
Doug Stanhope is the best comic I've ever heard, dead or alive.
I saw his show at a Mexican restaurant and swore I'd died and gone to heaven.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My sense of humor. It's dark, depraved, not terribly PC and I like it that way.
My dog. Not really a "thing" but he's an adorable black pug/chi/dachshund who greets me everyday like I cured dog cancer. I don't know how the rest of you live without him.
My bike. Lets me commute and exercise at the same time.
My hair. Trust me, I'm much better with hair.
Technology. My livelihood depends on it and I'm looking forward to self-driving cars.
Six hours of sleep. Gotta have at least six.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Is Todd Glass ok?
Is it better to be original or authentic?
What was my dog's life like before I had him?
Was his name Fruitcake? Did he like that name better?
Why is Netflix trying to integrate social features? Some things just shouldn't be done.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going to a comedy show, relaxing at home, maybe blowing up some internet spaceships.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have some idea what "transgender" means.
You don't like polo shirts. Those are a hard limit for me. Briefs too. Bleh.
You don't think it's weird that I froze my DNA. Cuz I did.
You don't mind that I don't care who knows I'm trans unless it compromises my safety.
You're not afraid of introducing a girl like me to your friends and family.
You can handle the fact I may one day tell jokes about an anonymous version of you.
You want something serious, but don't want to rush into anything.
You don't smoke cigarettes. I used to and dating a regular smoker would be difficult. I don't care if you smoke weed.
You're interested, even if you think I might not be, I'm never mean to folks who are interested... though sometimes I just don't respond.

I especially tend to ignore generic sounding messages that don't reference some specific portion of my profile. The best way to get my attention is to show me that you're paying attention.